保卫婚姻：如何战胜第三者？

 ruhewanhuihunyin?disanzheershi1gehenfeichangdecunyou，shuotashilihunxiongshouyeduile，zhongjiutayaoyi1gebuchengshidefangmianshanghuoshengshengdijindaodaoliangzhifuqideyishizhuxingzhizhong。laopohuitaoyantabuzhixiuchi，jiushiyaochaikailiangzhiyuanbenxiangaidefufu。jiusuangaosutalaogonghedisanzheershiburongyiyoujieguode，laogongdoubuxiangyaotingquyijianlaopodetiyi，huanshiyudisanzheerzaicitouhuan。zheierwojuedexuduonvxingdoushixinlishifenyihuo，weihedisanzhehuibilaopogengkeyixiyinzhulaogongni?laogongningkemaozhechuguixingweihaiyaowaiyutudeshisha?qingganwanhuizenmeban?

一、出轨老公的缘故是贪婪還是失落?

 chuguinanrennenggou fenchengliangdalei，yiyaotanlan，yuanyizhengfu2daliangdenvxinglaikaolvzishendechongdong;ershishiluo，laiyuanyuduilaopoduijiazhongnaizhishiduiyishizhuxingdeshiluo，yuanyizailihunyiwaixunzhao1gechurukou。yuanyijiejiunidelihun，nihaiyaofenqingxinidechuguilaogongyouyunaleibie，ninenggouduizhengzhiliaowanliutadexin。nilejietashinayangyuanguwaiyu，gaiyaoruhewanliuma?

 ruhewanhuihunyin?disanzheerrenhexiangnanshengkanqi。shuodisanzheerxinzhongzhongzhinengnanren，jinguanbuqingchushizhendema，jibianbingbushi，danzuishaodisanzhehuizhuangzuo。haode，nanshengjiushishuoxiaizheiyidianer，youshihoubenlailejiezheiyinvrenxinhenda，zishensuozhandebuweibudayehuiganjuebuzaihu，fanguolaidahuoershiniqingwoyuan。wojuedexuduonanshengdouhushileyidianer，dangtamenjuededisanzheerchediyaoyitamen1gerenweiyinsuguanlizhongxindeneishihou，wojuedejiazhongdelaopoyezhiyaoninanren，jinjinkandaidefangfabutongeryi，yigenvhaixinganqingyuannuliqingchunnianshao，xiangyaopeiniquqishengzijianli1gejiazhong，suihouhaixinganqingyuanzhaodianhaojialirenheshiwuguanli，zheiyineishihou，nanshengmenshifougaixiangzhesheisuanshiduinishideren?

 disanzheermingbaiganxie。disanzheermingbaiganxie?zheigeshishenmehua?yuanxian，zainanshengyanzhong，disanzheerzaiqudenanshengjitadeqianshi，yiban doushisongshangxiangwenheganxiedexiaobiaoqing，erlaoponi?laopozeyaoshuo：yi，ruheshaolesanbaikuai?niyoudaguofujiduima?yingduizheibanchabiedaiyu，nanshenghuizhongaidisanzheerdoushiyiqiezhengchangdele。yiyangdenuli，huodedeshouyiqueshitianrangzhibie，rennajiananshengdoushiyouhuayongxinde。bingqielaopoduinanshengtaiguodezhaokanguiding，zongyouyizhongyichangdejuede，jiujinglaoposhixuxianwo，huanshixuxianqianjiaya?

 disanzheerbufannansheng。zaixuduonanshenglaikan，disanzheerbufanzheiyidianerzuizuigaitamenlingrenmanyi，yiban disanzheerzainanshenghuijiadeneishihouzongshijianyiwenjijuebue，danlaoposuowencishinenggou conggongzuozhongdaojiaopengyouzaidaonijinriruheruhele，zheidoushidabufennanshengxiabanlefanhuijialihaipayingduideshier，tangruobulaoshibajiaohuiying，laopoxingzijiuhuishangqu，yeshiyoushihoushuojinrihenajianvxingchulaile，gusuanlaopohaiyaopokoudamale，jiashangyoushihoulaopoyeyaohezishenlajiachang，zheirenhedoushirangnanshengjuedeyanjuan。

 disanzhegengmingbaitiexinnansheng。zainanshenglaikan，laopobutiexinzishenshizheijianhenfanmendeshier，daoleyitiandebanhouzaoyigouxinku，fanhuijiayeyaobangzhujiawulaodong，shuawantuodiban，tashitamenjiqiganxinzuodeshier。keshidisanzheerjueduishiburongyiguidingtamenbixuyaozuozheiyile，bixuyaozuoneigele，daliangdeshihuizaitamenxiabanlehuijiayiqianjiubahenduoshierjiejuewan，suihoujinjinmomodiwenjijuxubuxuyaoyongcan。wojuede，nanshengdoushilixingdexiaodongwu，yehuiyiqiyongshi，disanzheerweilenixianshouzuogeng，nandaoshuolaopojiumeiyouweilenizuoguoma?laopobingbushishebei，doushigebixurenguanaidenvxing，tamenyaocaolaoyoulvdeshierburongyibinidedisanzheshao。

三、丈夫为何喜爱第三者儿?她手上有哪些“与众不同”的地方

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?wanhunyihou，dangnvxingfajuezhangfuchuguideneiyishunjian，doushibeitongyujuede，meiyounvxinghuirenshou1gedisanzheerdisanzhechazudajiadelihun，keshi，weihezhangfuhuiwaiyuni?huoshiyixienvxingbuyuanliyi，queshizhongbaoyuanlaogongshuciwaiyu，daodinanshengshifoufeichangxiaidisanzheerni?zuoweilaopo，yuanyiwanhuihunyinxingfukuaile，zhibizhijinenggoujibaidisanzheerwanhuizhangfu。

 yincizaidisanzheershoushangde“yuzhongbutong”dedifangyincijiushinishoushangqianquedewupin，dangnanshengzainishoushangshiquneishihou，feichangrongyijiuhuibeibiededenvxingxiyinzhu，yincizuoweinvxing，zuixianyaoyanjiuzishenshoushangbugoudediqu。

 disanzheerkeyimanzunanshengdebenzhiyaoqiu。zaijiehunhoudeyishizhuxing，dajiadeqingganshifoubuxianglianqingneishihouneimatianmeile?dajiazaishenghuozhongyingduidaliangdegongzuoyali，niyouyujiawuhuoshierjianjiandibianweile1ge“yuanfu”，changchangbaoyuanlaogong，buhaowuyiwenlaogongdenuli，jiuruwanhuihunyingaoshoukangnachangshuo：“yaoxiangweichizhangqixingguanlian，zuiguanjiandeshibawozhulingyifangdeyaoqiu。”nanshengbixubeizhongshihebeiqinpei，ruguonibukeyikaolvnanshengdebenzhiyaoqiuneishihou，tajiuhuifeichangrongyichenzuizaiqitanvxingdewenrouxiangzhong，zheijiushishuodisanzheerde“yuzhongbutong”dedifang，tamenmingbaikaolvnanshengdebenzhiyaoqiu。

 disanzheershidajialihundepulushi。wenchongbudingwufengpinjiededan，chuguilaogong，disanzheeryinyoulaogong，keshibiewangjile，jiarudajiafuqiguanxixiangai，dajiafuqiguanximeiyounanti，disanzheerweishenmehuichenxuerruni?disanzhezhishidajialihundepulushi，zaifajuechuguilaogongyihou，mingbaizhangwodajiazhongjiandefenqi，zairichangshenghuozhong，henfufulianggerenzhongjianchuxianlenantimeiyoulijichuli，huoshinishibushiyouchangchangguanzhuhetiexinzhangfu、shibushiyoujitamengoujian1gewennuandejiatinghuanjing、shibushizhongshixingshenghuodeng，yinci，chuguilaogong，nenggou kandechudajialihunzhongjianchuxianlexuduomeiyouchulidewenti。

 qingganwanhuizenmeban?disanzheermingbaishikeweichizishendeyouhuoli。zailihunzhong，xuduonvxingshijiyiyiweilihunkeyikunzhulaogongyisheng，zishenyouyizhangzhangqifanpiao，dangfajuechuguilaogongyihou，jiubaoyuanlaogongmeishoufuwuchengnuo，dangshishuoyishengzhiainiyige，keshi，nanshengshiganxingdongwu，tadangshidefuwuchengnuoyinciyouyunineishihouyouchongzudeyouhuoli，neishihouwoxianzairenpingzishenzimingqinggao、zhuiroujiansheng，haiyongjiawuhuofanzaweiyoubuxiangqutigaoziji，zhangciyiwang，bianchengzhangfuqijuederenlaozhuhuang，danglaogongbawohewaibianxingganmirenhaokandedisanzheerduibi，jiufeichangrongyizaochengwaiyuzhiqing。

 fenshouhouzenmewanhui?zheishilaopojiuyingdanggaoqingchudao，chuguilaogongbudanshitazijidenanti，duifang——yejiushishuozishenyecunyoubufenyuangu。lihundebuchenggongliangrenchangyouxiangyingdeyiwuzailibian，gangkaishiqinggandeliefengbuda，laopoyiwangdebuzhengquexingweidourangliefengzaicipengzhang，zuihouchaoguodisanzheernenggou chengxuerru“duo”zoulaopodelianren。zhibizhijijikegongwubuke，zhangwodaodisanzheertadetexing，laopocaikeyizaiwanliulaogongzhongxunzhaojiejuefangfa，chulihunyinpolie。