挽回女友有希望吗

 nvyouchuguinengwanhuima？nanrenwanhuinvyounanma？yiduandeganqinglibiantadekaishibuyidingshibicixihuan，guochengyebuyidinghuishiaidesiquhuolai，jiusuanduifangyouduomexiangjixuweihunimenzhijiandeaiqing，zuizhongyeshihuiyinweigandaoxinleipibeierxiangyaofangqi。mianduiganqingdejichubushendeaiqing，tangruofenshoulewanhuinvyounengchenggongma？wanhuinvyouyouxiwangma？

一、反省对方跟你分手的原因

 henduorenfenshoushidouhuitingdaoduifangzheiyangshuo：“wojuedewomenbushihemianqiangzaiyiqiwomenbuhuidedaoxingfu？”lianggerenmeinengyizhijiaowangxiaqujinjinshiyinweibushihema？wanhuinvyounengchenggongma，qishilianggerendefenshoubingfeirucijiandan，xiangyaowanhuiduifangnixuyaorenzhendesikaonimenshenghuozhongsuochuxiandewenti，xunzhaonimenzhijianfenshoudezhenzhengyuanyin。

1、zhangshijianquefalijieyukuanrong。

 meigerendoushihuikewangyouyiduanwanmeideganqing，danwanmeiyuxianshizongyouyiduanchaju。lianggerenzaiyiqimianbulekekepengpeng，danruguoshuangfangzhijiandoushiquefaduibicidekuanrongyulijie，jiuhenrongyidaozhinimenzhijianganqingdepolie。liruyouyuduifanggongzuojiabanshangdeyuangu，bunengjishideheniyiqiqukandianying，nizebeitaweishenmebunengtuidiaogongzuo，jitayizhonggongzuozhongyaohaishiwozhongyaodezheigenanti。zheiyangwangwanghuirangduifangganshoudaonimeiyoulijiedaota，zaitaxuyaogulizhichideshihouniquejitazebei。ruguozhangshijianquefalijieyukuanrong，nimenzaiganqingshangyeshihuiyuezouyueyuanshenzhidaofenshou。dangnikaishiqulijieduifangdeshihouduifangyehuilijieni，dajiaxianghudelijieganqingcaihuigengjiashenhou。

2、缺乏共同点。

 lianggerenxiangyu、xiangshizaidaoxiangai，gangyikaishiduifangshenshangdemouxietedianhuirangnishenshenzhemi，danjingguoyiduanshijiandehuxianglejiezhihou，nikenenghuifaxianduifanghenimeiyouyixiegongtongdedifang，yourencengshuoguo“meiyougongtonghuatideguanxi，zuizhonghaishimianbulefenkaidejieguo”。nixihuantiyuyundongerduifangkenengxihuanqinqishuhua，ruguomeinengjijijishidipeiyangyixiegongtongdeaihao，nimenjiuhuimanmandijiuhuiduibicishiqulexiyinli，nimenzhijiandemaodundianyehuijianjianzengduo，ruguonimenzhijiandedundebudaojiejueyibuxiaoxinjiuhuixianrufenshoudejumian。

3、坏习惯不改。

 henduorenhuishuo“woshenshangdequeyouhenduohuaixiguan，danshiganqingbushixuyaokuanronghelijiema？”zaimouzhongqingkuangxia，ganqingshixuyaobicidekuanronglijie，danshibingbudaibiaoduifangbixuyaozongrongnidehuaixiguan。dangduifangxiwangnihaodeshihou，jiuxiwangnigaidiaohuaixiguan，erniyicicidibugaichudaoduifangdixian，nibujinjinrangtayaneni，gengzhongyaodeyidianshitazainishenshangzhaobudaoanquangan。henifenshoujiushizuizhijiedehouguole。

二、 学会换位思考，理解对方的内心需求

 dangduifangtichufenshoudeshihou，jiushiduinidebumanshiyijingdadaolewufayayi，bixuxuanxiedeshihoule。ruguozheishihounihaiyouzheyibanrendeguanxingsiwei，ziyiweishiderenweicuoderenbuzaini，haixiangyaoqutantaodaodisheiduisheicuodehua，nijiangshinanyiwanhuizheiyiduanaiqingle。wanhuinvyouyouxiwangma，zheishihouniyinggaixuehuizhehuanweisikao，ganqingshishuangfanglianggerendemingbaiduifangxinzhongdexiangfacaishinideshouyaorenwu。

1、zhanzaiduifangdejiaodusikaowenti。

 yifenshoulaijiang，qishishuangfangdoushitongkudeshenzhikenengduifangxinlibianbinihaiyaonanshou。youkenengzheixingweizhishiduifangyishideqihua，duifangzhishixiangyaolengjinglengjingeryi，ruguozheigeshihouniqufanbojiaozhendehuazhihuilingduifangyane，shuangfangdougengjiadenankanbuwaihuhuoshangjiaoyoule。qihuajiukenengjiubianchengzhenhuale！suoyiniyinggaizhanzaiduifangdejiaoduqusikaowenti，zijizuodeshibushizhendecuole，youdeshihouduifangbinigengjiaqingchu！duoweiduifangzhexiangzhiyoudangduifangganshoudaolenidezhencheng，wanhuidechenggonglvjiushangshenglebushao。

2、lijieyuzunzhongduifang。

 lijieyuzunzhongshixianghude，wulunshisheiyebuxiangbierenwujieziji。nvyouchuguinengwanhuima，naomaodundeshihouxuyaojiyuduifangyidingdelijieyuzunzhong。meigerendouyouqixinqingfanzaodeshihou，youdeshigongzuoyalizaochengde，youdeshirenjijiaowangfangmiandekunrao，meidangzheigeshihounijiugengyinggailijieduifangzunzhongduifangbangduifanghuanjieqingxupaiyoujienanjiyuduifangzhichiheguli，zheiyangcaihuirangnimenshuangfangdexiangchugengjiarongqia。

3、jisuobuyuwushiyuren。

 zhumingqinggandashikangnashuoguo：“yaoxiangbaochizhangqiguanxi，zuizhongyaodeshizhuazhuleduifangdexuqiu。”nanrenwanhuinvyounanma，ruguozijidoubuxiangyaode，buyaoqiangjiayuduifangshenshang，yaoxuehuizhaodaoduifangdexuqiujinliangdemanzuduifang。meigerendouyouzijidexinggetedian、xingweifangshi。kenengduifangyinweiaini，chuchufuheni、tingcongni，danzheibingbudaibiaozhenijiuyincikeyisiyiwangweile，renrennaidechengdudoushiyouxiande，bingbushiduifangmeiyoubuman，zhishiduifangdeduliangdaeryi！jiarushuonizhangqijiduifangshiyaneimenijiushizaitiaozhanduifangdedixian！dangnihuirangduifanggandaozhixideshihouyeshinimenzheiduanganqingdaotoudeshihoule。zheijiushisuhuasuoshuodeyouyapojiuhuiyoufankangzheimeyihuishi。suoyiniyinggaixuehuikongzhizijideyuwangbujiduifangshijiayali，zheiyejiuxiangdangyujianshaolenimenshuangfangzhijianmaodundefashengle。

 xiangyaowanhuiduifangbuguanshidangchudeganqingshenhouyufou，congnixiangyaowanhuideneiyikekaishideshihou，nijiudeyaorenzhenfanshengdangchubeifenshoudeyuanyin，ranhouzhenduiyuanyinqugaibianziji，zhiyoudangnibiandegengyouxiyinlishi，nicaiyouxiyintadekeneng。