如何做一个好老婆？挽回男人的心

 ruhewanhuihunyin?shijiandechendinghegongzuojingyandetigao，huijiang1genanhaizipaoguangchulidegengjiajingzhichenwen，yinerdahuoertongchang huiganjuenanhaizisuizhenianlingdetigaohuiyuejijufengcai。zhangfudeshangpindejiazhibiandeyuelaiyuegao，ruoxifudeshangpindejiazhibunenggenqisuizhitisheng，buzhengquedengdeshangpindejiazhihuishizhangfuganjuexifudexiyinlimeichaochutarenkedeshuiping。jiehunhoudeshenghuozhongxifubajuedabufenshijiandouqinfenzailejialishang，queshirongyihuihulveduibenshengenggaoyaoqiudegoujian。jiushiyinweineiban，dangzhangfupengdaobixifuxiyinligenggaodenvshishi，zongyongyouhunhouchuguideweihaixing。qingganwanhuizenmeban?

一、挽留老公之的媳妇，就是做个“狐狸精”

 nanrenhenvrenzhengzhongjianyouyizhongyuzhongbutongdexiyinli，neishihouyikuaieryinweizheizhongxiyinlidezuoyong，dahuoerbicizhijiandoujuededuifangyuekan，yuexindong，zheijiaofengcai。danshigenjushujufenxi，nanhaizibichuguinvrendegailvgao，hendadeyuanyinyinweijinglishiguangdecuimo，nvshengqizhizhubuxiaosan，ernanhaiziqueshirutongmeijiuyiban ，yuechenyuexiang。

 zhumingfuhedashikangnashuoguo：nvshitangruoxiyinlichongyuqiangdehua，neimetazuoshenmetadenanhaiziquanshijieshou。conggudaojin，hongyanhuoshui，huoguoxiekuijibenshanghenduo，wulunshifenghuoxizhuhou，haishijiuchiroulin，tamendoubeiguanyi“hulijing“dechenghao，zheibingfeibianyi，yinershuo，xiangyaonidelaogongduiniweimingshicong，xiangyaotaduinisixintadi，jiushizuo1ge”hulijing“。

 ruhewanhuihunyin?hunhoujuebufangqiduipiaoliangdewanmeizhuyizhe。zainiyizhidouzaibaoyuannilaogongshenbiandedisanzheerdeneishi，niweihebusisuoyixiabenshendeqiyexingxiang，weihebukenyixiadisanzhenenghuodechenggongxiyindaonilaogongdeyanguang。hunhoudeni，yinweiyaozhaogujiali，xiaopengyou，dangjindexuduonvxinghaiwubidanrengongzuoshang，yinernifangqileshulinidebiaoceng，huoshengshengbabenshenxiagaocheng1geshangyejiedashendeqiyexingxiang。nilaogongruhebuyibeiwaimianmiaotiaoshencai、younvshengqizhidedisanzhesuoyouhuoni?shehuijingjifazhanzhongmeigerenshigongpinggongzhengde，wuxushuonizongle，yizhedabanyixiajiushuomeixiumeiliande，duiyupiaoliangdewanmeizhuyizheshirenhenianlingrenherenjingchangchuxianzheiyizizhizhengshu，rangnifengcaile，rangbenshenyulaiyubidisanzheerhaiyao“disanzheer“，wanhuita，youyouhenanni?

 wobeidechichuanzhuxingjijianxiangmudeduozhongduoyangmeilidongren。hunhoudeni，chulemeitiandebibukeshaojiawuhuogongzuozhong，nikeyijidenizhiqiandegerenxingquaihaoshishenmema?xianrujindenichulejiazhangliduan，jiushimeirileidabudongdeshijiankankuqingjuzuoweixiaoqian，mingquezhichulvyoudujiaqulvyouyiquan，yebeiniyi“puzhanglangfeiqian“deyuangudajin。neibankuzaodeni，nijuedetadequebuyiyanjuanma?fengcaishikeyi congshenghuofangshizhonghuodede，niwucaibinfendechichuanzhuxing，tishixinxileniduozangzaibeihoudeshenghuoguannian，jianqiniyiwangdegerenxingquaihao，buyinjiatinghunyinfangqinideweixinfapengyouquan，chuqulvyoudujiafazhanqushinideshiye，zheileidoushinengchengxiannidefengcaideyibufen。tagenniyizhidouzaiyiqishixiangyaowucaibinfendechichuanzhuxing，erbingfeilewushengqudeyangzi，jingcaijuelundeni，keyixiyintadeyanqiu，keyiyouwanhuitadexiwang。

 ruhewanhuihunyin?rengxianidedanvrenzhuyi，zuogenuanren“tiexinxiaomianao“。renmenmiaoshunvershi“nuanrendetiexinxiaomianao“，worenweibudanshinver，liyingchengzuonvxing。nanhaizishiwanqiangdedaibiao，aimuxurongdoubijiaoqiang，zainanhaizidexinli，doushiyouyougubeiwubibeirenkedeyuwangde。nvshikeyi qiangda，danshibunengzainanhaiziyanxiaqiangda，youqishibenshendenanhaiziyanxia，yinweizaitamenyanli，nvshidoushirouruodewubibeiweihubaoyangde，rudisanzheer，tamennengshulianyunyongzheizhongxiantiandeyoushi，laiduinanhaizifadia，chengxianbenshenrouruodeyimian，rangnanhaizidaozhiweihubaoyangyu。shidangqianrang，chengxiannixiaonvrendeyimian，tahuiganjuebeiwubi;duozhangwoduolingtingbingqiekeyongtadexiangfa，huizhanzaitadejianjiexiangnandian，tahuiganjuebeirenke;tahuijuedenishi1getaoxinuanrendexiaonvren，ziranjiehuiduinilishenbushede。

二、要吸引住丈夫，务必提升媳妇的附加商品的价值

 doushuorongyanshidiyiweixiyinli，tashigerenjiazhizhongfeichangzhongyaodeyibufen。danshirongyandexiyinlibingbushiyonghengbubiande，tahuisuizheshijiandetigaoerjianjiandijiangdi，yinerxiangyaojingchangxingxiyindaoduifang，zhikaohaokandebiaocengshibugoude，nikeyiwubitigaozijidefujiashangpindejiazhi。

 shenmeshifujiashangpindejiazhi?nvxingdegerenjiazhibaokuonianling、zhangxiang、shengaohetizhongdenggudingbubianyinsu，erfujiashangpindejiazhishigerenjiazhidezhongkeyi yijurenweishiwubiangengdeyinsu，birushenghuoguannian、jiajujiajuzhuanyenenglihedairenjiewuzhuanyenenglideng。

fujiashangpindejiazhiduidahuoerdeqingganyoushenmeshanghai?

 duiqinzigoutongdeshanghai。heduifangyikuaiershi，doushixiangguoheduifangtaruliyideshendian。danganqingshilianggerendeshiqing，liyizeshi2gejialideronghe。popoxifuzishizhizhongshifuqiganqingzhonghendade1genanti，liangbiandoushinizhangfuzhongyaoderen，ruguonibunenghaohaodichulipopoxifu，zhangfuzaizheizhongneishijiuhuixianrujintuiliangnandejingyu。jiaruoninenghetadejiarenxiangchuhexie，nengrongyuduifangdejiali，neimezairichangshenghuozhongyinweiwonengweitajianshaohenduofannaoheyali。nenghenhaodiaoheqinzigoutong，zheiquanshigaofujiashangpindejiazhidetixian。yongyougaoshangpindejiazhideni，tayizhigengjiaaihu。

 duizishen xiyinlideshanghai。17suishinikeyipiqibaozao，yexunianqingpiaoliangyouzichan，neishitabeinishenshenxiyin，yinertanengjieshou;tangruorendaosishinidepiqihaishineimebaozao，danshinizaojiumeiyouleyiqiandeyoushi，jianshaolebiaocengdexiyinli，meiyoutahuihelihuanideyuangu，yizhirangdahuoerdexiangchuchuxiannandian。waizaixiyinlishiyiduanshijiande，weiyoushizhixiyinlisuanzuoyonghuande，birudairenjiewudezhuanyenengliheshenghuoguanniandeng。tigaozijidefujiashangpindejiazhi，tishengzijidezonghexingjingzhengnengli，jianchixiaqudeweirenchushifangshi，yonglianghaodexintaijiejuechichuanzhuxing，rangbenshendeqiyexingxiangyulaiyutaiyangguang，youneierwaishifangchulaidongrenfengcai，neibankeyizhangqixingbaochinidexiyinli。

 ruhewanhuihunyin?duijingchangxingguanxideshanghai。haosishenzhenpojingzhongyuangongsifuzerenkangnachangshuo：“xifuzaifujiashangpindejiazhishangdebuzu，ranglaogongdeguidingsangshikaolvdao，tajiuhuizhaolingwaiderenkaolvdaobenshendequefagan。”renshihuibuduanbianhuade，suhuashuosanshierli，dangtadenianlingdaodawubishuizhuntahuiquanfangweidiweizijidejianglaizuotiqianzhunbei，youbenshendegongzuojihua，xianglaitishengzijidezhuanyenengli。ercikeruguonimeiyoujinsuiduifang，qutishengzijidefujiashangpindejiazhi，fanerzhizeduifang“gennizheimeduonian，nizenyangbianhuahenda，buruyiwangneibandaibenshen”，neimedahuoerzhengzhongjiandequbieyizhiyuelaiyueda，yishidefenqiyehuisuizhikuoda，weidahuoerdeguanxitishengweiji。tishengzijidefujiashangpindejiazhi，quebaoheduifangbingjianzuozhan，baochidahuoerdegongtongxing，weidahuoerdeqingganjianshaoweiji。

三、离异，我认为是你福建新东方的开心快乐

 zaiyiduiduimaoheshenlidefuqizhijian，nengkandaode，juedaduoshudoushigaobudongruhequjingyinghunyindefuqi。mouxiexiangyaoheduifanghaohaodeshenghuoguochulai，danyinweizaiguochengzhongyongliguomeng，erranghuxiangdoupibeile，zuizhongwukebimianfuqiganqingpoliedejieshu。

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?zenqujingyingdiyiduanwanmeideaiqingni?zailiyizhongdenvshi，nikeyisisuoyixiazishen ，zaizheizhongliyizhong，nibanyan1geshenmedeyouxijiaose。xianrujinjuedaduoshudenvshi，doubaliyizuoweibenshendequanbu，bianyujiali，yibianxiaobaobaofangqitishengzijidejihui，xunzhiguoduo，danshiyineryinweixunzhiguoduo，erranghuxiangdeyalikuozhang，ernongdehuxiangxinliqiaocui。

yiner，zuoweinvshi，yaodajianwanmeideaiqing，gaizenquzuoni?

 duizijifuzerenshengzhiludezhurenweng。tingzhinisuoyouyiqiedejianyanzhideweijiali，weixiaohaizide“xunzhi”，shishishang，tamenyebuyaonineibanyixiangqingyuandeweitamen“xunzhi”，zheibujinqueshaodiaorangnitishengziji，rangbenshengengjiaxingfukuailedejihui，erqiehaihuirangtamenweinidanfuzheiyiqiezaochengdefumianyingxianghezeren。youzheizhongxintaideren，yixiangqingyuandeweiduifangxunzhidiaoyiqiebenshenganjueyouyiyideshiqing，babenshendejianglaixinrendaoduifangshouli，tigaoduifangdeyali，zaiduifangshaoweiyouyidianzuodebuzhengquedeneishi，jiuhuiyikaishigeshigeyangmaiyuan。niwangjiledeshi，liyizhishinifujianxindongfangdekaixinkuaile，nisuanzuonibenshenrenshengzhiludezhurenweng，jiaruxuancuoleweizhi，yizhirangdahuoerdousangshikaixinkuaile。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?zhiyouyigerendeqinfenbujiaoliyi。xiangaishilianggerendeshi，fenlichulaisuanzuozishendeshi。worenweizheijuhuaduiyuliyilaijiang，quanshitongyang。meiyoudiyiduanwanmeideaiqing，shiyikaozijiquzhidianquqinfende，erqiebuqinfenderen，yejibenshangdoubuyiganshoudaolaiziliyidekaixinkuailehexingfukuaile。jiuhaosizhumingganqingzhuanjiakangnachangshuode：“qinggandexingfutihuilaiziyuqinfen，nibunengzishenqinfenbunengduifangqinfen，bunengduifangqutihuimeihaodeaiqing。”ganshoubuleliyidexingfukuaile，jiubuyiweiliyiquqinfen，buyiqunuliweixiubaoyangliyi。yinerhunyindezhendijiushi，huxiangquweixiubaoyang，huxiangweidajiandiyiduanxingfukuaileliyiernuli，suanzuozhenzhengwanmeideaiqing。tangruotabudong，nihaiyaojiaotaba。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?xifubabenshenhuobianwei1gechuncuidejiatingfunv，keyi ganjuetadegerenjiazhishizaiyuandipaobu。shangpindejiazhihexiyinlishiguanxide，dangzishensangshixiyinli，ruherangnvxingpengyouweinibaochigaodudeguanzhu。chichuanzhuxingjuebudanbaohanlejiali，duibenshendegaoyaoqiujuebuyunxuxiazhu，ruheyulaiyupiaoliang、jinbengyuzhangfuzhengzhongjiandejiange、zenyanggaishandefujiashangpindejiazhi，dangxifuzhugequebaolezheileidian，danyoubunengchediwanhuizhangfudexin。