怎么快速挽回老公？

 ruhewanhuihunyin?jiarulaogongzaiwaibianmaishenledisanzheer，zuoweitadelaopohaowuyiwenhuifeichangnaonu，hentabazheiyijiazhizhibuli，hentaweiheneimajueqingdujuelianren。yaolejiejiazhongdefensui，zaoshousunhaidebujinshilaopo，xiaohaiquefalexiangxidejiazhongduitadexinshenshengzhangfayuyehuizaochengweihai。wanliulaogongkeburonghuan，keshidisanzheerzheiyidirenyebukeyihulve，zaiwanliuquanguochengzhongruguolaopoyonglepianjifangshi，laogongdexinlijianghuihuipianzhongyuhedisanzheerxiangchu。disanzheerbingbushibunengjibai，lejiedisanzheerdequedianbiankejiangqijibai，ranglaogongzhongfanjiazhong。qingganwanhuizenmeban?

一、挽留老公的全过程中最先要防止犯错误

 zuipubiandehunyinbuxing，moguolaogongyouwaiyu。shubuzhiyingduichuguidelaogong，conghuilaopoxiyinlezhangfudexin，yumeilaopoquejiangzhangfuyinxiangdisanzheerdehuaizhong。neidaodishenmegerenxingweishiwanliuzhongzuibuzhengquedezuofani?

 mohubuqingshilideyoukuyounao。yingduichuguinanren，tebieshizaishizheixiexingzishouhuanyingdelaopo，zaifajueyiqiannagezishihenlaoshibajiaolaogongjuranganlepanbiancishi，mengrannuhuochongtian，changchanghuichezhumouyijianshijielidalilaiyoukuyounao，ermeiyicidachaodanaozhihou，nanshengyijiuwaiyu，pinciduole，shijianzhangle，nanshenghaihuiyi“ganqingpolie”weiyou，zainidetoudingmomingqimiaokouqilaiyigemoxuyoude“zheyangmao”。daoneishihou，niminglejietawaiyuyouwuzaixian，quemeifaboquzhoubianrendelianmin，hailuoxialai1ge“hanfu”dezuixing。

 xiangbicilaorenmen“kongsu”。yeyouderendaoyikuernaosandiaosidoumeifadadongzhangfuhehaoruchuyihou，jiuhuijiangzhangfuchuguidezuixinggaosutaguojiazhengfu、popobabamama、jiedi，xiangdedaozheizhonglaorenmendexiezhu，qidaitamenlaiquandaolaogonghuiguo。kezheileijiduyinsideshieryaoshizailaorenmenzhongjianchuanchuhou，yidinghuishengcheng“dajiazuzhanshi”。henxianzhu，guojiazhengfuyupopozaiduidaichuguinanrenzhizhonghaowuyiwenhuichanshengmaodun，jiusuantamendouhenliangzhi，danquanjiedehuajiaofayedabuyiyang，kezainanshenglaikan，bazishendeyinsibaohugongbule，shuobailedezizun、mianbudoubeisidiaole，tamenjiuhuigengweimingmuzhangdandequzhaoqingrenfalaosaoqu，zailaorenmenyizhengpian“wenhuajiaoyu”shengzhongbaochichenmo，dengshengxiangyiguo，haihuidaohuilaifanyaoniyidakou。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?duidisanzheershiyi“taotianzuixing”。yixielaopozaifajuelaogongchuguile，jiuhuitoutoudizhaoxunyanzangzaizhangfushenhoude“nvxing”，suihouzaimotoutadexingji，zhaoxunjihuiyudisanzheerhudui，youdenaizhihaihuisuishenxiedaiqidagu、bayimabaotiaoruleideqianquxiaojichunao。nenggou haowuyiwen，disanzhehuizaizheiyineishihoufangdefeichangrouruo，tabidinghuibaozhengmabuhaikou、dabuhaiji，jinizhangfujiandaotabeinidudadeqingkuang，jiqinizhangfudeweihuchongdong，suihouzaichizenidezheileihanfugerenxingwei。guohou，nizhangfuhuilikebangtabanxinjia，huanyigediquzangqilai，neishihounibudanzhaobuzhedisanzheer，yexulianzhangfudouzhaobuzhe。

二、几种不一样排位的第三者儿解决手册

 youxuduozaoshoudaolaogongchuguidelaopodangfajueledisanzheerdecunyoushi，genjugezhonggeyangduoyidefangshiquzhaoqingren“jichulilun”，suihouhebaquanbudebiequheweimanyitiandaowangenlaogongzhengchao。zheileizaoshoudaolaogonghunneichuguihounvxingdezhuyaobiaoxianhenpubian，erjuedaduoshudenanshenglijingneimeyixiazhetengyihou，juedewaiyushiduide，zaoyihelaopohuodehaolei，disanzhecaishitazuiyuanyideren。meiyigerendezaoyuheqinshenjinglidoubutong，yiner，disanzheeryeshibuyiyangdepaiwei，nizhangwoma?younajizhongpaiweidedisanzheer?

 ruhewanhuihunyin?dipaiweidedisanzhezhihuikutianqiangdi，yonggezhonggeyangduoyidefangshi shuayouyuegan，binanrenlihun。zhongdengshuipingpaiweidedisanzheerchuchukelian，mingbaigennanrenzhuangruo。gaopaiweidedisanzheerbuchaobunao，buduantishengzijidefengcaibinggaosutananshengnidexifufeichanghao，quantazhongguijiazhong。dengdedisanzheer，chukaiyouchongzudeyouhuoli，yeyouconghuidedanao，bulushengseditishengtamendetichufenshouchengbenfei，rangnanshengbukehuoqueta，naizhiyeyouqingshanggaohezhishanggaoqianyidajiadezichan。jizhongpaiweidedisanzheerjiejueshouce

 dipaiweidedisanzheershizuizhebuzhude，wobuzhaotanaizhitadoushijijiquyueni，zheixiepaiweidedisanzheernizhibixulizhi。zheileixingqingdedisanzheerdangnanshengpengdaodeneishihou，huiganjuehencijixing，yuanyichanshengdiannaxie，shijianzhanglezaochengleqingganjiuzaochengleduzhanyu。tamenrutong1gedingshizhadanxiangtong，genjugezhonggeyangfangshi xunzhaoni，duinishuo，nidelaogongzuiaiderenshita，quannifangkaishou。dangnitongmanaizhidongshounenglidata，neimawoyezhengzhongxiahuai。youyurenaoni，gengshitadeyuanyi。niruguoneimeganle，nanshengbianyaoduita“chengdan”le。

 zhongdengshuipingpaiweidedisanzheeryiban quanshidonglezhenxinshiyi，benshendeqinshenjinglichushengdourangnanshengganjuetahenkeling，xiangjitaduoxiedeshijianheqiancailaitengxita。cike，nanshengyiban shixianwenkong，zaijishizhisun。dangtaguanniandaoliyidechengbenfei，tahuibuduanchengrencuowu，yibiaodajijizhongguijiazhong，waiyujinjinyizhenzifancuowu。

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?gaopaiweidedisanzheerhenlixinglizhi，youyutamenlejietayaodeshiren，youchongzudexixin。wenwenruyazhushitinanshengguanxin，jiyunanshengchongzudeguanzhu、tiexin。niyuechaoyuenaoyuefakanqilaitagudaju。pengdaozheileipaiweidedisanzheer，nizuixianyaozuode，jiushishuojitamenchongzudesimikongjian，butiyouguandisanzheerdeyiqieshier，bazishendeyishizhuxingguodexuanliduocai，zaishiduquzuodishuipinghelixinggaodeyixingpengyoucijixing。shijianruguojiule，neiyangdedisanzhedengbule。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?zuizhongzheizhongpaiweidedisanzheer，shizuilihaiderenwujiaose，guangpingjiedanqiangpimameibanfajiejuezheileidisanzheer。tamenyaodebujinshiren，huanshidajiadezichan，dangtakeyiyouzishen qianyidajiadezichan，nanshengjingshenchuhuyelihunle。jiaruyaodazheicizhang，bixuyaolejiedao，zheiyibuzaishikoushuizhang，qingganzhang，zhishiziyuanzhang、danaozhanghefalvfaguizhangle。

三、挽救婚姻之变成比第三者更出色的女性

 xuduonvxingzaihuozhizishenzhangfuchuguideneiyishunjian，xinlibixushihenbenkuide，nixiangbudaozishenjingranhuiyushangzheizhongshiqing。yixienvxingjianghuihuixintaishiling、niantouxiangfangshefaquzhuaxianxingbiaozhun、yikuernaosandiaosi、chixudechizezhangfude“zuixing”zheixie。ruguoniganlezheizhonggerenxingweihou，jiyoukenengdajiadehunyinshiwufabuduanxialaile。

 yingduichuguidelaogong，nibuxianglihun、buyuanrangzishendexiaohaibianweiliyijiatingdexiaohai。niyuanyiwanjiuhunyin，neimanibixuruhezuoni?rutongzhimingganqingzhuanjiakangnachangshuo：“duiyubuyiyangdedisanzheerzhonglei，zishenzuochuxiangduideduice。yingduiqianghanxihuanwanxingdedisanzheer，nvxingyaoyuelaiyuexianshu;yingduishiyexingdedisanzheer，nvxingyaotishengzijidegongzuonengli;yingduihaokandedisanzheer，nvxingyaowaiguanshejigengxingaizao;yingduiwenrouxingdedisanzheer，nvxingyaoxuehaoshengchanzhizaoyinyou。”wojuede，nihaikeyihuanyigeshijiaoxiangzhe，weihezhangfuxiangquzhaoqingren，zenmehuixiaidisanzheer，tingdashuipingshangnanshengxiaidisanzheerdediqushinibixugaishandediqu。

 zhaodaozishendebugou。ruguonilejiezhangfuchuguideneiyishunjian，nijianghuihuixiangtaruheneimameiyouzerengan，buzhongchengjiazhong，bazishenfangdao1geshouhairendezhenshishenfenshang。nizongshibayuangutongtongtuizailingyifangshoushang，juedetongtongshilingyifangdecuo，jihumeiyousikaoguozishen，zishenshibushiyecunyouzhebixudenanti。nanshengwangwanghuiwaiyu，nvxingdoushicunyoubixudeyiwude，youyuwenxindejiashiwaiyudejiaodachengbenfei。jiarudajiadehunyinmeiyounanti，nidezhangfuyeburongyichumenlieyan，disanzheeryeburongyichenxuerru。nikeyimingbaizhaodaobenshendenanti，xunzhaohunyinchuxiannantidegenbenyuanyin，nenggouduizhengzhiliao，wanjiuhunyin。

 tigaozishen。ruguonizouruhunyinzhihou，nijianghuihuiganjuedajiazhongjianyongyouyizhanghunshu，dajiazaoyibianchengfalvfaguishijiyiyishangdefufule，lingyifangbixuburongyizailiquzishen，yincinigangkaishibuxiangzhenglizishen，renpingzishenzimingqinggao，yeyibutigaoziji，renpingzishenbiancheng1ge“renlaozhuhuang”。youneimeyiduanhua，rongmaojuecezaimayikuaier,neihanjueceyiqiduozhangshijian。ruguonierzhedouqueshaodeneishihou，nixiyinzhunidenanshengma?disanzheerweihenengxiyinzhunidenansheng?jiushishuohuoxushuhuduibenshendeguanlifangfa，bumingbaiweichijiqitigaobenshendefengcai，jiushinizishendewuzuoweijinerbazhangfutuidaodisanzheerdeshenpang。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?duifudisanzhedequanguochengzhongzuizhongshishizhidoudisanzhe，tadechuxianshichaikaidajialiangzhongjiandehunyinqinggandejiaodaquedian。raokaiwanliudeleiqu，xuanzhundisanzheerdezhonglei，neimawanliulaogongdegousijiuhenqingchule。huoxuzaoyilejiedisanzheerxiyinzhulaogongdaodishinajidianneirong，conghongguanjingjideshijiaolaikannizaoyilejiedisanzheerdequedianle。dangnikeyizuodebidisanzheergengqiang、gengjizhi，neimalaogongweihehaihuiliudaolingyifangdeshenpang，nizaoyishilaogongxinzhongzhongzuibangdelaopole，disanzheerduitazaoyizaochengbushangyiqieyouhuoli，jiazhongyejiuzhongguidaoqingkuangle。