朋友失恋了如何安慰他？

 pengyoushilianlebijiaomingancuiruo，youshiwuyideyanxingdoukenengshanghaidaotamen，suoyizaiminganshiqiyinggaiduojiazhuyicaishi。neimezuoweipengyou，gaizenmeanweishilianderenni?

一、认真倾听

 mianduipengyoushilianle，chulekanshilianwenzhang，defangshishiqingting。tingtajiangshushiliandexinqing、heqianlianrenzhijianfashengdezhongzhongshiqing,zhaoyigechengrenshiliandefangfa。yexutahuizainimianqiantongku，yexuhuitongmaqianren，zheixiedoushitafaxiedefangshi。erniyaozuode，jiushipeizheta，tingtajiangshu，zheiyangnengrangtabazijidebeishangtongkupaixiechulaiyidian，duihuanjieqingxushiyouhaochude。pengyoushilianruheanwei?

 xuyaozhuyideshi，zheigeguochenglibuyaoshitudaduannidepengyou，jitasuoweidejianyi。zhixuyaorenzhendetingtajiang，peizheta，baozhengtadeanquan，jiugoule。yinweitaxuyaodegenbenbushitingsheijiangdaoli，ershixuyaoyigerenpeizhetayiqiduguonanaodeshiguangbale。

二、带他去见新的人，去体验新的事

 zhaoyigechengrenshiliandefangfa,anweishilianderenhenhaodeyizhongfangshijiushizhuanyitadezhuyili，zenmezhuanyizhuyilini?tongguodaitarenshixindepengyou，qumoshengdedifangsansanxin，tiyanyixiaguoqumeiyoutiyanguodexinqingdengdeng。zheixiefangfashiweilegaosuta，shijiehenda，renshengbushizhiyouyiduanlianaieryi。

 womensuishikeyiyujianxinderen，jinglixindeshi，chuangzaoxindeshenghuo。ershilian，zhishiyiduanguanxidejieshu，zheizhongjieshuqiaqiayiweizhetahaiyougengduodekenengxing。yexuxiayimiao，zhenaijiuchuxianzaiyanqianle。yongganguancijiquzhuanyizhuyiliyeshiyizhongfangshi，tingge、kandianying、yundong，renheyizhongnipengyouxihuandefangshidoukeyi。

三、千万不要在他面前秀恩爱

 yexuyouxiehua、youxiexingweizainikanlaimeishenme，quehuirangnishiliandepengyougengjiashangxin，gandaogudu，yexuhuidaijitagengduodefumianyingxiang。biruniwuyijianhelianrendeduihuahuoshiqinnidejudong，doukenengjinigangshiliandepengyoudaji。

 suoyi，xiangyaoanweita，jiuxuyaozhuyizheixie，buyaozaixueshangjiashuangle。bushishuonibunengenai，ershiyaojinliangbimianzainidepengyoumianqianxiandetaixingfu。zheigeshihounikeyijitagengduodewennuan，guanxintadeqingxu，kankanshilianwenzhang，rangtaganshoudaoqingganhaodeyimian。zheiyangyeyouzhuyutazouchushiliandeyinying，zaorizhenzuoqilai。

 zongzhi，xiangyaoanweipengyoudexinshihaode，danshiyeyaozhuyifangshifangfa，fouzehenrongyinongqiaochengzhuo。shilianshiyiduanlianaidezhongjie，birandailaitongku，danchulidehaoyekeyidailaichengzhang。

 zheijiukangerendeyingduifangshile，zuoweipengyou，zaizheigeduikangshiliandeguochengzhong，ninengzuodejiushibangzhunidepengyou，buyaorangtazouwailu。yaorangshilianchengweiyigedibiao，kuaguota，jiushixinderensheng。