失恋保险与心态治疗都是为了让你正确地看待爱情

 nicengjingyoushilianguoma？yidinglejieguoshilianbaoxian，youhuozheshishilianxintaizhiliaozhileideyixieguanyushiliandeshiqingba？buzhidaoyemeiguanxi，rangwolaijidajiajieshaoyixia。

一、关于失恋保险

 shilianlema？shibushihouhuimeiyouzaizhiqianmeiyoumaiyifenshilianhetong？qishishilianbingbushishenmedashi，womenyebunengdanchunyongjinqianlaihengliangta。qishijinrijieshaoshilianaibaoxian，qishishilianbaoxianheshilianbaoxianchabuduo，doushiguanyuruhebaozhangshiliandebaoxian，danshilianaibaoxianbishilianbaoxiandezhixianggengweizhijiji。gulinianqingren，nengbuwangchuxin，duonianlaiwozhetongyiduishou，zoushanghunyindediantang。suoyekeyichengtaweilianaibaoxian。rujinzheiniantoudaochudoushixiuenaideshiqing，jiulianbaoxianzheimezhengjingdexingyedoukaishicijigeweidanshenwangmenle！qianliangtianxiaobiandeyiweihaoyoushuotananpengyouweitamendeaiqinggoumailelianaibaoxian。tingdaozheigexiaoxiwodunshileiliumanmian？zheiniantoujuranliantangelianaidounengmaifenbaoxianzuoweibaozhangle，keliangeweidanshenwangmenhaibudongzheilianaibaoxianshigeshenmedongdong。jiexialaixiaobianbianweidajiapujiyixialianaibaoxianshiyigeshenmexianzhongba。

 moubaoxiangongsidelianaibaoxianshicongmingdebaoxiangongsidakainaodongdejieguo，shigongsizhuanmenzhenduinianqingkehuerkaifashejideyileixinxingbaoxianchanpin。toubaorengoumailianaibaoxianhoucongbaodanshengxiaozhiriqi3niandao10niannei，yubaodanshangzhidingdelingyibandengjijiehun，biankeyihuode1wanduobaoxiangongsiweitoubaorensongdaohunlixianchangdemeiguihua。erqiezaibaoxianqineitoubaorenhaijianghuode1wanyuanderenshenyiwaibaozhang。zheiyangyizhongrangdanshenwangmenxianmujiduhendechanpinweishenmehuibeikaifachulaini？jubaoxiangongsigongzuorenyuanjieshao，zhisuoyiyaokaifazhongguorenshoulianaibaoxianshiyinweitamenxiangtongguobaoxianyindaonianqingrenshulizhengquedelianaiguan，bingqienengzaiyidingchengdushangfahuibaoxiandeshehuigongneng。zheijiushiguanyubaozhangshiliandeyifenbaoxian。

二、失恋心态治疗

 nishilianlema?youshilianguoma？doumeiguanxi，shilianqishishiyijianxiaoshi，meigerendouhuijinglide，dangnishilianle，qishixuyaoyixieshiliandexintaizhiliao。1、lianaibeifenshou？qinglukanke？

、接受现实

 shilianxintaizhiliaozuizhongyaodeyidianjiushiyaojieshouzijishiliandexianshi。zaishiliantongkulaideshihou，buyaokeyihuibita，renweizijibuyinggaizheimetongku，tanrandimianduishilianshibaituoshiliantongkudediyibu。

2、倾吐沟通

 shilianzuipaziwotuisuo、fengbi，jiangzijijinguzaibeishanggudandechengbao。zhaorenshuo、zijixie，wangshanghewangyoususuxinsheng，qingxuyaoyouchukou，buranhuijuedi。raneryinweipashuolegengreshangxinhuo“xinchoubukewaiyang”，pabierenxiaohua，gancuifengkou，shubuzhishuochulaijiushiyizhongzhiliao，nengshuodaibiaoxintaishangyijingkeyitanranmiandui。

3、学习重塑自我

 zaishilianqingxupingfuyihou，jiuyaokaishizhongxinshuliduilianaiderenshi。weilezhunbeikaishixindelianai，henduoxiaoji、beiguandebuhelixiangfa，yaozaizheigejieduanhuajiediao。zheigeshihouqingxuzhujianpingfu，keyikaishiyonglizhilaisikaowenti，zhongxinkandaizheiduanganqing，tongshirenshizijidebuzu，kaishizongjiejingyan，ziwowanshan，chengshuqilai。

4、代偿

 dangzijishilianyihou，shouxianxiangzijideyideshiqing，biruzijirenjiguanxihexie、mougeyixingduizijichiqinglaihuodeduitongkuhefannaodejietuo，lizhideyongyixiejijideyanyuhegeyanlaitixing、anshiziji，ru“tianyahechuwufangcao”、“yigeluobuyigekeng”、“saiwengshimayanzhifeifu”deng，zhiyaozijirenkeleqizhongdedaoli，neimexintaiyejiupinghengle。yekeyijinxingfanxiangsiwei，duoxiangduifangdebuzudian，fenxizijideyoushi，guzuyongqi，yingjiexindeshenghuo。haikeyizheiyangshexiang，shilianguranshishiquleyicijihui，ranerquerangnijinrulelingyigechongmanjihuideshijie。zhengruhailun·kailesuoyan：“yishanxingfuzhimenduiniguanbidetongshi，lingyishanxingfuzhimenquezainimianqiandongkaile。”

5、善待自己

 jinglileqinggandeshiyi，buyaozuoshanghaizijideshiqing，yigerenruguozijidouzhaogubuhao，zenmequaizijiyaoaideren。buyaoxiangzheshanghaizijijiuhuidaonishenbian，jishizhendefashengleneishikelianyebushiai，ziqiqirenningkebuyao。keyilashangguimiqugouwu，keyilaishuozoujiuzoudelvxing，zongzhichangshibutongdefangfaquyueziji，gaosuzijiyigerentongyangkeyihenjingcai。zheixiedoushiyixieshifenyouxiaodeshilianxintaizhiliao，tanengrangnizhongxinzhenzuo，jixuchengzhang。