分手后一段时间没联系，如何利用情人节挽回前男友

 wanhuiaiqingmiji younaxie?danglianggerenfenshouzhihou，sheiyemeiyoujijilianluosheishi，shifoujiudaibiaolingyifangqueshixuehuifangxiale，yibuaizhenile?yishizhuxingshiligaosutarenmen，zaiqinggandequanqiuli，yaoxiangzaiduanqineiliwanquanwangjiyigeren，tashimeibanfabandedaode。yuqishuoshitazaoyiwangdiaonini，haitanbushangwojuedetadengzhenigenggaihuoshihaiyaosisuogaibugaicongtoukaishi。ruonigentafenshouzhihouyiranxinlidianjizheta，xiangzaicigentayiqi，neihaiyaozaicigaibianxianzhuang，yongxindeyibianchuxianzailingyifangyanqian，zaicixiyinzhuta。qixijiejijiangdaolai，zheijiushifeichanghaodewanliujihui。xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?

一、纠正自身手上的缺陷

 zaiganqingzhong，zaisuonanmianyouyunanyirenshoulingyifangdequexianhuoshimeifarenshoulingyifangfanxiadebuzhengque，xiangyaoxiangfenshoudejuece。zaibeifenshouhouyaoxiangwanhuiganqing，zuixianhaiyaoqingxizishenshoushangdequexian，duiyunantigenggaizishen，neiyang，nicaiyouwanliulingyifangdejianghui。

 wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?xuehaohuxiangkuanrong。bingbushiyouyunaxieshierbixuqukuanrong，danbubiyouyumouxiesuosuihemouxielingyifangshoushangdequexianjiqinisuolejiedemouxielingyifangbuliangxiguanerbiyi。qinggandoubixukuanrongde，youyudangshidajiayiqideneishihou，kanhaodebixushilingyifangdeyoushi，eryoushihaowuyiwenzaoyigaiyiguoquanbudequexian，yincinizuiaiderenjinjinzuixihuandeyoushi，ruguorujinninanyirenshoulingyifangdequexianle，neimabiaomingnigenbenyibuaizheiyiren。xihuanyigerenshiwubiaitadesuoyou，baohantaderenhe，haoyuhuai，chengshuqiyuhaiziqizheixie，yaoxuehaohuxiangkuanronglingyifangquexian，zhenzhengdeaiqingyaokuanrongnenggouzhangqi。

 zhengchaobuxiushibuzhengque。zhengchaobuxiulingyifangdeyiqi，niyoumeiyouxiangguo，wulundajiazaiborandanudeneishihouzhengchaobuxiulingyifangyiqiequexian，douburongyiyoushijixiaoguo，youyulingyifangcikeyeyiqishizaishuonidequexian，erdajiahaowuyiwenburongyiqulejielingyifang，zhongjiurenyizhiburongyizaimeiyouqingmiandeneishihoulejiedaozishendebuzhengque，lingyigejiushishuochizezongshijiazhongdajiazhongjiandefenqi，erburongyichulibenzhide

二、在微信朋友圈展现自身幸福的一边

 wanhuiaiqingmijiyounaxie?zaiwanliuquanguochengzhong，zenyanglijidizaiqixijieqianranglingyifanglejienizaoyigenggaileni?weixinpengyouquanjiushishuo1gefeichanghaodefangshi。haodeweixinpengyouquanhuitahuiduiniyousuogaishannaizhizaiciduinizaochengyouxingquaihao，butaihaodeweixinpengyouquanyehuitahuiduinideguandianzaidujianshao。yincixuehaomouxieweixinpengyouquandezhanxianfangfa，yunyonghaodeweixinpengyouquanzhanxianzaiduxiyinzhutadejizhongzhuyili，

 xuanliduocaideyishizhuxingtahuiganjueniyuelaiyuekailangwangshang。 weixinpengyouquandezhanxianzaiqizhongjiunenggou zhanxianxuanliduocaideyishizhuxing，rangtarenjuededaonideshenghuopinzhihengao，juedeniyeshi1gejijizhudongkailangwangshangderen。neiyangderenshixiaohuobanmendouxiaixiangchuderen，youyutayincinengdailaishenpangderenkuaile。xuanliduocaideyishizhuxingzhanxiannenggou shidujialvyou，bengjitiao，jizheileihenjixiantaiyangdexinxiangmu，haikeyishizaiyijianqingjingdekafeiguanqukanshu，zaiyijianyougediaodeqingbayupenyouxiaohebeizheixie，yishizhuxingshangdaixuduoshiernenggouzuo，danzuiguanjiandeyidianerjiushishuokeyizaochenglingyifangdexingquaihao，cijixingdaolingyifangjiuzaihaobuguole。

 gaoshiyongjiazhidezhanxiantahuiduinizaicizaochengxingquaihao。gaoshiyongjiazhidezhanxianguanjianshikeyizaiduxiyinzhudaolingyifang。shiyongjiazhizhanxiantongchangquanshifamouxiekeyizhanxianzishengaoshiyongjiazhidezhaopian。fanyinggaoshiyongjiazhideneirongyouxuduo，nanshengdegaoshiyongjiazhizuiguanjianqujueyutadeshengcunli，nvxingdeshiyongjiazhiguanjianfanyingzaitadefanyugongzuonengli。“gudainanshengzuixiyinzhunvxingdedianjiushishuoshengcunli。erchaojinhuaqijin，zaochengxuduonvxingdoushizuiainanshengnuligongzuoshidemoyang。”nanshengdeshiyongjiazhifanyingnenggou genjumouxieyijingyanshuodexiangpian、gongzuozhonghenyongxindexiangpian、zaitesecantingyongcandexiangpianzheixie，nenggoufanyingnanrendegongzuonengli、caifuhepinweidetedian。ernvshizaiweixinpengyouquanzhanxianzishendegaoshiyongjiazhiguanjianzhanxiannvshidetongqingdali、wenrou、jiajuzheixietedian。nvshinenggou zaiweixinpengyouquanfayouguanpengrenjishude，liruganlegexiaodangao、quqibing，huoshijinriyouganlemouxiegongyipinzheixie，nenggoufanyingnvshixianshu、jiajudetedian。shiyongjiazhizhanxiandeneishihou，quanbudishiyongjiazhideweixinpengyouquandoububifa，yaoburanjiugongkuiyikuile。

 xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?haodeqingxunenggou chanshenghaodexintaiganqi。xinqinghaodezhanxianjiuxiangduixingjianyile，yaoshijiangnidexinqinghaodouzhanxianchuqujiujiuxingle。haodexintaiganqihuilingrendouyuanyigennixiangchu，youyu1getaiyangderendounengdailaishenpangrenhaodeqingxu。qingxuzhanxianhaikeyifanyingchunizuizhenzhengdeyibian。nihengaoxingdeneishihoubeipaidaodeneiyikehuoshinibanguilianbierenpaidaodeyichaneidexiangpian，nenggouyonglaizuoqingxuzhanxian。liruniyizhizaihaitancanjiashuishangdeneishihouhengaoxing，nenggoupaixiazuoqingxuzhanxian。yeyoulinyutaiyangdixiadewennuanshushideneishihou、genpenyouquqidanche、fengzhengxiaomozheixieziranhuanjingxia，nenggoupaichulaimouxiegaoxingdexiangpianlaizuoqingxuzhanxian。

三、寻找好的原因，联络检测

 jiancelianluoshiwanhuiganqingquanguochengzhongguanjiande1gejieduan，jiancelianluodemudishiyibianzhangwolingyifangxianjieduandexintaizhuangtaiheduinidexintai，yeshigenjujiancelianluogengqiangdezhangwowanliujihui。danjiaruzaibuzhengquedeshijianyonglebuzhengquedefangfakaizhanjiancelianluo，zehuishishixianzuodetiqianzhunbeidoufuzhudongliu，duiwanliudaozhizulan，yincijiancelianluodeqiadangshijicaozuoyouweizhongyao。

 xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?zenyangkaizhanjiancelianluo?zuixianninengshiyongmouxiewuyaoqiudeyuanyin，yifaxinxi、shoujiweixin、qqdengfangfa。lirunenggou shiyongzishenbushanyuhuoshilingyifangxihuandeyuanyin：nvhainenggou qiuwenlingyifangyouguanyudiannao、jiayongdianqi、dianzishebeijianxiudengcengmiandezhuanyezhishi，neiyangnannvshuangfanghuizaochengzishenbeibixudejuede，huatitaolunyehuiwuyijiandekaiqi。nanhaizinenggou shiyonglingyifangshanyuhuoxihuandeshierqiuwen，qiujiaotadejianyi。youyigenanshenghenvshengdounengyingyongdefangshi ：nenggou tiaoxuanzaiguojiafadingjiarideneishihoujilingyifangshangchuanwenziyuyan，kanlingyifangzenyanghuiying。jiaruhuiyinglijibingdafunidezhuyuan，zhengshilingyifangxintaijiaoweijijizhudong。jiarubenzhibuhuiyinghuoshihuiyingxintaibutaihaodehua，nijiuzhengshilingyifanghaifanganni，bixuzhongzhijiance，bushiya。

 zaiyulingyifanglianluoshiqiewupuluyaoqiugan，bubilikemingquetichufuhexingdeguiding，yebukeyitidaowangrideshier，yaoburanlingyifanghuijuedenihuanshizhaojiu，yidianerdoububian。yincihuatitaolundeneirongyaotiaoxuanfanmiande、jijizhudongkailangde，chuansongquweidexinxineirong，shilingyifangzaochengxingquaihaozaiciyunigoutongjiaoliu。

 “jiarulianluobukeyidadaohaodetuidong，neizheibidingshihuaidetuidong。”jiaruluanshizhehuoshiluanjiancelianluo，zongshitishengwanliudezhouqishijianhenanduxishubale。yincimeibawodadaohaodetuidongshi，jiujuebunengtanxiangongjian。yuanyituidonghaodejiancelianluo，yougeguanjiandeqiantitiaojian，jiushishuobicizhongjiandefenqidianzaoyijiangdi，erqienidegengxingaizaohetigaozaoyiyouchongzuyouhuoli，nenggou xianglingyifangzhanxianchuquanxinshengjidexingfuwaimao，zaikaizhanjiancelianluo。neiyanghuidadadetuidongwanliudejinzhanhetishengwanliudetongguolv。

 xiangwanhuiaiqingdehuazenmezuo?wanhuiganqing，zuibihuideshiyongxinjidexintaizhuangtaihesipilailianzheizhongdishiyongjiazhidefangfawanliu。qixijiedangjin，yaoxiangrangnanpengyouyouhehaoruchudejianghui，zuixiannihaiyaogenggaihaozishen，yongzuixingfudeyibianchuxianzailingyifangyanqian，xindepinpaixingxiang，caihuiyouxindeqidian。