女朋友闹分手了说要分开冷静一下，该如何挽回女友

 lianrenjianzonghuiyouzhengchaodeshihou，guanjianshikanzheimaodunshidahaishixiao。youxienanshengzaiyunvshengzhengchaoshi，hubuxiangrang，feiyaochaoyingshi，jinguankaishizhishihenxiaodeshiqing，yehuiyouyinfafenshouweijideshihou。weishenme?yinweinanshengzaiyunvshengxiangchudeguochengzhonggenbenjiubuzhidaonvshengxiangyaodeshishenme，zenyangzuocainengweihuhaoliangrenzhijiandeguanxi。suoyi，nanshengyaoshibuxianggennvpengyoudeguanxijiucipolie，zaiyunvshengnaomaodunshijiuyaodongdeyixiewanhuinvyoudeshenshizuofale。wanhuinvyoudehuazenmezuo?ruhe wanhuinvyou ?

一、争吵时主动承认错误

 daoqiandehua，henduorendouhuishuo。danyihezhongfangshiqugenyitichufenshoudenvyoudaoqiancainengchenggongwanhuitadexin，zheijiuxuyaojiangjiujishule。zheizhongfangshibuxuyaohenhuaxinsi，rumaishenmegaojiadeliwu、buzhigehenlongzhongdeyishi、shuoxiehentianyanmiyudehuadeng，zhixuyaoyikehenzhenchengdexinjiugoule。

 ruhewanhuinvyou?taiduyidingyaozhencheng。bieyiweinandegennvdedaoqianjiushiyizhongyousunnanrenzunyandeshi。xiangxiang，ruonishiaitade，xiangwanhuitade，jiubixuyaofangxiazijiziyiweigaodeshenjia，yanjingzhishizheduifang，fazineixindizhenchengxiangduifangdaoqian，erbushiyiju，“suanle，shiwodecuo，neinikeyiyuanliangwoleba?”ruonizheiyangshuodehua，bujinbuhuidedaonvyoudeyuanliang，xiangfanhaihuirangnimendeguanxigengjiaehua，yinweinibingmeiyoukandaozijidecuowu，gengbieshuoshiyongxinqugaizhengle。nizhishiliyongyijufuyandehualaitingzhinimenzhijiandezhengchao，rangtaganjuezijishizaiwuliqunaoeryi。yinci，ruonixiangdedaoduifangdeyuanliang，daoqianbixuyaofazineixin，zhiyouzhenzhengyishidaozijidecuowubingyouxinqugaizheng，caihuidedaoduifangdeyuanliang。

 ruhewanhuinvyou?daoqianliyouyaochongfen。henduoshihou，dangnandexiangnvdedaoqianshi，nvdetongchangdouhuiwenduifang，“cuozaina?“ruonicishihuidabushanglaidehua，neinijiduifangdeganjuejiushinidedaoqianchuncuishiweilefuyantaeryi。yinci，dangnijuedingxiangduifangdaoqianqian，bixuyaozuohaogongke，yongbiyongbenziyidiandiandijiluqizijidecuowudian，dangtawenqinicuozainashi，nijiukeyiqingchudixiangduifangshuochuzijidecuowuzhichu，bingqiededaoduifangdeyuanliangle。yinweiduifangzheiyangwenqinibingbushiguyidiaonanni，tayaodezhishiyifenyongxindeduidaihehuiyingeryi。

 duiweilaiyaomingque。dangnizhidaozijidecuowudianhou，nanmianyeyaohuiyingduifangtichude，“yihouyaozenmezuo“dewenti。qishi，dangniliechuzijidecuochushi，jiuyijingyouxinquweizheixiecuowudianquxiangbujiudecuoshile，yinweinishizaiwanhui，wanhuidebujinshitaderen，gengshitadexin。wanhuidechenggongyufoujiuzaiyuniyoufourangtakandaonimenweilaidexiwang，tashifounenganxindibazijideyishengfutuojini。yinci，zheigecuohougaizheng，bingqiejichuchengnuohenzhongyao。

二、总结自身的问题

 wanhuinvyoudehuazenmezuo?qingbuyaojuedeqinglvjiandechaojiashihenzhengchangde，jishichaojiayeshikeyiguorizi，ganqingdeliehenhenyoukenengshiwufaxiubude。ruguonixiangyaohaohaobaohunideaiqing，zaiganqingchuxianwentishinijiudehaohaodifanshengyixiaziwo，zhaochuwentichuxiandeyuanyinle 。

 gexingtaiguzhi。gexingtaiguzhiderenzailiangxingguanxizhong，rongyibiandemanbujiangli，wulunshenmeqingkuangdouhuijianchizijideyijian，wanquantingbujinbierendehua，duiyubierentichudeyouliyijianyehuixuanzezuoerjinyouerchu，zheigebiaoxianwangwanghuijirenwufagoutongdeganjue，yidanchuxianyijianbuhe，henrongyihuirangqingkuangcongxiaozhengzhierzhuanbianchengdazhengchao。

 taiguoqiangshi。taiguoqiangshideren，yibandoushizaigongzuozhongqudeshifenyouyueganderen，zheizhongrenhenrongyibagongzuozhongdeyouyueganyanshendaoshenghuozhong，wulunshenghuohaishigongzuodoujirenshifendulideganjue。rangrenjuedeshifenyouyalihewufagoutongdeganjue，tongchanglingyibanzaichuyuzheiyangdeyalizhixia，huixuanzetaobi，shenzhichugui。

 xinggelengmo。xinggelengmoderen，zhihuizaihuzijideshiqing，erqiehuirangduifangjuedewufazaizheiduanganqingzhongdedaoguanaiyuweijie，meiyourenhuiyiweidetaohaoni，rangnizuoxiangqichengtadeqianjiuhereqing，shijianjiule，jiuhuirangduifangjuedehenlei，xuanzezhuanshenlikai。

三、避免矛盾发生的做法

 ganqingzhongchuxianwentishizhengchangde，meiyoufashengguochongtudeaiqing，keyishuoshiyizhongbuwanzhengdeai。yinweichongtu，womencainenglejiedaoduifangdenilin。suoyi，rangzhengchaodeyingxiangjiangdaozuididefangfazhiyi，jiushirangduifanglejienidekuangjiahexiangfa，erbushiqiangxingyaoduofangjieshounidexiangfa。

 jingchangdegoutongnengrangliangrendexiangchugengjiarongqia。nanrenxuyaolejienvrendexuqiu，nvrenyetongyangyaolejienanrendexuqiu，danggezidexuqiudebudaomanzushi，duifangjiuhuiyifanulaixuanxiezijidebuman。nvrenxuyaodeshiguanxin、lijie、zhongcheng、titie，anwei，nanrendexuqiushixinren、jieshou、ganji、zanmei、renke、guli。zaixiangchudeguochengzhong，ruguoninengbiaoxianchunideguanxin、xinren、zanshang，duifangzhihuiduiniyuelaiyuezaiyi，erbushiyizhengchaoshizhi。chuxianwentishishuangfangnengjishigoutong，maodunyejiubuhuibeijihua，congeryinfazhengchao。

 wanhuinvyoudehuazenmezuo?lianrenjianfashengzhengchaoshihenzhengchangdeshi，danshiyaoxiangganqingbuhuiyinweizhengchaoerfashengbianhua，zuoweinanshengjiudedongdezenmequjiangdimaodundian，zaizhengchaoshizhudongchengrencuowu，tongyiduifangdekanfa，zheibujinshidashihuaxiaodezuofa，gengshitixiannizhongshitadebiaoxian。