你一直深爱着她，但为什么你还是不能挽回女友

 wanhuinvyou dehuaruhezuo?zaiganqinggangkaishizhihou，henduirenrenweixiyinganqingdeweiyifangfajiushishuoranglingyifangganshoudaozishendehao，yinciwoyejiejinsuonengdeweilingyifangnulizishendequanbu。keshi，daozuizhongnijiuhuifaxian，jishizishenshengsilijiedenulizishendesuoyou，tayaoliqushihaihuisihaomeiyouliuqingdeliqu，benzhiburongyiduinidehaoyouyidianerdedadonghuoshilianlianbushe。niyoumeiyouxiangguo，weihetaduinidehaozhiruowangwenni?ruhewanhuinvyou?

一、单方地努力总是让另一方感觉理所应当

 zaiganqingli，dangnijinjindanfangdiweilingyifangnuli，buqingchuzenyangdiaozhengzishenguanaideshuiping，neimaniyanzhongdeguanai，jiuhuiranglingyifangduinimanmanyanfan。youyuzaininulidequanguochengzhongjiulijidiweilingyifangzhanxianlezishendegaoyaoqiu，ruguonideyaoqiuganguogaoshi，tajiuhuiganjueniyeshifeichangrongyihuodede，jinerburongyiduiniaixi。

 ruhewanhuinvyou?jiaruniyaogenggaizheileiqingkuang，jiububiduilingyifangguoduojiqing，yebubiguoduodenuli，zhinengneiyang，nideyaoqiugancaihuihuodediaozheng，ziwojiazhicaiyoujianghuimanmantisheng。ruguonideshiyongjiazhiyulingyifangjunhengshi，nicaihaiyoujihuizaidajiadeganqingzhongzhanjuzhudongdeyingxiangli。rutongwanliuyaoqiugandezhangwotingdashuipingshangjueceleniyizhizaimeiduanganqingguanlianzhongdeyingxiangli，hexinhuobeilingzhe。yaoqiugandi，bawozhudaoquan;xiangfan，xintaihenrongyibeilingyifangtuidong，chuzaipugong。”zhiyaonibawolezhudaoquan，nicainenggou gengqiangdeyunyingqinggan，rangtaliudaonideshenpang。

二、彼此相互的资金投入才会让感情更长期

 ruhewanhuinvyou?zijidenulizongshirangganqingbupingheng，huihuaiganqingdelaogu。jiarulingyifangzaizheixieqingganzhongmeiyoudenuli，neimatazishenxinlihelixingdejieguojiushishuo：wobuhuiaita。yinci，tazongyoujianghuilinierqu。yaoxiangranglingyifangganxinqingyuandiliudaozishenshenpang，woyewubizhengqueyindaotadezijintouru，rangtaganshoudaozishenshiaizhenide，neimatacaihuigenniwomenyiqizouxialai。

 zhengqueyindaolingyifangdezijintouru，jiushishuorangtaganshoudaozishenjinideai。xiangyaozhengqueyindaolingyifangdezijintouru，woyenenggou rangtapeizhenizuomouxiezuixihuandeshi，birurangtazaihenlengdeyutianlipeichulainiguangjiegouwu。zaizheijianshiqingchanshengzhihou，tazishenjiuhuihelixingzheijianshiqing：“weishayaoneiyangduita?yuanxianyouyuwoaita。”zhinengdangtawuyishidijuedezishenshiaizhenide，tacaihuijijidiliudaonideshenpang，genniyikuaieryunyingzheixieqinggan。

 wanhuinvyoudehuaruhezuo?danfangchixinbingbukeyirangqingganlaogu，ganqingjihuquanshiliangrendeshi，yaoxiangrangganqingzhangqi，woyewubidongdezenmerangbicidouhuiganqinglizijintouru。zhinengdajiadezijintourujunheng，ganqingcaiyoujianghuizhangqixialai，jinerjieguoshi。