如何摆脱失恋？用对方法是关键

 shilianshiyijianhenfandeshi，wogairuhebaituoshilian？ruhezhiliaoshilianni？zheishigewenti。danzhiyaoyongduifangfayeshikeyiyingrenerjiede。

一、如何摆脱失恋？

1、多点向朋友倾诉

 ruhebaituoshilian？fenshoubazijiguanzaiyigehuiandehuanjingli，ziwoduoluo。zhaorenshuo、zijixie，wangshanghewangyoususuxinsheng，qingxuyaoyouchukou，buranhuijuedi。raneryinweipashuolegengreshangxinhuo"xinchoubukewaiyang"，pabierenxiaohua，gancuifengkou，shubuzhishuochulaijiushiyizhongzhiliao，nengshuodaibiaoxintaishangyijingkeyitanranmianduiqulvxing。lianaibeifenshou？qinglukanke？

2、转移注意点

 ruhezhiliaoshilian？zhuanyizhuyidianweiguanjian。fenshouzuipaxianzaininaowufaziba，choulixinqingdefangfahenduo，likaishangxindiqulvxing，tingduanyinle，kankanshu，qidao，huobaaizhuanyi，qubangzhuneixiexuyaoaideliulanggou，quguanhuaishenbiandelaoren、xiaohai……nianqingrenzuichangyongshangwang、dianshi、liaotianlaizhuanyi。

3、要学会自省

 ruhezhiliaoshilian？fenshouqishihenpa“siniuyimianjing”，wanquanshiqufanshenghuozaitongkuzhongzhaoxunyiyidenengli，fanshengbushishuluosheidecuo，ershinengzaishiquhoukeguanpinggushuangfangdechengzhang、xuexi，yijikeyizuoweixiayiduanganqingdejiejian。

4、去旅行

 ruhebaituoshilian？lvxingshigaibianrenduixuduoshiwudekanfa，erqienizailvxingshihouxinqingshikaixinde，nimanmandejiuhuibanishiliandeshiqingwangla。lvxingjiushiyaokaixinde，buyaolaoxiangshiliandeshi，bunengqunimenyiqiquguodedifang，zheiyangnicaibuhuihuainianta（ta）nicainengbaituota（ta）。

二、如何对待失恋？

1、投入新的生活

 ruheduidaishilian？shilianle，yiweizheyouyigexindekaishi，jiranyijingshilian，neimejiubuyaoshibushidiquhuiyiyiwangdemeihaoshiguang，neizhihuishinijixushangxin，rangnichenzuizaiyiwangdehuiyilimian，niyinggaiyonggandepaoqiyiqiandehuiyi，tourudaoxindeshenghuozhong。

2、否定之前的感情

 shilianle，xiangyixiangduifangdehuaixiguan，xiangyixiangnimencengjingbuhaodehuiyi，ranhounijiuhuifaxiannimenbingbushihezaiyiqi，xianzaifenshoulehuoxushide，yemiandezaiyihougengjiatongku。

3、投入另外的事情

 ruheduidaishilian？touruxindedongxi，chuquhepengyoutongkuaideheyidun，hepengyouhaohaodeqingsuyixia，keyihenhaodehuanjienidexinqing，shifangnideyali，nenggourangnigenghaodecongshilianzhongzouchulai。

 zhaodianshiqingzuo，shijianshideliaoshangji，jiangzijideshijiananpaihao，rangzijimeiyoushijianquxiangduifang，zheiyangjingguozhangshijiandezuoshi，nijiuhuifaxianduifangdeyingzizainidexinliyijingyuelaiyuedanle，erzhangshijiandezuoshinihuifaxiannidegerennengliyeyousuotigao，zheiyeshiyijianyiwaizhixi。

4、找出自身的不足

 ruheduidaishilian？zhaochuzijizheicishilianshishenmeyuanyin，jiayigaizhengyiquebaozaixiayiduanganqingzhongnibuhuizaiyinweitongyangdeyuanyinercuoshinidelianren。

 shilianle，bingbushishuozaipingshideshenghuozhongbunenggouzaixiangjian，ershibuyaozaiheduifangyoushenmeaimeideguanxi，nongdaolianggerendeguanxihaishibuqingbuchude，lianggerenyaojiangganqingshangdeguanxiqieduan，zheiyangcaibuhuijixujiduifangshanghai。