女友不爱，挽回女友困难吗？

 wanhui，yizhishiqingganlingyulinandu，haoshizuizhang，zuikaoyanshijianjinglideshiqing，jishishizheiyang，yijiuyourenduiguowangdeganqingbaoyouzhinian，niannianbuwangdixiangyaoheshiqudelingyibanpojingzhongyuan。neime，nikenenghuiwenwanhuinvyoukunnanma？zhendekeyinengwanhuinvyouma？kunengwanhuinvyouma？nvyoubuaiwanhuima？zheiyixiliedewenti，qishi，wanhuishiyoufangfade，neimexiamianyouxiaobianlaigaosuniba。

一，避免挽回中的错误认识

1、likainiwojiuhuobuxiaqu

 duiyuhenduoxiongdilaishuo，yidannvyouzhudonghezijitifenshou，neijiubudelele，gezhongqiongyaodajukaishilunfanshangshen，buyaoyiweizhiyounvshengcaihuizheiyang，xiangxiangweiniangweishenmehuicunzai，kudelihuadaiyu，nengjitianjiyebuchifan。

 danshiyaozhidao，chiqingbudengyuchichan，tajiranyijingjuedinghenifenshou，jiushuomingtaduinideqinggannongduyijinghendile，guanxizaizaodian，tashenzhizaoyiduinichanshengleyaneqingxu。

 zheishiniruozaizhudongtieshangqu，yikuernaode，yikunengwanhuinvyouma，zheiyangzhihuifangdataduinidefumianyinxiang，congerfangdaduinidefanganqingxu，zheiyangzenmehainengwanhuinvyouma。

 yushimeiyoulaheinihuozhebufenlaheinide，jiubianchenglequanbulahei，benlaihaishikeyiyuanyihedangzuoputongpengyouxiangchude，zheixiazhijiebeinibichenglechouren。

 yaojizhu，yongyuanbuyaoshitukaojiduandefangshiliuzhuqianren，neiyangzhihuibatatuidegengyuan，yetongshirangnishidiaobenbugaidiushidedulixinghezunyan。

2、xiangquanshijiexuanbunishilianle

 meigerenbenshenjiushiyourouruoyimiande，zheijiubiaoxianzaiyudaokunnanhuozhecuozheshi，xihuanxiangwaijiexunqiuanweihebangzhu，neimeniqiurenbanshishouxiandeshuomingzijideqingkuangba。

yushinijiuyiwuyishidebazijidejinkuangjiangjibierenting。

 renzaixushumoujianhezijiyouguandeshiqingshi，kendinghuiyouxuanzediqushuo，huizidongguolvdiaoneixiebuliyuzijidexinxi，zheiyangnikanwanhuinvyoukunnanma？

 yushi，zaitaquanzineiderenkanlai，haoxiangfenshoujiuquanshitayigerendewenti，tashifuxinhan，ernishiyigechetoucheweideshoushangzhe。yaozhidaozheizhonglaizizhouweirendewuxingyali，duiqianreneryanshiyigebuxiaodeshanghai。

 ganqingshilianggerendeshi，wulunsheiduisheicuodoukeyiguanshangmenlaizijijiejue，biyaoshikeqingzhidexinlaiderenjierujiejue，danshinongdaorenjinjiezhidedibu，qianrenlianshanghuitebieguabuzhu，nvrendoushihenhaomianzide。

 nilianzuiqimademianzidoubujita，lianzheidianxuqiugandoubumanzuta，benlaijiuduinixinhuiyilengdeta，haiyuanyihenizhongxinzaiyiqima？

3、nibuyaowo，woyebuyaonihaoguo

 beifenshoule，duifangbuzaiduizijijinxingwuzhitouzi、qingxutouzihejinglitouzi，zhongzhonglengmohejueqingbiaoxianwanquanhezhiqianpanruoliangren，yishihennanjieshou，youaishenghen，jiuziranhuichanshengbaofuxintai。

 biaoxianzaixingweishangjiushichuchuheduifangzuodui，baduifangdangchengyigeshafuchourenbanlaiduidai，dianxingdexintaijiushinihewofenshou，kanwozheimenanguotouyebuhui，neimehao，woyebuhuirangnihaoguo，womenzouzheqiao。

 gengyoushenzhi，huaqiangushehuishangderenlaijiaoxunzijiqianren，rangtazhangdianjixing.....zheiliwoyaoshuo，xiongdimenwanhuoyaojinshen，zheibuyijingbushishenmeerxile，nidezheizhongxingweiyijingshangshengdaodaodehefalvcengmian，gaobuhaonihuibeixingjude。

 yinci，ruguofenshouhounidebaofuxintaihenyanzhong，buguanshimingzhehaishianzheyijingzuolehenduoshanghaiduifangdeshi，wokenengyaohuaiyinizheiyangzuodedongji，yinweinihenkenengyijingbuaiduifangle，nizheiyangzuowufeishifaxiezijixinzhongbuganhebumanqingxu。

 nvyoubuaiwanhuima？zheibingbushizhendexiangwanhuiduifang，niruozhenaita，youzenrenxinshanghaita？jirancengjingxiangaiguo，tayezhenxinchengyiduinihaoguo，neijiuhaojuhaosan，fangbiciyitiaoshenglu，zheiyangnicaiyoujihuiquxunzhaozijixindexingfu。

二，旁侧敲击，吸引注意

 zaiwanhuideguochengzhong，womenyibanxiguancaiyong“shuangguizhi”delianxifangshi，yejiushiqianrendeshenbianrenheniziji，douyaoheduifangchuandinigaibiandexinxi，zheiliangzhequeyibuke。

eryibanqingkuangxia，womendouhuixiantongguopangbianrendepangqiaocejixianlaichuandinifansigaizhengcuowudexinxi。

zheiyangzuodemudeyousandian：

1、zengjiaxinxidekexindu

disanzhedeyanlunbinizijiqubiaodagengyoushuofuli，laizikeguanfangmiandepinglunbinizijidehuayugengjiakexin。

2、jifaqianrendehaoqixin

 bulunduifangdangshibiaoxianruhe，zaihaoqixindequshixia，tananmianhuikaishiliuyinidebianhua，kaishizaishenghuozhongbuyouzizhudezhuyinidecunzai。

3、shitanqianrenduinidefanying

zainishangqiebumingqueqianrenxianzaiduinidetaidushi，zheishiyigejihaodeshitanshouduan。

 erqianrenzhouweiderensuiranshihenhaoyongdezhenchabing，danshitamenbingbushizhulijun，qianwanbierangtamenchongfengguotouyongliguomeng，yidanrangduifangchajuedaolenizaishoumaitashenbianrenlaishuohaohua，tafanerhuigengjiafangan，juedenibaliangrendesishigongzhiyuzhongjizijidailailekunrao。

三，亲自出面之前的准备

 tongguodierbupangqiaoceji，qianrenyijingzhongxinduoduoshaoshaodezhuyidaoleni，zheizhongzhuyiweibishiganxingqu，danzongshidaizheyisihaoqi。

nideqianrenyezaixiang，huibuhuinizhendeyijingrenshidaolezijicengjingdecuowu，zhengzainulidezuochutuihuahegaibian？

 shaodengshangliangsantian，nijiuyinggaishizhequlianxiqianrenle，bijingpangrenshuodezaibizhen，yeyijiuburuniqinzichumianzhengmingnidebianhuazhongyao。

erzheigezhunbeifenweilianggefangmian，nibujinzhendeyaofuchunuligaibian，haixuyaoduizijigaibiandeguochengjinxingbaozhuang。

 ruguonimenshangqiebaochizhelianxi，neimenikeyihaohaoliyongzijideshejiaoruanjiandongtailaibangzhunizhengmingzijidebianhua，buxuyaotaiguopinfan，liangsantianyitiaojike。

 keyishiyouqudeshenghuozhuangtai，yekeyishizijizhengxiangdesixiangganwu，huozheshiyixiejiludaka，tongguozheixielaizhengming：wozhendezaibianhua。