失恋的歌教会我成长

 ruguoniwenwo，tingdaoshenmeyangdexiaoxizuibushufu？wodehuidayidingshi：tingdaobierenshiliandexiaoxi。buguo，qingdichuwai。buguannishianlian，chulian，relian，huanghunlian，douyoushiliandefengxian。wozhouweidepengyou，baokuowoziji，jinglilewushuchangshilianhou，yedougezianranshangshen，gezichengzhang。zaishiliandeshihouxihuantingyixieshiliandege，rushilianzhenxianlianmeng，zheishiwotingdediyishouguanyushiliandege，shilianzhenxianlianmenggecinengshenshendedadonglewo。

一、情窦初开

 xiaoxuedeshihou，jihuquanbannvshengdouzaianlianzheyigenansheng，xuexihao，youlimao，laoshiyedouxihuan，kepianpiantaaojiaozida，yebudongxuanze，duimeigenvshengdoubulengbure。yushi，nidexiaoxueshiguangjiuzaizheiyangyichangyinweichongbaierchanshengdeanlianzhonglashangleweimu。

二、初次尝试到失恋的滋味

 chuzhongdeshihou，banshangkaochuanghudisanpaidezhangbianzinvshengcongkaixuediyitianjiuyinqinidezhuyi，nihuiguyigenbierendadanaonaozhecongtashenbianluguo，yinqitadezhuyi，ranhouhuigaosuzhouweihaoxiongdi，nixihuantahaojiu，xihuantazhangzhangdebianzi，hehuabanbaoshihouderenzhen，xihuantiyukepaowan800midehongpupuxiaolian。congmouyitiankaishi，nvhaikezhuolihuiduodianlingshi，zhuoshanghuiduoyibeinaicha，tayekaishishoudaoputiangaididezhitiao，neigeshihoumeiyoushouji，xiaotiaoshinibiaodaxinyideweiyigongju。ranhounimanmankaishishoudaohuifu，congyikaishideyige“ng”zidaohoulaide“nizenmefangxuebudengwo”，suoyourendouyiweinimentanlianaile，zhiyoulaoshijiazhangzaihuaiyinimenxingzonghouhushidandandingzhenimendechengjidankan。ranhouzhongkaojieshuhou，niyiweiyizhenggeshujiashizuimeihaodeshiguang，buliaonvhaihefumuyitongbanqunanfangshenghuo，lianzuihouyimiandoumeiyoujian，ranhounishenzhidoumeiyouweikaoshangzhongdiangaozhongerquqingzhuyixia，jiuzheiyang，nidechulian，zaihonghonglieliezhongxiaoshengniji，zhinengjingjingdetingzhetingzheshiliandege，shilianzhenxianlianmeng。

三、再次失恋

 daxuedeshihou，nixianruleyichangqiansuoweiyouderelian，meitiannizaiyiqi，nihaipaqitadenvshengduitahaiyouxiangfa，nihaipajianglaideyitiantahuituranbuaini，meitianzaidanjingshoupazhongduguo。nimenquguoxuexiaoqinglvquguodemeiyigedifang，baqianfangzaiyiqihua，ranhoudengzhefumuanyuejinidaneixieweishubuduodeshenghuofei，zainikanlai，nidedaxueshenmedoumeigan，nidedaxuezhiyouta，niyexiwangtadeshenghuozhiyouni，kepianpianzainireliandeshihou，yougemoshengdedianhuatiantianhuidalai，takaishibeizhenijiedianhua，beizheniquhebierenchifan，beizheniquhebierendaohoumiandexiaolvguanli，nishidiertianzaoshangzaichizaodiandeshihoukandao。zheishihounicaizhidao，nikenengshishilianle，nidaizhemanshenmanxindepibeishuilesantiansanye，elesantiansanye，kaishijuedingbuaita，fangkongziji，tingzheshiliandege。

四、在失恋中成长

 shilianzheizhongdongxi，sheidoujingliguo，shilianderenshuduodaowufatongji，shilianderenshouqianshoukeyiraodiqiuyiquan，suoyishuo，womendoushishilianzhenxianlianmeng，womencengjingbuguanyinweibierendezijidexianshidegezhongyuanyin，chengweileshilianlianmengzhongdeyiyuan，yibianbiankanzheshilianzhenxianlianmengdegeci，danwoshizhongxiwangwomenjishijianyidianshijian，rangwomenshangkouzijiyuhe，shijianjueduishijieyao，jietuodejie。

 shijiankeyizhengjiudangchuneigenanguodeni，rangnixiguan，rangniwangji。suoyirenheyiduanshilianshiguang，ruguonizhidongdetingshiliandege，zhidongdegantan，ruguomeiyourangniyourenhedechengzhang，nijiulangfeilenidangshiliuguodeyanlei，langfeiledangshijiejinzhixidenanguo，langfeilenidangshiyicicixiangyaojianqiangqilaideyongqi。

 zhuyuannimenyougengdadeyongqi，quzhuixungengduogenghaodeaiqing，erbushiyigeqingyuanbazijixianzaishilianqingxuliwufazibaderen。yinggaixiexieneixierangniruanruorangnitongkuderenheshiguang，rangnigengjiazhenxiyizhiliuzaishenbianderen。

 shilianzhenxianlianmeng，yongyuandouzai，meigenianling，meigejieduan，meigeren，womenyiqichengzhang，yiqizhiyu，shiliandekebuzhiniyigeren，womendouzaipeizhenishilian。