心软的女人怎么挽回？挽回怎么做

　　fenshoushiyijianfeichangtongkudeshiqing，dangwomenshiqulewomensuoaiderenshi，womenhuigandaofeichangxintonghewuzhu。raner，ruguonirengranxiangai，buyaoqingyifangqi，yinweiyoukenenghuifufenshou。benwenjiangcongduogejiaodujinxingxinruandenvrenzenmewanhuifenxi，bingfenxiangyixiehuifufenshoudefangfahejiqiao。

　　1、认真思考分手的原因

　　zaihuifufenshoudeguochengzhong，shouxianyaorenzhenkaolvfenshoudeyuanyin。zhiyoulejiefenshoudeyuanyin，womencainengcaiquyouzhenduixingdecuoshi。ruguonidewentidaozhilefenshou，neimenixuyaozixifansinizijidewenti，bingcaiqucuoshilaijiuzhengta。ruguoduifangdewentidaozhilefenshou，neimenixuyaozhaodaoduifangdewentibingbangzhuduifangchulita。

　　2、改变自己

　　ruguonixianghuifufenshou，neimenixuyaogaibianziji。ruguonizaifenshouqianyouyixiequexian，neimenixuyaozhaodaotamenbingjiuzhengtamen。ruguonizaifenshouhouyishidaolezheigewenti，neimenixuyaorenzhenfansinizijidewenti，bingcaiqucuoshilaijiuzhengtamen。

　　3、互相沟通

　　ruguonixianghuifufenshou，neimenixuyaohuxiangjiaoliu。zaiyuduifanggoutongdeguochengzhong，nixuyaozixiqingtingduifangdejianyi，bingshitulijieduifangdexiangfa。nixuyaogaosuduifangnidexiangfa，bingshizhechuliduifangdewenti。zaiyuduifanggoutongdeguochengzhong，nixuyaolixing，buyaofapiqi。

　　4、保持联系

　　ruguonixianghuifufenshou，neimenixuyaobaochilianxi。zaibaochilianxideguochengzhong，nixuyaojinliangbimiantaolunfenshoudehuati，bingshitujiduifangdailaikuaile。xinruandenvrenzenmewanhui？ninkeyitongguofasongduanxin、youjiandengfangshiyuduifangbaochilianxi。

　　5、给对方时间和空间

　　ruguonixianghuifufenshou，neimenixuyaojiduifangshijianhekongjian。fenshouhou，duifangkenengxuyaoyiduanshijianlengjingsikao，youhuaqingxu。nixuyaozunzhongduifangdexuanze，jiduifangzugoudeshijianhekongjian。