越过雷区：如何成功挽回？

 ruhewanhuihunyin?renherenzhijianburongyixiantianxingjiunengxiangjie，mouzhongyiyishang，rendechushijiushishuoguliwuyuanyuzuge，yaoxuexipeixun、fazhanqushiherenxiangjiedegongzuonengli。danzaihunyinzhongxuduodefufudouqianquelexuexipeixunzenyangmingbaiquaiyubuaidegongzuonengli，cushibicizhongjiandeqingganqianquelechongjing，meilexiwangjiushiqujianghui。qingganwanhuizenmeban?

一、欠缺家中典礼

 rujinhenjiazhongshenghuobuyi，yibianyouyanjiangcumeiribenmangfanmangzaigongzuofangmian，feichangshaoyouhuolisixuzijintouruzaijiazhongshang。laidaoguojiafadingjiarixiexideneishihou，yizhidianjizhehaohaodishuishangmeitian，huoshishizuozhezheixiezishenxianggandegerenaihaoshang，yulaiyuqianquejiatingrizheiyidingyi。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?zheixiezaishangchanglitantaozhenayangxiyifenweishengzhigongnengqiangdadefufu，tingshanglaijianghuihuiganjuehenfawei，keshizheiduifufuzhenduiyishizhuxingshangdezheileixiaoguanjiandianquanshihendafangde，xiaopengyoudoushiganjuefeichanggaoxingde。fanguolaiyouzhongpubiandexintainiuqujiushishuo，laopowennayangxiyifengongnengqiangdadeneishihou，laogonghuiyingshisuibianbadoubuzaihu。meijianyishizhuxingzhizhongdesuoshimeiduifufudetiaoxuanquanshibutongde，youxierentiaoxuancanjia，lecibupi，youxierentiaoxuanzhuanshenlikai。ruguoniyoudaliangdeshijianzijintouruzairichangshenghuozhongdesuoshishi，jiushiweichiqinggandefangfa。

二、感情资金投入不高

 ruhewanhuihunyin?meiduanguanliandeliekaiweibishiyoudisanzhe，disanzhewangwanghuichuxianyeyouyuzheixiehunyinzhongzhaoxun1gexinxiandeshizhelaitianbuhunyinzaochengdegudanbale。erzheileidisanzheshinenggou beitidaide，nenggou shigongzuozhong，nenggou shipenyou，nenggou shigerenaihao。

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?hunyinshibixushouhoude，bulunshiyishizhuxingshangpengdaokunnan，huanshigongzuofangmiantihuidaogongzuoyali，zuoweinianqingfufu，shibixubalingyifangdebeixifangdaoshouweiqurenzhi，qukandao。erbingbushilaogongbagongzuozhongfangshouwei，laopobaxiaohaifangshouwei，fufuyingdangshixianbaxianghufangdaoshouweiqutihuilingyifangderenhehaoyubutaihaodeganshou。

三、家就好像宾馆相同只出示衣食住行需要

 hunyinzhongjianghuihuiyouxuduoshierzaibuduantouxianzheni，fanmangdegongzuozhong，jiaoyuxiaohaidejianku，jingshenshizhishangdegongzuoyalizheixie。dangyingduizheizhongshierdeneishihou，jiarulingyifangmeiqushiyonghekuanrong，neimajiuhuibawaibudewupinzhuanbianchengjiatingjiufen。tuozhepijuandequtizourufangjiannei，zhitingjianlingyifangdechizebuzaodianhuilaibangzhuzuojiawuhuozhaoliaoxiaohai，yinerjiuhuitihuidaoxinhanhetongchu。

 yincibianxiangfanchizelingyifangmeiyouguanzhuzishen，zhaoguhaoziji，fanhuijiayeyaobeizhaquzhe。manmandizhuanbianchengduobi，buxianghuijia，buxiangyaofanhuijialiyingduirenhejiawuhuo，gengbuxiangyaotingjianlingyifangmaiyuanzishen，yinci1gebenyingdangcunyouwenxindejiabianweile1gebinglengdebinguan。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?zuoyoudegerenxingweiruguoninianfuyinianfanfudiguozhe，fufulianggerenjinguangongzhuyiwuyan，keshiquexingtonglurenxiangtong。ganbujizuozhelaichiyicanfan，pinweizherichangshenghuodefawei，shuozhegongzuofangmianpengdaomouxienaxieyouyisideshi，jiufenbiebaotoudashui。kongyoufufudemingyi，meishenmejutifufudeneirongdehunyin，zaozhongwanhuibaochibuxialai。