失恋是怎么样的，怎样去摆脱它

 dangniyudaoshiliandewentideshihou，kendinghuiwenzenmeyangzouchushilian，zenmeyangbaituoshilian？cunzaizheixieyiwenhenzhengchang，yinweihenduorendouhuizheiyangxiang，xiamianshiwodeyixiekanfa。

一、怎么样走出失恋

1、首先思考

 yourenhuiwenzenyangzouchushilian，nikeyirangtashilianzhihouyidingbuyaozaibaoyourenhehuanxiang。qishidaduorenshilianzhihouzoubuchulai，doushiyinweiduiqianrenchongmanhuanxiang。tamenjuedeyaoshizijizaizuodianshenme，duifangjiuhuizhongxinhuidaozijishenbian。shishishidaduoshulianqingjieshuzhihoudoumeifazaipojingzhongyuanle，yiweidebaozhehuanxiang，zhihuishizijijiujiezaishiliandetongkuzhongzoubuchulai。yexuzheishihounihuijuede，yaoshiwanyinimenshihenshihedeyiduini？jiuzheiyangcuoguotaikexile。neimezaifenshouhou，bufangwenwenziji，ruguonimenjixu，xingfuzhishumanfenweishifendehua，nimenzhijiandexingfuzhishuhuiyouduoshaofenni？ruguofenshuzaibafenzhixia，neimejiujianyinifangshouba，nishihezhaodaogenghaode。yinweinimennaodaofenshouzheiyibu，nimendeganqingkendingcunzaiyixiewenti，ruguonimenzaiyiqijixudexingfuzhishubingbushihengao，neimezhongxinzaiyiqihou，neixiewentihuiyirancunzai，nimenyexuyouhuixiangfangqi。

2、gaizuoshenmejiuzuoshenme

 zenmeyangbaituoshilian？liruhaohaogongzuo，haohaoxuexi。yexunihuishuo，shilianle，xinqingyipianzaogao，genbenmeiyouxinqinghaohaodequzuohaozijigaizuode。xinqingbuhao，keyitongguoyixiefangshiqudiaozhengzijishilianhoudexintai，danshizheijuebushizongrongzijibuhaohaoxuexihegongzuodejiekou。nikeyijinliquzuozijixihuandeshiqingrangzijideqingxushengqilai，yidingyaorangzijixingdongqilai，qiebuketaiyonglanxiaojidemianduizijideshenghuo。

3，给自己一点时间

 zenmeyangbaituoshilian？dangnishilianhou，nihaishihuijingchangxiangqita，zheihenzhengchang，yunxuzijiquxiangta，huainianta。danshiyeshizuohaodierdiansuotidaode，zuohaozijigaizuodeshiqing。yexuyourenhuijuedezuohaozijigaizuodeshiqinghejizijishijianzouchulaiyouyidianchongtu。tamenbingbushiduilide，zuohaozijigaizuodeshizhixingdongshangyaoxingdongqilai，erjizijishijianzouchulaishizhicongxintaishanglaishuode。nikeyiyibianxiangzheqianren，yibianhaohaogongzuo。buyaokeyideyidingyaohenkuaiwangjiduifang，yebuyaotaibeiguan，juedezheiduanganqingnizaiyewufashihuaile，yaoxiangxin，yiliangnianhou，dangnizaizhongxinmianduizheifenganqingshi，niyidinghuigenglixingdekandai。

4、总结成长收获

 zenmeyangzouchushilian？qishikeyigentashuo，meiyiduanganqing，buguanzuihoudejiejuzenyang，yebuguannimenxiangchudeshifouyukuai，xiangxinzaizheigeguochengzhongniyidingyoushouhuo，niyaoquzongjiezheixiechengzhang，zheiyangdangnixiangqizheiduanganqingshi，nihuiduoyixiezhengmianqingxu，ershaoyixiebaoyuanzhizeyufennu，dangnizhengxiangmianduizheifenganqingshi，nijiuhuigengtandang，yegengyouliyunizouchulai。

 zouchuyiduanshilian，meigerenfangshibuyiyang，danxiangxinshijianshidejieyao，xuehuijienaxianshi，jienayijingfashengdeshiqing，yiqiedouhuimanmanhaoqilai。lianai：1、lianaibeifenshou？qinglukanke？

二、失恋是怎么样的？

 1、shilianshizenmeyangde？shihenrongyibeishang、tongku、fennuyujuewangde。youderenturanshilianyihou，zaiqingganshangshouxianhuichanshengjidadebeishanghetongku，suizhierlaidebianshifennuhejuewang，henkenengchanshenglumangdeyichangxingwei。ruzisha、xunqing、baofutarendeng。zheixiedoushifengkuangdexingwei。

 2、shihenrongyichanshengqiangliedebaofuxinde，qushixiahuirangnishiqulizhi，xiangfengleyiyang。zheizhongqingkuangtongchangfashengzaiyixieganqingshoudaoshoudaoqipian、wannongdeshilianzheshenshang。tamenweilexuanxiezijidefennuhebuman,。kenengcaiqufeilizhidejiduanxingwei，shenzhigancuiyizijidechenlunlaibaofushehuihetaren。

 3、shilianshizenyangde，shihenrongyichanshengqiangliedezibeigande。youdeshilianzheyinzizunxinshoucuohuichanshengqiangliedezibeigan，youdeshenzhicongcijujueaiqing，xinggebiandegupi、guguai，yanzhongzheyouzishaniantouhuoxingwei。

 4、shilianshizenmeyangde，shihenrongyiqiannuyutarenhuoshi。shilianhou，youderenyijiangxiaojideqingxuqiannuyurenhuoshiwuzhongqu。ruyifapiqi，duirenheshidoujuebushunxin，rongyifanu，zheizhongwuduandeqiannuchanghuidaozhixingweipianji。zheixiedoushiyixiefengkuangdexingwei，womenyaodiaojiehaolai。shiliannanguoma？shilianhentongma？zaigangkaishideshihouqueshihui，danshishilianqishibingmeishenme。shijieneimeda，heshiniderenzongshihuichuxian。yongjijidexintaizhongxinqumianduinideshenghuoba。