不计较小细节：成就幸福婚姻

 ruhewanhuihunyin?xuduorendaoqingganlibiandouhuijuedezishendenulixuduo，erzishendenuliqueshiqulingyifangdedafu，yincibuduanqukekelingyifang，chixudequguidinglingyifang，danglingyifangdabushangzishendeguidingdeneishihouninengbuduanqubaoyuanchixudequchizelingyifang，yinciliangrendeqingganjianjiandidequchuxianjiedi。qingganwanhuizenmeban?

一、情感里是沒有是多少之分的，必须两人相互的勤奋

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?zaiqingganlibiannulishifenbuqingshiduoshaode，zainijuedeniduilingyifangdenulixuduodeneishihou，yiqilingyifangyehuiduijinixiangjindeniantou，ruguonibuduanquguidinglingyifangdeneishihou，nishibushixiangguo，shifoulingyifanghaikeyibuduanquguidingni。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?neimadangliangrendouhuichixudeguidinglingyifangdeneishihou，neimadajialiangrenzhongjianyoumeiyoushenmeni?nulishifenbuqingshiduoshaode，meizheifennuliquanshiniganxinqingyuanquzuo，bubiquzaihusheiduosheishao，youyumeiyouduibixing，nikeyixuehaodeshirangzishendenuliduidajiadeqingganyouyi，nenggou shidajiadeqinggantiwenjiujiuxingle，neimaneiyangzaininulideneishihouwoyeburongyiquzaihule。

二、学好立在另一方的视角独立思考，让自身的努力最该

 ruhewanhuihunyin?xuduorendaoqingganliyizhihenzisizilidexixiangqizishenyuanyi，zishensuozhuiqiuwanmeide，zaizishenchixudenulideneishihou，douhuidianjizhelingyifangyeyingdangneiyangduininuli，keshiqingganzhongjiumeiyoujunhengde，ruguonizuodeshierduinideqingganhao，neimanidenulijiushishuozuigaide。nulibingbushiyiweidefuchu，balingyifangdangzuodaerzixiangtongwusifengxiandenuli，zhishizaiweichizishenjiagoudeqiantitiaojianxia，zuoduidajiaqingganyouyideshier。

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?nuli，jiushinizishenzhiyuanqunulide，meiyouduibixing，rangzishendenulizuigaile，neimawoyenenggou shidajiadeqinggantiwen，zheidoushizaizhangqixingguanlianlibiansuobixude。