婚姻潜规则有哪些？是谁谋杀了你的婚姻

 hunyinrutongyibeinaicha，nongchundanyeshikuwei.fuqizhijiandemeirirenwujiushishuorangzheibeixianmokafeijinkenengdeshifangxiangchun，pinweikuweihoudeweier. hunyinqianguize younaxie?nizhidaoruhejieduhunyinmimame?

相互之间猜忌

 “henwancaihuijiale，hewosheiyouhuilaidao?”laogongyihuijiale，laopojiubuduandifantadeshoujishang，chayanyoumuyoumoshengrendelianxidianhuaheroumadeduanxiaoxi，naizhidangtayuyixingpengyouzaiduoyijuhuayecuyijiansheng。

 pingjia：fufuqianwanbiexianghuzhijianchize，yingdanggenjugoutongjiaoliuxianglingyifanggenggai，liangrenjianjiandixianglingyifangrongru，jiuhuixunzhao1gexindeqihedian。jinjibubiyougengxingaizaolingyifangdeniantou，neiyangzuoshitulaowugongde，youyurengaibianxianzhuangdoumeibanfa，genghekuangshigenggai1gejiazhong。

一心索要

 “jiehunhoudejiawuquanshiduziyigerengan，talianwanyebuxi1ge，quekekewoqiehuangguakuaihenda，zheiyicaitangjiaduole，nagecaiyanyoufangshaole。”

 pingjia：nizhidaoruhejieduhunyinmimame?fufubixujilaoneiyangyiduanhua：“younulicaiyoushouyi。”ruguoniconglingyifangneidedaoguanhuaishi，haiyaoyongyuyanhuogongjianlaibiaoshuduilingyifangdeganxie。biru，danglaopoyijingjiawulaodongshi，jibiannichaburumen，shilizaibianshanghetashuoshuohua，shuoju“nixinku”，rangtajuedelaodongzhedeshiyongjiazhihuodelaogongdechongzurentong。huoxu，jiaruzaijiawulaodongshijuedezheishizheifenkuchashi，neimashibiegan。youyuyueganqingxuyuecha，bingqiehaisuishisuidihuibaneifenhuaiqingxudangzuoweigonglingyifangdedingshizhadan。

未予迁就

 xuduozhichangnvxingzaijiaolvbuangongzuozhongmeitianyihou，yeyaoriyejianchengdiganqujiazhufan，yijingcantingchufangfanmangshi，yinweilaogongzaiqiyeshoulelingdaoganbudeqi，yijinmenchujiugangkaishifapiqi：“henwanle，ruhehaimeiyougaohaofan，nidouzuoshenmele?”

 pingjia：danglingyifangnaopiqideneishihou，yaojiyuxuyoudeqianjiu，“nijianxinmeitian，xianpaobalian，fanlikejiuxing”shishide“xiaofangqi”。huoxu，xuanxiexiaojiqingxudelingyifangyingdangchangchangquzuoyizuoduanlianshenti，rangyuanhensuihanyeyikuaierhuifadiao，huoshizaixiaohebianheshanlinlidengmeiyourendediqugaohanjisheng。

恶语伤人

liangkouziyikuaierjiachequshangxiaban，nvxingyilushangkuanghan，“niyoubingshifou?neiyanggaosu，niyaosiwodoubuyuansini!”

 pingjia：fufugengyaoxianghuzhijianzhongshi，shuohuayaojilingyifangliubixutuilu。bunenghaowuguji，xiangqinaxiequeshuonaxie，shifentaiguodehua“pohuaili”taiqiang，neiyangjiuhuijilingyifangchanshenggongzuoyali、biequ。

互相为他人着想

 xuduorenchangmaiyuan，“zongsuanyoudengdaolibaitian，shanggexingqipeitaqujiaojile，zheigexingqitazonggaiguanzhewoyixiaxia，peizhewoquguangjiele，danshitayouyoupenyouwanhun，haifeidelazhewoyaoqu。”

 hunyinqianguizeyounaxie?pingjia：jiarumeigerenlizaizishendeshijiao，neimakannantideshixianjiuyuelaiyuefeichangxiaxiao。dangmaodundaolaideneishihou，yaoqianjiulingyifang，duolizailingyifangdeshijiaoqukaolvdaonanti，neiyang2geyouxiurencainengxunzhao1gehemudetupokou。

忽略老公

 xuduonvshiyouxiaohaihou，jiuhulvelelaogongdecunyou，basixuquanfangdaoxiaohaizideshoushang，yixiangzhebaxiaohaiyangyuhao，naizhizaiganqingshanggengyilaixiaohai。zheiranglaogongganjuechukaixiaohai，laopodeneixinyeyouzishendebuweima?

 pingjia：dangxiaohaizhangdayihou，fufujiububibasixuquanfangdaoxiaohaishoushang。zairichangshenghuozhongyingyifufuweiguanlizhongxin，zhinengsanfentianxiadejiazhongcaizuipingwen。ruguolaogongzhangqixingshiqukaolv，jiuhuidaowaibianxunzhaoqingganshiyong，neiyangfeichangrongyichuxianhunhouchugui，huishifuqiguanxichuxianweiji。

长期性冷暴力

“huijialehou，tajiuzuozhediannaoqianshangwangliaotianhuoshidayouxi，benzhimeiliwo。”

 pingjia：henduoqinggan、hunyindeliekaidoushiyilengdangangkaishide。lengdanshihunhoushenghuozhongzuikongbude，lengbaolishijiantaizhang，jiuhuiyoulingyifangyanjuanzheileiqingkuang，danfangmianzhanshi“mianzhanpai”，yaobutiaoxuantaozou，yaobutoudaoxinzhixindehuaili。

 hunyinqianguizeyounaxie?bixububixiaoqiaozheizhongxiaoguanjiandian，zheizhongrichangshenghuonibuzhibujuedegerenxingwei，weimanchangyoukenenghuizhishidajiadehunyinchuxianweiji。