如果发现第三者怎么办？

 ruhewanhuihunyin?danglaogongpeinimingquetichuliyideneishihou，shibushinizaoyicongrichangshenghuodexiaoguanjiandianchajuechuxianxianglai。conglaogongdeqizaotanhei，dianhuajingchangmeijiedengxianchutajianghuizaoyichuwaiyongyoubiededenvxing。niyinyinyueyuedeganjuelaogongjianghuihuixiangnimingquetichuliyi，zijintourudisanzheerdehuailizhizhong。jishiruci，nihuanshiainidelaogongde，daodinikefoubawodenanshengzidisanzheneilichoulichuqu，zaiyiciwanliulaogongdexinma?qingganwanhuizenmeban?

一、找到难题解决困难

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?niyibianjiazhongnulilezishendexinli，nizijuededuijiazhongdenulitingda，taweiheyeyaoquzhaowaibiandenvxing。keshiwojuede，zaihewotazhongjiandeyishizhuxingquanguochengzhong，yingdangshiyimoushiqingdelianjiedianshangchanshenglemouxieshier，daozhiledajiaqingganzhongjiandeshuyuanbici，zheishibushiniqianqueguanzhuta、huanshibenrendeguoduqianghandengyuangusuodaozhi。huixiangdaoyiqiandeyishizhuxing，shizhequzhaodaocunzaidewenti，xunzhaorangguanlianyuelaiyuejiaolvbuanqilaideyuangu，woyelejietazenmehuibeiwaibiandeyixingpengyousuoxiyinzhu。congnantixiashou，xunzhaojiejuekunnandefangshi

三、更改交往方式造就生活情趣

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?houdajiazhongjianbudanshijinjingongzuozhongchangdidaojiazhongneiyangdezhouerfushibiaozhun，dajiawojuedeyeyouxuduotiaoxuan。dangyishizhuxingquefalequweixing，yuelaiyueguodufawei，hunhoushenghuodazirankanqilaitaikuzao。lianggerenzaijiazhongzhizhong，feichangrongyiyouyumouxieyishizhuxingshangdefenqi，zaochengduoyudezhengzhi。erzheizhongduoyudezhengzhiyincijiushishuodajiaqingganpoliededaohuosuo。

 weihebushizheyixiaxiaxianghudujialvyou、huoshishixianghuqutingmouxieshequluntanzhuantijiangzuozheileide，weidajiadeyishizhuxingtishengkuaile，genjuzuomouxiecongmeishizhedeshier，rangniliangzhongjianshuoshuoxiaoxiao，xianghujiandeqingganhuigengweicengdi。dajiazhongjiandejiaowangziranhuanjingwojuedenenggou zuoshidudegenggai，bujuxianxingzaidanyihuadechangdi，jinerrangyishizhuxingbiandeyuelaiyuegengyouyiyi。danghunhoushenghuodailailelianggerengaoxingxingfukuailedetihui，disanzheeryouzennengsuibianjiubaituodajiazhongjianguanlian。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?disanzheerbingbushibunengjibai，tasuoyiweizhezhezheizhongduanqineideyinyou，ranglaogongkongzhibulezishen。zhenzhengdeaiqingshizuibuyichanshengwaiyuzhuangkuangde，youyutabixuwaiyudechengbenfeihengao，laogongbingbuyizaoshouwaibuxiyinzhu。yibianwanjiuhunyin，nvxingyaoyuelaiyuegengqiang，nenggouranglaogongxiangyaofanhuinideshenpang。