50岁以后感情不合也别离婚，50岁男人离婚了会后悔吗

 50suinanrenlihunlehuihouhuima？xiangxindaduoshufuqizaijiehunqiandouhenqidai，yibeiziyishuangren，wulunweilaishihaoshihuai，douyaoyuyanqianderengongduyisheng。

 dangwomenbicixiangaishi，zheikenengshiyigetianmidechengnuo，dansuizheshijiandetuiyihexianshidekaoyan，womendeganqingmanmanehua。cengjingshuoguoairen，yeyouyitianbuai，shenzhiyixielaoqizi，chengweixianghushanghaidediren，zheixieshibukeyucede。

 shishishang，meiyiduanhunyindoubuhuiwanmei。zaixiangchudeguochengzhong，huiyoumoca。kunnanzaiyumeigerendouyoubutongdexiangfa。youxierenyichaojiajiuxianglikai，xiayigegenghao；youxierenrenweizhengchaoshihenzhengchangde。

 jishitamengaibianleyigeren，tamenrengranbixuzaijinianneizhengchao。zhishaotamenmianqianderenyijingmohelezheimejiu，tamendeganqinggengjiawending。rangwomenjixuzheiyangshenghuo。

 neime，neixieyinweiganqingbuheerxuanzelihunderen，tamendehunyinshenghuozhendegenghaoma？shaoshurenhuishuodegenghao，daduoshurenhuishuo:“haiburuyuanpeihao。”

 yiwei57suidenanzijiangshulezijidejingli：“50suiyihou，buyaoqingyiheyuanlaideqizilihun。jishinilihunle，yebuyaoqingyizaihun。guolaiderenyongzijidejingligaosuni，zaihundefuqiyongyuanbuhuiheyuanlaidefuqihepai。”

zheigerendaodijinglileshenme，caihuishuochuzheimexianshidehua？

周先生57岁的自述

 wojiaoxiaozhou。wo57suile。dangwo50suideshihou，woxiangqianqitichulihun。dangshi，xuduoqinqirenweiwofengle。neishi，wodesunzichushengle。woshizufu，danwoxiangzaizheigeshihoulihun。zheibushima？dangshi，wodeqianqikule，jujueqianzi。tajianchiyaowojitayigeliyou。wozhishuo：“woduinimeiyouai。”

 wodeqianqihewozhendemeiyouai。neishihou，womendouhennianqing，bicidoubudongdeai。womendefumuhuxiangrenshi，bawomenjiehezaiyiqi。neishihou，wohaishigemaorongrongdenanhai。wozhishijuedewobuhenzheigenvren，suoyiwotingconglefumudeyijian，qulewoqianqidejia。

 zhongsuozhouzhi，fudanbushiyigehaoci，zhishiyinweidangshiwomenjiataiqiongle，womenqianqidefumuyoubanfa，zhiyouzheiyangyigexiaonver。zaizheiyangdejiatingtiaojianxia，womenziranxiangzhaomuyigeaijiaaihudenvxu。

erqiewomenjiahenqiong，haiyousigexiongdi，zhudingyaoyourenzuoshangmennvxu，woshijializuixiaode，zheigejihuiziranluozaiwoshenshang。

heqianqijiehunhou，wodeshenghuoqueshibiyiqianhaoduole。jishishiyinweiwodeqianqi，wojiaxiangdeshenghuohuanjingyebiandegenghaole。

 tongguoyuefudejieshao，wochengweileyigedanweidezhuguan。suiranwoyikaoguanxizhaodaolezheifengongzuo，danmeiyourenganjiwochuanxiaoxiezi，yinweiwoyouyuefudebeijing。jiehunhou，wodeshenghuohenshunli。

 danshirenmenzongshixiangzhetamenmeiyoudedongxi。suiranwodeshenghuoyuelaiyuehao，danwodexinbingbukuaile。zhishiyinweiwoshiyigefudan，wozongshijuedewotaibuqitoulai。

 zicongwoheqianqijiehunhou，wodeqianqizongshiyapowo，baokuodangwomenchaojiashi，tazongshishuo：“woxiangniyijingwangjilenishishei，nizuihaoyongyuanjizhu，nixianzaiyongyoudeyiqie，doushiwomenjiajinide，meiyouwo，nishenmedoubushi！”

yejiushizheijuhua，zhengzhengyalewosanshinian。

 danshinianqingdeshihou，wodenaixinhenhao，jibenshangshizaichuangtouhechuangweichaojia，diertianxinglaiderizihaishizhaochang，conglaimeiyoutiguolihun。

 shishishang，wodeyuefuheyuemuduiwoyehenhao。tamenbawodangzuozijideerzi。tongchang，ruguowoyourenhexuyao，zhiyaowotidao，tamenjiuhuitongyi。jishitamenyouhaizi，tamenyehuirongnawo。

 lilunshang，diyigehaiziyinggaigensuinvrendexingshi，danweilekaolvdaowodezunyan，diyigehaizidexingshigensuiwo，diergehaizigensuitadeqianqi。

 dayueshinianqian，wodeyuefuheyuemuxiangjiqushi，wojiadejingjishililuozaiwoqianqishouzhong。dangzheigejiatingshiwoqianqidezhurenshi，wojingchanggandaobuqingyuan，wodeqianqiduiwogengzhuanheng。

 wotongchangzuojiawuhezuofan。tafuzexiyifuhezhaoguhaizi。wojuedetahenlan。zuoweiyigenvren，tashenzhibuzuojiawu，shitadeyuefuheyuemuchonghuaileta。

 gonggongdeyuefuheyuemubuzaideshihou，meiyourenshuofuwodajia。woheqianqichaojiadecishukaishizengjiawokeyiweiyijianxiaoshizhengchao。houlai，tongguowozijidenuli，wodedaolegengduodegoutong。

 youshihou，dangwowanshanghuijiawanle，wodeqianqihuihewodachaoyijia，mawobuzaijia，shuowomeiyouzerengan。bujinruci，tahaidejianchatadeshouji，wogenbenmeiyouyinsi。

 wodeqianqishiyigefeichanghuaiyideren。houlai，tarangwohetayiqishejiao。suoyoudelingdaorendoukanzhewodexiaohua，wodeqianqizongshichuyuweixianzhizhong。zhiyaoyixingliwohenjin，tajiuhuijidu。

 tazongshidingzhetarenweishidirendenvrenkan，zheirangrenhenganga。talailaiquququ，woshenbiandepengyouyuelaiyueshao，dajiadouzhidaowojialiyouyizhimulaohu，tamendoubikailewo。

 wojidezuiyanzhongdeyici。zaicanzhuoshang，hehuorendenvmishuzhijiwodaoleyibeijiu。tadeqianqizaicanzhuoshanghetademishuchaojia。tabudebushuowomenyouyitiaotui。

 houlai，hezuobengkuile，yinweilaobanhewotanguo。huijiahou，wobudebumianduiqianqiwuduandecaice，kuzheshuowomeiyouliangxin，meiyouzaicanzhuoshanghetashuohua。

 jingguozhangshijiandezhengchao，woduiqianqijincundeyidianganqingle。taduiwodebuxinrenrangwohenlei，suoyiwo50suideshihoujiuhetalihunle。

wodejiarenbulijiewodezuofa，baokuowodefumushuowowangenfuyi。shenzhiwodeerziyeshuotajianglaibuhuirenshiwodefuqin。

 wodeqianqifangxialezunyan，yizhikenqiuwobuyaolihun，danwoyijingxiadingjuexinle。wobeiqianqikongzhilebanbeizi，meiyourenhezunyan。50suiyihou，wozhixiangkuailediweizijierhuo。

 zuihou，wodeqianqizhinengqianzi。woxiangyaoyidongxiaofangzi。wobuxiangyaoshengxiadejixuhefangdichan。wobatamendouliujilewodeqianqi。woxiangwosuozuodeshiliangxin，danwodejiarenbulijiewo。lihunhou，wodehaizimenbuxiangjianwo。jishitamenhuijiakanwangfumu，tamenyehuibaoyuanwo。

 jiuzheiyang，woduzishenghuoleyinian。zaiyicipengyoujuhuishang，woyudaoleamei。yinweiwoheameishidanshen，suoyidajiadouhongwomenshishi。houlai，womenzhendezoudaoleyiqi。worenweiameibitadeqianqigengwenrou、gengxianhui。zhishaotahuiweiwozuofan，suoyiwomenrenshilebannian，zhuzaiyiqi。

 woheameimeiyoujiehunzhizhao。womenxiangnianqingfufuyiyangshenghuo。yikaishi，ameihewozhendehenxiangai。ameihuiweiwozuomeiweidefancai。

 wulunwohuijiaduowan，wodoukeyiyouyizhandengdengzhewo；womenhaiyiqiquguoxuduolvyouchengshi。tafeichangyilaiwo。wulunwozoudaonali，tadougenzhewo，womenzongshixingyingbuli。

 zhishimeihaodeshiguangmeiyouchixuduojiu。womenzhizaiyiqishenghuolebannian，maodunkaishile。wojileamei3000yuanzuoweishenghuofei，jiashang1000yuanzuoweiameidelinghuaqian。

 qichu，ameihenmanyi，danguolehenzhangyiduanshijian，tahennanmanzu。jiuzaiyigeyuezhongxunzhihou，tadahantameiyouqian。wozhinengbashenghuofeitigaodao4000yuan，zheibiqianbubaokuowomenchuquwanhejitamaiyifuhebaodeqian。

 50suinanrenlihunlehuihouhuima？dangwomenzaiyiqisanzhounianshi，tatiyiguanliwodegongzika，bingshuotayouanquangan。wobixujujue。ameiduiwofalepiqi，lijiachuzoule。

 wanshang，wozhaoletayizhengwan，zhongyuzaigongyuanlizhaodaoleta。wozhudongchengrenlewodecuowu，dantarengranjianchiyaoguanliwodegongzika。wobeipobiewuxuanze，zhinengtongyi。

 houlai，womenzaiyiqiwunianhou，womenjuedingnadaojiehunzheng。woyiweiwonadaojiehunzhenghouhuiguoshangmeihaodeshenghuo，danwoburenweizheizhishiwodemeihaoyuanwang。zaihunfufujiuxiangxiaotou，zaizainanmianqianfeixiang。

 hunhou，pingdanderizizhiguolebannian，wojiuzhongfengle，wotangzaiyiyuanlidongbule，yishengshuokenenghuidaozhitanhuan，yibeizizhinengzailunyishangduguo。

 yikaishi，ameihaizaiyiyuanzhaoguwo，dandangtatingdaozheigexiaoxishi，tahedeshoushidongxipaodiaole。tadadianhuajiwoshuotalihunle。tashuotahainianqing，buxiangyibeizizhaoguwo。tahaishuohewozaiyiqishilangfeishijian。taxiangzhuiqiugenghaodeshenghuo。

 wohenhaipahaipa。zicongwoheameizaiyiqi，wojiumeiyoucunkuan，shenzhiliangongzikadouzaiameishouli。wogenbenmeiyouqianzhifuzhuyuanfei，suoyiwokuzheqiuta。

 zhiyaotayuanyihuilaizhaoguwo，wolikaihou，fangzijiuhuishuyuta，danameizongshijujuehuitou。kandaoameiruciguoduan，wozhinengliulei，zuozailunyishangheameibanlilihunshouxu。

 yexushangdikelianwo。dangwoerzidezhiwodeqingkuanghou，tabuguguoqudeweiquhuilaizhaoguwo，daiwoqujieshoukangfuxunlian。bannianhou，wokeyizoulule，danworengranxuyaozhuzheguaizhang。

 zaiwokangfuqijian，zuirangwogandongdeshiwodeqianqilaikanwo，weiwozhuledagutang。youshiwoerzimeiyoushijiangongzuo，wodeqianqibangwoquyiyuanfucha。dangshiwozhendehencankui。womeixiangdaowodeqianqihuizheimekangkai。woyiqiandezuofataiduole。

 jingguozheicizhanzhuanfance，wozhongyuyishidao，jishiwoheyuanlaidebanlvmeiyouaiqing，bijingwoyijinghuole30nianle。wozenmenengshuoworengranyouganqingni？wozhendebuyinggaiweileyidianmaodunerfangqizhei30niandeganqing。

 50suinanrenlihunlehuihouhuima？zheitaiyuchunle。suiranameibiyuanlaidebanlvnianqingpiaoliang，dandangkunnanlailinshi，tazhihuiduodehenyuan。ameizhinengtonggangongku，danyuanlaidebanlvshiyigeyuanyihewoyiqichikuderen。guoran，zhangfuheqizirengranshiyuanlaidebanlv，wogufulezheiduanmeihaodeguanxi。