从根源击退第三者：如何挽回男人的心？

 ruhewanhuihunyin?rujindeshehui，chuguinanrensikongjianguan，jibenshangmeiridounengtingjian“jinrixxxwaiyule”，“xxxdedisanzhebeidale”zheileideshi。yingduizheizhongqingkuang，xuduorendanyouzishendeqingganyehuizaoshoudisanzhechazu。neima，zaiqingganzhongzenyangcainengconggenbenyuanyinshangbimiandisanzheer，duandiaolingyifangdewaiyuzhituni?cankaodaanjiushishuoyunyongnanrenxintai。qingganwanhuizenmeban?

一、生理学上不羞耻感于抢鲜

 yaofenbianshenglixueshangdekaolvshifou，zuixingxianghuadeguifanjiushishuofuqishenghuodepinzhi。youxuduopenyoudeqingganzaijindaofaweiqiyihou，qianquereqing，naizhixuduoneishihouquanshibaozhezheizhong“lixinggongshi”dexintai，zuizhongbubishuojiezhufuqishenghuolaitigaoqinggannongduzhile，keyibaochiqingganbuhuigaibianjishifeichanghao，hekuang，jiarufuqishenghuozheixingbukaixindehua，zhenduizhangqixingguanlianeryanshihenzhongtedadeyanlidaji。zainibukeyikaolvtadezhuangkuangxia，tadaziranshicongbiedefangshilaihuodeshenglixuedekaolv。

weihedajiadefuqishenghuohuibiandegengjiachani?zongshangsuoshujiushishuo2geyuangu：benshendeyouhuolijiangdihefourenyuce。

 benshenyouhuolijiangdifeichanghaolejie，shinidewaiguantahuijuedetibuqilaixingquaihao，neiyangtadaziranburongyiduinizijintouruguoduodeqinggan。ershuobailedefourenyuce，wojuedejiushishuozheizhongziwoanshi。tazaigennikaizhanfuqishenghuoyiqian，tajiuduicicidefuqishenghuomeiyouxiwang，naizhihuiganjueganshouhuihencaogao，zaizheileiziwoanshizhizhong，tadaziranganjuebenshendeshenglixuqiuwufakaolv。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?xiangyaobaituozheiyijiongjingyeduonan，zhibixubaozhengshiqing：tahuichixuqiangxian。liruninengmeigeguoguoduanshijianjiuyongbuyiyangdedanxiangshui，chuanbuyiyangdeshuipao，yingyongbuyiyangdiaoqingjiqiao，kaiqixindezitaizheixie。huanjuhuashuo，jiushishuotahuibuduanfajuetaduinidewajuebaifeiliqi，tajiuhuiduinixinggaocailiedizaiciduinizijintourushijianhehuoli，zheiyangdeshiqingxia，jiusuantayousixuwaiyu，yekanqilailibucongxinle。

二、心态状态上他会如痴如醉

nanshengdezuibenzhidexintaizhuangtaiyaoqiushisha?shibeibixuhebeiqinpei。

 danyincizaireqingbeidanwangyihou，dajiazhongjianjiumeibanfahaiyouxindereqingle，jiuhaoxianglaidao1geganqingdepingding，nishizhebaituo，keshiqueshilaobukepo，zuizhongqingganjiubeishijianjianjiandixiaoqian，zhiyoufaweile。suihoufaweizhizhong，daziranjiuburongyiyouguoduodeganqingqifu，nanrendexintaiyaoqiudaziranyejiumeibanfabeikaolv。

 yaoniuquzheileijushi，nizhibixuzuoshiqing：jiqinanshengdeweihuyu。youchengqianshangwandelizhengzhengshi，dangnanshengbeinvxingjifaweihuyudeneishihou，zaiweihunvxingdequanguochengzhong，nanrendexintaiyaoqiuhuidedaojudadekaolv。erjifananshengdeweihuyubingbushishuonisafadia，shuojijuhuajiujiuxingle，yeyaozaijiayidianerxiaoqiaomen。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?zuixian，yongwenroudeyudiaobiaoshuyuyanshangderenrang。wojulishuoming，dangnizaishenghuozhong，jiarutazaijiejuekunnandeneishihouganleyixieyuniniantouxiangfandeshi，niyexuhuiduitashuo：“niyingdang……”，“nibukeyi……zuo”zheileicululijidehua，nizanqiebatamenhuanweilingzheizhongwanzhuandefangshibiaoshu：“niganjue……neiyangzuoxingma?”，“nibubizuo……，wonengganjueshangxinyujue”。

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?ruguonizuolesuoshudebianhuanyihou，budebuchengrensuiranshitongshiqing，dantadexintaihuichedibuyiyang。youyuliangzheshizheizhongfourenlingyifangdejuxing，neiyangzongshijifatadeqingchunqipanni，jinertazongshiyuanyigennikaizhandikang，erqianzhezeshibiaoshuchuniyaogentayiqijiejuekunnan，keshinibixutadexiezhu，neiyangtajiuhuifanshengzijidezuofashifousunhaidaonini，suihouyuniyiqiqujiejuekunnan。

 ciwai，zaishenghuozhongjiashangyidianeryikao，tadeweihuyuhuigengduofangmiandejiqi。nvxingdeyikaoduinanshengeryanshizuixingxianghuadebeibixudezhuyaobiaoxian，keshiyaoliuyizhangwozhangwofencun，jiaruyikaowududehuafeichangrongyihuibianweixinlaixintaizhuangtai。yikaodebiaozhunjiushishuo：“suoshizishenchuli，dashiertahuichuli”，neiyangjibuhuihuainidezijuexing，tadexintaizhuangtaiyaoqiuyekeyibeijudakaolv。

三、衣食住行上提升外遇成本费

 youjuhuashuode：“bingbushibutiaoxuanpanbian，jinjinbeipandedaijiataigao”，yuanyirangnanshenghenpawaiyu，zuigaoxiaolvdefangshi jiushishuotishengtadewaiyuchengbenfei，tahuihenpasuibianwaiyu，xiangyaobaozhengzheiyidianer，ninengcongxiabiandefangfaquxiashou。

yutayuefasanzhang，chuangjianbenshenjiagou。

 meizijizairichangshenghuozhongdoushiwuyishidiqujiance、tiaozhanlingyifangdedaodedixian，erdangnimeiyoudaodedixian、meiyoubiaozhun，bumingbai(guoduan)huijuehebiaoshuzishenzhenzhengniantou，neimalingyifangbudanburongyiganjueni“tiexin、kuanrong”，haihuizhujianqingshinidetihuihejianyi，zuihounizhiyouzaitarendeweihaixiacunhuo，jiufangfoshuobailede“laoshiren”。zheiyangdeshiqingxia，nideairenwaiyuchengbenfeijibenshangweiling，youyutalejienizuihouhuiyuanliang，neimatashibupawaiyuhuisangshinaxie，tadaziranhuichixuwaiyule。yinci，nikeyigentayuefasanzhang，tahuilejienidedaodedixian，zaitapengchunidedaodedixiandeneishihou，likeduitakaizhanbuyiyangshuipingdechufa，neiyangtajiuhenpasuibiantiaozhannidedaodedixianle。

操控必须的财政权

 zaicixianggongzuoshang，jiarunikeyicaokongbixude“caizhengquan”，shijixiaoguohuigengqiang。zheierbingbushixiangyaonichedishouzoulingyifangdequanbu，zhishiconglingyifangdezhongqufangbufen，tongchangyi40%shangxiaweiyi，zheibufennenggou cunjinjinrongjigouzhongzuoweixianghucaifu，erdenglumimayounizhizhang。danglingyifangyuanyiwaiyudeneishihou，tayehuiyinerertoushujiqi，sisuowaiyudechengbenfeile。

zhengqueyindaozijintouru，danbukeyitishengweihubaoyanghunyindechengbenfei

 ruhewanhuihunyin?biaoda，“weihubaoyanghunyindechengbenfeiyueda，waiyudechengbenfeiyueduodi。dangnidezhangfuyaozuochushifendadexunzhinenggouweihubaoyangdajiadehunyin，neimaweihubaoyanghunyindechengbenfeijiutingda，dantawaiyudegailvjiuhengao(waiyudechengbenfeijiuhendi)。”

 zaihunyinjingyingzhong，renmenyaozhengqueyindaonanrenweijiazhongzuozijintouru，zijintourubaohanshijianzijintouru(rujiaoyuhaiziheqinren)、qiancaizijintouru(yangjiahukou)、ganqingzijintouru(liruduozaixiaohaiyanqianrenkelaogong，zailaogongyanqiantanjixiaohaiduibabadeqinpeiheyikao)，keshibukeyiyixinranglaogongzuochujidadexunzhi。liruranglaogongsheqizheifenshichangqianjinghenhaodeqishiye，huoshitashifenxiaidezheifengongzuozhong，huoshibizhetazainihemamazhongjianzuotiaoxuan……jiusuantazuihoudetiaoxuanquanshinisuoxiwangde。

 ruhewanhuihunyin?dantadexinlishiyouquehan、buxinganqingyuan、zhengtuohefenqide。zheizhongxiaojiqingxudekucunjiya，zaiqingganchuxianfenqishifeichangrongyijiuhuibafenqibianda，jihunyinchanshengjidadeanquanyinhuan;dangdisanzhechazushi，tafeichangrongyijiuhuiwaiyu，youyutawuyishilidichuwaiyudeyixiangbingbushinongyu，naizhishiyouduifudejijixintaizhuangtai。