读懂这3个误区轻松挽回，先挽回男友再消失？

 zenyangwanhuinanyoudexin？benlaiyijingfenshoulequehuoshiduilingyifangwangbudiao，yaoxiangwanliuyoudanxinzishendeqinfenhuanbulailingyifangdehuifu，fandaorangziyixiandegengweidijian。wanliuyigerendexinjiujingyouduomenan，niyongyuanbuzhidao。danruguobushizhe，jiudaibiaozheshizhongyemeiyoujiyuzaihelingyifangzaiyiqi。buzhengquedewanliufangfazhinengranglingyifangbazerentuixiedegengzhangyuan，xianwanhuinanyouzaixiaoshi？ruguonilejiewanliudezhei3gecuowuguannian，jianxinnanpengyouhehaoruchujiubuhuizaishiyijiannanti。

一、挽回男友之不正确的心理状态

 wanhuinanyoudexin，yaoyouyigexindekaishijiuwubisuzaozhunquedexinlizhuangtai，bubijuedewanliudecaozuofangfashizuizhongyaode，xinlizhuangtaishijishangqizheguanjiangongxiao，zheijiushiweiheyouxierenzaiyikaishijiuzhongjiuhuiwanliubuchenggong，youyutamenzhilejiexingdong，erbumingbaixintaidiaozheng。dangtamenbeijujuehoujiuchedibuqingchuxiayibugaizenyangzuo，zaishouzuwucuoxiameifadiaojiezishendexinlizhuangtai，jiucushiwanliushibaile。

 xuduonvxingzaiwanhuinanyouqingkuangxia，doushihuizaocheng“shouhairendexintai”，juedezishencaisuanshizheiyiduanqingganzhongdeshouhairen。zaiwanliuzhongjuedetaduizishendelengmohebuwenwanshiduizishendebaochou，neimajiuxuyaozhuyile，zheileixintaijiyoukenenghuishizhimingxingde，tahuiqizhanidegerenxingwei，xiaozhuonidexinxin，roulinnideqinggan，zhenduiwanhuiaiqingshimeiyouxiezhugongxiaode。

 erciwaiyizhongxinlizhuangtaishiquefazixin。nizaidanxinwanliubudaolingyifang，yincinizuoyiqieshidouweishouweijiao，zaochengjieguoheyuguyouyidingdequbie。yaolejiewanliuquanguochengshijiannande，jiarunisuibiandidanxinbuchenggong，biaomingniyaoxiangderenbushita，neihaiburujinzaosheqi，jiaruniqueshiyaoxiangwanliutajiuyidingyaojiandingbuyizishenkeyiwanliuqudechenggong，neiyangcaikeyizaiwanliulumianshangzoudegengzhangyuan。

二、挽回男友之没法认清分手的原因

 youyuhaipashiqulingyifangdexinlizhuangtaizaizuoguai，weilegenghaodijinzaoranglingyifangrenshidaozishendeqingyi，ruguonigaoqingchuzenmeshiyonghoujiuxinjihuoliaodijinxing，quemeiyishidaowentidegenbenyuanyin-------nimenzenmehuifenkai。dajiazongshuo“duizhengzhiliaocaikeyiyongyao”，dangshijicaozuomeifagenfenshoudeyuanyinjiehezaiyiqi，nizaiwanliudelichengzhonggesanchawuchuyudaojinqu，ranglingyifangduinizaochengbumanyiyanjuandexintai，jiujiyoukenengzaochengwanliubuchenggong。

 neishenmeqingkuanghuizaochengnimenfenkaini？youdeqingkuangxiaqinglvfenshoudouzhinengyongyijuhuachuli：“bicizhijianbushihe”，henjiandandejigeziquebaokuozhehenduowukenaihe。shijishangshishangmeiyounayiduiqinglvshiyushengjulaisuichuheyande，mianbulemocazhengzhi，zheishiyigehenzhangjiudequanguocheng，jinyoubicibuduandiweixianghuzhijiankuanronggenggaizuihoucaizaojiuyiduimeiren。shubuzhihenduorenqueyizhijiyuqiucheng，zuihoujinyongyijubushihejiuwanbanwunaidaiguo。huoxushileile，yexushisangshixixinle，youhuoshikanbudaoxiwang，shubuzhixiangxinbushihezongkeyibianchengshihe，nimenzhongjianhuoshihaiyoujihuide。

 fenshouhouhaixiangwanliu，zuixianyaoziwofansiyixianimenzhongjianshiweishenmefenkai，tangruonihaipamingquelingyifangmingquetichufenshoudeyuanyinyunisuocaixiangdeshibushiyizhi，ninengceshidiquwenlingyifang，ziranxintaishangnixuyaohenchengken，yudiaoyaorouhe，kendingbukeyixingfen，huoxuruguonilejieyuanguyihouninengganjuezheibuzhishiniyigerendecuo，lingyifangyeshiyouyiwu，danjinjiqianwanbuyaohelingyifangzhenglun，zheishizhongdouzhengchubulaiyigejieguo，quezhinengshinimendeguanlianyufajiduan。zhenduilingyifangsuotidewentinixuyaozuorenke，bingfansiziji，shidudeneishihouyaoxuehuizhiqian，haikeyirangnimendeguanlianhuodehuanjie。

三、挽回男友之不正确的实际操作

 fenshouzhihouyaoxiangwanhuinanyoudexin，zaisuzaozhunquedexinlizhuangtaihou，niyizhaozishenjuededefangshiqushijicaozuo，qiqiu、guitiannandengfangfabushiheyihou，zishenyouzaicizhaoxunciwaide“zishenjuedexingdetong”defangshi，xiangshenpangdehaoguimi、haopengyouqiujiao，rangtamenjinichuxinzhao，quexiangbudaozheizhongjingyanfenxiangduinidewanliumeiyouyidianerxiezhu，wanliudefangshiyinrenyousuobutongde。

 qiadangdezuofagaishiyijuzishendejutiqingkuang，yiyigequanxinshengjidewaimaoyingduita。meigerendoushuozixindenvrenshizuimeiliderende，zaiwanhuinanyoudeqingkuangxia，zheizhaojiuyongshang。yaogaibianziwodepinpaixingxiang，weichihaozishendeshenxing，fuzhuangcengmianyaoyoupinwei，zuoyigewumeidongrenmohuandenvxing。bubijijiquzhaota，genjuyujianhuoshihaopengyouyiqichulai，shitakandaopengyouyichangdeni，neiyanghuizaochengtaduinideliuyi，jinerhuijiqitahenizaiyiqishidemeihaohuiyi，duitazaochengzaidudexiyinzhu，neimaliwanliutadezongtimubiaojiugengjinle。

 zaixiyinzhudaotarendeliuyihou，genjulianluolajinnimendejianju。ciwai，tishengnimenzhongjiandehudongjiaoliu，liruyiqicanyucongmeishizheguodezhutihuodong，weicilaitishenglingyifangdezijintouru。danglingyifangfajuehenizaiyiqishi，ganshoudaodebuhuishiyinyahefanmen，fanershijingcaifenchenghekaixinshi，bianhuigengweiyaoxianghenizaiyiqi。

 wanliudemeiyibudoubixujinxiaoshenwei，lejieyishangde3gecuowuguanniankeyishuochengwanliuqiandexuyaotiqianzhunbei，shijiwanliufangshiyinrenyinweishieryi，ruguonifajuewulunzishenzenyangqinfendoumeifahuodelingyifangdecemuershishi，xianwanhuinanyouzaixiaoshihebuxianmanxialaisisuobingzaicidiaojieduice，xiwangnidewanliunengshinizhonghuoxingfukuaile。