作为妻子如何维护婚姻？

 ruhewanhuihunyin?zuoweiyiweilaopo，bixushizaijiazhongzhonggengqiangdeshiyanguishuyuzishenderenwujiaose，hunyinpoliedechuxiansihulaoponengfoufeichanghaodibajiazhongzhongluanqibazaodeshierdoujiejuehao，ranglaogongfanhuijiadequekeyitihuidaoguishuyujiazhongdewennuan。jiarulaopobukeyixianglaogongzhisuogan、zhilaogongzhishuzhi，tahuiganjuenibingbuyidanrentaderenshengdaoluairen，yunigongzhuzaijialihaibibushangyigerenguodewenxin。dangneiyangdeniantougangkaishijileideneishihou，hunyinjiuyuelaiyueyibuyoujuedele。laoponandaoshuoyanbabajiuneimekanjianlaogongcongshenpanglikaima?qingganwanhuizenmeban?

一、老婆应防止踏入婚姻的哪三大禁区

 fufuhexieyishizhuxingshihunyinzhongjianzuiguanjiandejiaowangjiqiao，keshi，weichihunyinhaibixukaolvdaoyishizhuxing、gongzuozhong、jiazhongdengduofangmiandeyaosu，ruguotarulehunyindeleiqu，feichangrongyizuochumouxieshashihuoshichunshi，yinqinanshengduinideweiman，fuqiguanxijiangyaoyuelaiyueyouyubuding，jianghuihuifashengxingguanxiliekaidezhuangkuang。zuoweilaopo，yingdanglejiefeichangrongyichanshenghunyindesandajinqu，jinerfangzhitarujinlaizaochengduoyudenanti。

 fangzhishuhuchuanzhedaban。jiehunhoudeyishizhuxing，bingfeishuonenggou shuhuchuanzhedabanzhuanxinzhizhizhaoliaojiazhongjiuhuanshang。zhangfuchuwaigongzuozhong，ruguochuxianjiaojihuoshigongchu，zaisuonanmianchupengdaomouxieyixingpengyou。zheizhongyixingpengyouhuiqutakaodehenjin，zaochengzheizhongbuyiyangdejingcaidexiyinzhu。suirangangkaishizheizhongyinyouduitagongxiaobingbuda，ruguonidelaogongshiyechenggongdeneishihou，huikanqilaihenqudechenggong，keshifanhuijiakandaonirenlaozhuhuangdemoyang，yidianeryouhuoliyebujuyou。tadejiyilihuishanguochuyiqianchuxianzaiyanxiadehaokanyixingpengyou，jiyoukenengxiangquchongjingzheixiexingfu。yinci，jiehunhoudeshenghuobixuanshidabanzishen，quebaozishenzaizhangfuyanlideyouhuoli，tahuiganjuewaibiandeyixingpengyouquanshifanfusuzi。

 ruhewanhuihunyin?fangzhimaiyuanyishizhuxing。youdenvxing，zaihunhouhuibizhaobierendeyishizhuxing，jiandaobierendeyishizhuxingbizishenhaoxie，zaochengleyoujiduyouxianmujidudexintaizhuangtai。zaijialixianglaogongmaiyuanzheimeiyouneimeiyou。jianghuinidemudiwojuedeshiyuanyijinanshengzheizhongqudongli，tahuilejiexianjieduanjiazhongyubiedehexiejiatingdechabie，xiangtahuijinergaoqingchu，yibianjiazhongjiejinsuonengqugongzuozhong。keshi，nidemaiyuanyishizhuxingjinikanshangquxianggeyuanfu，nidenanshengxiabanlefanhuijiazaoyitingleile，zaichongzheyuanzheiyuanneideni，qingxuzongshigengweicaogao，zhangciyiwangbianbuyuanzairichangshenghuozhongyingduini。

 quefaziwotisheng。youshihunyinchuxianqingkuangde1geyuangujiushishuoyouyufufulianggerendetongbutigaobuxiangtongsuodaozhi。nanshengzaigongzuofangmianhuodelefazhan，jianshihejianshidoukaikuolexuduo。youdelaopojianghuirenweitahuanshizhaojiu，haihetatanzhezhiqiandehuatitaolun。danwojuedetazaoyididale1gexindecengji，duizhiqiandejianjieyongyouxindeguandian，jiangchudeyujuchaoguolenilejiedeshuiping，nimeibanfagentagoutongjiaoliuxialai。buzhinizaoyibuxingtadejiaobu，peinimeiletanhuaneirongdian，dajiazhongjiandeyishizhuxinghaikeyicunzaifenweima?

 ruhewanhuihunyin?ganqinggaoshoukangnashuoguo：“laopozaijiajugongzuonengli、renjijiaowangnenglihuoewaishiyongjiazhishangdebugou，rangzhangfudeyaoqiushiqukaolv，tajiuhuizhaolingyigederenkaolvzishendequeshaogan。”hunhoushenghuodequanguochengwojuedejiushishuobuduanfazhandequanguocheng，benrenzongtigongzuonenglidebugou，dengyushiyuandipaobumeifabuduanxiyinzhuzhelaogong。

二、婚后生活中你该变成一位如何的老婆

 hunyindelumianshangtianmanlejianxianquzhe，yuanyiyoumeiduanhaodehunyintaiburongyi，fuqijiandejiaowangdaodiruhecaisuanshibijiaohaode。weihelaogongduinizheibanlengmo，taduinihaobuguanxin，goutongjiaoliudepinciyuelaiyuedi，duijiazhongdejiqingdujianshaole。cikenihaiyaofajue，shifouzishenzuobuduiyixieshier，ranglaogongduiniyulaiyuxinhan，yincitacaihuiduiniailibuli，qinggangangkaishizhujianjianwen。

 ganqinggaoshoukangnashuoguo：“nvxingdefanyugongzuonenglibaohanshenxing、waimaodengwaizaipinpaixingxiang，erewaishiyongjiazhizeshifanyugongzuonenglidetuokuan，baohanjiajugongzuonenglijiqinrenguanliandiaohe、hemudujiwenxinshuipingdeng。”hunhoushenghuoshizheimendadejiaoxue，nvxingbumingbaitigaoziwojiazhi，zainanshengdeyanlijiushizhongshidishiyongjiazhideyouyuegan，dabushanglaogongdeyuguqidai，kezhihunyinzaochengbuxing，yiner，nikeyixuehaoxuehaoxialie3dian，rangbenrendeshiyongjiazhihuodetigao，ranglaogongduinilingyanxiangkan。

 zuo1geqinkuaidelaopo。yongyoujiazhong，haiyaoweiquanbujiajushenghuoerkunao。nanshengguanjianyiqishiyeweizhu，laopode1geguanjiandemeirirenwujiushishuoqingxihaojiating，ranglaogongfanhuijialikeyikan1geganjingzhengjie，ganjingzhengjiedejiazhong。jiarulaopobuxiangjiawulaodong，jinjinsuiyideqingxiyixiaxia，nanshengjiyanjiukeyikanchuqunishibushiyouyongxinweizheiyijiazhongguanxin，nidelansanhuijiazhongtaduinidechayinxiang，shizhongxialaitahuichengshoubushangzheiyijia，yincihuichanshengjiatingjiufen。

 zuo1gegujiadelaopo。poxiguanxinaiziguyilainandian，yaomingbaifangzhiyujiapochanshengzhengzhi，zainenggou tuoxiedediqu，nenggou xiantingquyijianjiapodejianyi，bubijijitiaodongfenqi，yaomingbaihuanjielianggerendeguanlian，rangjushihuodeshenhuadecaozong。shouweiqiantitiaojianbukeyidanxinzaiqiadangshifoucengmian，nikeyichongfenkaolvjiazhongdehexie，ruguoguodubianbo，nidexintaihuishenggaodaozheizhongduoyiqingkuang，jiapojiandaonineiyang，huijuedewobuzhongshita，jinerqingxuburuyi。jieguojiushishuolaogongzaidajiazhongjianmeibanfazuo1gejunhengzhe，yinqifenqi。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?zuo1geguanzhulaogongdelaopo。fuqijiandeyouhaoxiangchu，yougeqiantitiaojianshimingbaiyaohuxiangzhaogu。yuanyizhangwolingyifangdeniantou、qingkuang，zuilijidefangfajiushishuogenjugoutongjiaoliu，quzhangwolingyifangdekunnan，qulingtinglingyifangdexuqiu。jiusuannizuoweiyiweinvshi，nengbangdaomangdediquyouxiangongsi，keshinizhishaonenggou zuo1gelingtingzhe，zheidoushizheizhongfeichangdeguanzhu。nixiangyaoqufentanlaogongdeyoulv，tahuiduinixincunganen，rangdajiazhongjiandejiaowanggengweihemu。

三、维护保养长期性关联：怎么才能运营好自身的婚姻

 jingyinghunyinshizheimenshenaodedaxuewen，zhinengxuehaohaohaodijingyinghunyin，nidehunhoushenghuocaihuixingfukuaile。jiaruzaiyebuhuijingyinghunyin，zongshicouhe、yingshouleshi，neimafuqizhijiandefenqihuibuduanzaocheng，neijiazhongyizhimimanzhezheizhongfumianxinxidexintai，zhangciyiwang，dajiajiuburongyizaixiangjiale，rendoumeiyoule，jiashikongde，neimadajiadehunyinyoumeiyoushenmeshijiyiyini?zuihouzongshitaruliyidelumian。neima，renmenyingdangruheyunyingzishendehunyinni?

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?fuqizhijianduoyidianjiaoliuyugoutong。duoyidiangoutongjiaoliushiweichihunyindefeichangjiandaneryoudebanfa，dangnipengdaoshierbugenlingyifangshangyi，zhimibuwu，neimanizaigentoudejiyuyueduoda，bingqiehuiranglingyifangganjuewobuzhongshita。jiaruliangrenqianquegoutongjiaoliu，neimajiufeichangrongyizaochengcaiji，caijiruguozaocheng，neimaliangrendelianqingshichuangjianqilaidexinlaijiuhuiqingketanta，zheiyineishihou，dajiahunyinjiuhuizaoyuweiji。yinci，xuehaogenlingyifangduoduodegoutongjiaoliu，zhinengneiyang，nenggourangdajiaduilingyifangdexinlaiganyulaiyuqiang，dajiadeguanlianyehuiyulaiyulaogu。

 bubirangyishizhuxingtaikuzaofawei。fuqizhijianjiaowangdeyuejiu，shenmiganjiuhuizhujianxiaotui，zheiyineishihou，ninengjuedefangfomeiyouneimaailingyifangle。wojuedezheiyouyudajiadeyishizhuxingtaikuzaofaweile。yinci，jibianjiaowanglehaozhangshijian，huanshinenggou duoyidiangenlingyifangchulaiyouhuidujialvyou，duoyidianshizhemouxiexindewupin，rangzheizhongyouyisideshitianbudajiazhongjianyouyujiaowangshijianzhangzaochengqueshaodeshenmigan。zhinengrangyishizhuxingduocaiqilai，nenggouhelidiweidajiadeganqinglengzang。

 chuangjianhaojiangchengtizhi。zaijingyinghunyinrichangshenghuoyaochuangjianjiangfatizhi，danglingyifangzaihunyinlibianchuxianbuzhengqueshi，nenghelidichufa，ranglingyifangguanniandaobuzhengque，fangzhichuxianleisinantizaichuxian。rutongganqingzhuanjiakangnashuode：“jianchibuxiezishendebiaozhun，lianqingzhonglingyifangfancuowudeneishihoubixuyaojitamenxiangduidechufa，yaoburanlingyifanghuihelixingzishendebuzhengquebingchixuqinhainidebiaozhun。zhangjiuyiwang，lingyifanghuibuzhongshibuxinlaini。”yinci，zuobuduihaiyaochufa，zuomeicuojiujiyujiangshang，1gequdechenggongdejiangchengtizhi，zaijingyinghunyinlinenggou qihenhelidegongxiao。

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?jiazhongyaosuwojuedeyehuishilaogongyiqingbieliandeyuanguzhishou，laopoyizhibaoyuanlaogong、youbutigaobenren，jiazhongdeqifenzhiyoushifaweieryouxiaochende，meiyoufenhaoshijiyiyi。yishizhuxingzaineiyangdeziranhuanjingxia，yiqingbielianshizaisuonanmiande。keshixiangfanxiangyixiaxia，dangjiazhongdailailaogongdeshizheizhongtianmeiwennuandexiangyoushi，tahaihuiyiqingbielianma?bu，tahuishiquwangzishendelaopo，balaopozuoweizishendebao。yinci，yuanyiwanhuihunyin，balaogongdexinlashanglai，laopobixusisuobenshendecunzaidebuzu，xiangjinbanfatigaoziwojiazhi，niuqubeiaidejiazhongqingkuang。