如何挽回初恋女友？

 ruhewanhuichuliannvyou？ruhewanhuinvyouxin？chulianduiyumeigerendexintaieryandoushiyigemeihaodehuiyi，duoshaorenaxiangzhenenggouyishengzhiaiyigerenxiechulianzouruhunyindediantang，erqiechulianshiwomenzuizhenqiedeganqing，duiyuruhequwanhuinvyou,nanruhewanhuinvyougairuhezuoni？

一、让自己换个身份去接近她

 ruhewanhuichuliannvyou，genduifangfenshouhouqianwanbuyaojingchangzhudongqulianxitagengbuyaoyizhizhanzheduifang。wozhidaonihenaita，degentayitianbujianhuixiangshoupishifengleshuiyibanrangniwufahuxi。danshizhaomuqiandexingshieryanlaizhetashoudaoqitaniantouganraodetaiduo，taxuyaoyidingdeshijianqusikaoyuxuanze。suoyizheigeshihougengyinggaigenrubaochiyidingdejulihuanyi zhongfangshiqujiechu :biruweipengyoudeshenfenlianxi。qinmandechangshixingdediujiechuduifangqiebukeyinqiduifangdefangan。

二、树立自信心,重塑更优秀的自己

 nanruhewanhuinvyou，buyaoyinweiduifanggennitichulefenshounijiucongcinideshijielijiushihuntianandi。gengyaozhongxinsuzaodazaoyigezixineryouyouxiudeziji。wulunnimenfenzhudeyuanyinshishenmedanshiyouyidianshibixudechengrende。neijiushinibugouyouxiuruguonidinggouyouxiudehua tazhidaozaiyemeiyouyiyigeyonghaoderennenglaidaitiniduifangyejiubiranshebudehaonierqule。yinggaizhuajinshijiansuzaoyigegengjiaweiyouxiudexingxiang，changshizherangzijideshenghuolifengfuduocaiqilai，diuchangshi、xuexigengduodexinshiwu,rangnibiandegengzhenyoumeili。

三、认识异性,引起对方的注意力

 ruhewanhuinvyouxin，zaisuzaogenghaodexingxianghoujianyinibufangqurenshigengduodeqitayixing。yeliannihuishuowoxianzaixinzhongzhiyoutaxinlixiangdeyezhiyouruhewanhuita:nalihaikanxinqingqurenshiqitanvshengni?qishigaiqiaqiashiwanhuideyigezhongdian。keyiyipengyoudeshenfenqujiechurenshigengduodeqitayixing,cairangduifanggengxianmingderangduifangkandaoniqishizugouyouxiu，wenweichangbukenitongshiyebuhuirangduifangjuedenizheigeputongpengyoudeshenfentaikeyi。

四、二次吸引,感受全新的自己

 ruhequwanhuinvyoulianghoujieduanjiushizhankaiercixiyin。wulunshitongguonazhongfangshiyouqishidangnideqianrenkandao，zainideshenbianhuanraozhexuduoyouxiudenvsheng:bingqieninenggougenzheixienvshengyouhaozirandexiangchudehua”zaitanxinzhongsandinghuichanshenghenduoxiangfa，biru“yuanlaitazheimeyouxiudema？dangchuwozenmejiulikaitaleni”“kanletayuelaiyiyoumeilile”dangnideqiannvfachansheng lezheiyangdexiangruyijingganshoudaolequanxindenifakuanzainishen shangdebianhua。tahuizhujianduinichanshenghaojuanbingzaiyicimanmandebeinixiyin，jiexialainixuyaozuodejiushijinyibuxiyintadezhuyili。

 fenshouqishibingbukepadekepadeshiyongcuolewanhuifangshi，congcigenxinshangrenzaiwujijing。qirenzouduifang;bulunyudaozenmeyangdezuwudouyouyizhongbufenkaidejuexin，neimenimendeganqingbidingshizhongchengjuanshule!