如果下定决心分手的女人能挽回吗

　　dangnidenvpengyougaosunitabuzaixihuannishi，zheijiangshiyicilingrenxinsuidejingli。xiadingjuexinfenshoudenvrennengwanhuimaraner，jishiyiqiesihudoujieshule，rengranyouyixiefangfakeyibangzhunihuifuzheiduanguanxi。yixiashicongbutongdejiaodulaifenxiruheshituzhengjiuta。

　　1.观察是否有显著变化

　　zaishituzhengjiunidenvpengyouzhiqian，qingshuxitazuijindezhuangtai。tadeshenghuofashenglebianhuama？tadegongzuo、xuexiao、yujiarenhuopengyoudeguanxifashenglebianhua？gezhongyinsukenenghuidaozhitadeqingganbutongbu，suoyizixiguanchatadexianzhuangyouzhuyujiashenniduitaxianzhuangdelijie。

　　2.记住她所关心的

　　zhengjiunidenvpengyouxuyaonilejieta，youqishitaganxingqudedongxi。nikenengzhidaotaguanxindedifanghuotaqidaideweilai，zhuazhutaxihuandedongxi，bangzhutazhaodaotadereqing。zheiyouzhuyuzhongjianqingganlianxi。

　　3.讨论你的感受

　　zheiduinilaishuoshiyigefeichangtongkudeshike。shizhelengjingditaolunnideganshouhetaduinideyingxiang。nikeyiwentashifounenglijienizheiduanshijiandeganshou。yidantalijielenideganshou，takenenghuibeigandong，zixikaolvnideguanxi。

　　4.给她留个空间

　　suirannizhendehenxiangjiunidenvpengyou，danyoubiyaojitayixieshijianqusikao。zaizheigeguochengzhong，nikeyirangzijibiandegenghao，danyekeyibiaomingniyoujuexinhuifunideganqing。zheiyeshiyigejihui，rangnidenvpengyouzhidaomeigerenzhijiandegehe。

　　5.记得解决问题

　　dangnikaishizhongxinxiangchushi，buyaowangjinimenzhijiandewenti。ruguoniyourenhezhengchao、maodunhuowenti，nixuyaochulitamen。tongguochulinidewenti，nikeyijianligengqinmideguanxi。xiadingjuexinfenshoudenvrennengwanhuimaliru，ruguoniyougoutongwenti，nixuyaoqingtingta，rangtagandaoanquan。