50岁离婚时心里还想找个老伴的，50岁男人离婚了会后悔吗

 50suinanrenlihunlehuihouhuima？dangrenmendaoleyidingdenianling，tamendexinqinghuifashenghendadebianhua。tamenbuhuikeyizhuiqiurenhedongxi，yebuhuiqiangqiuhemianqiang。tamenyouduokaixin，youduoshufu。

想想也是。

renzheiyisheng，benlaijiushiyigerenlai，zuihouyeyaoyigerenzou，meiyourennengzhenzhengpeisheizouwanrenshengdequancheng。

jiaruyouxingyudaoyigezhenxinpeizijizouwanyiduanluderen，jiuyinggaiganenhezhenxi，ruguomeiyou，yigerenyekeyizou。

gudushirenshengdechangtai，yiqianshi，yihoushi。

 shishishang，wofaxianxuduozhonglaonianfufuzaitamendeshenghuozhongmeiyouxingfu。tamenzhendezoudaolejintou，zhishiyinweitamendeshenghuo。tamenyibeizidouzaiweihaizijiejiandishenghuoheshenghuo。youqishinvxing，tamenzaishangbanshengweijiating、haizihehunyinerhuo，quehushileziji。

 zhuanyanjiandaolexiabansheng，xiangyaoweizijihaohaoshenghuoyici，quedebudaoairendelijie，xiangchufangshidegaibianyinlailefuqizhijiandemaodun。

huoxu，zheiyeshizhonglaonianfuqilihundeyigeyuanyin。

 shuoshihua，duiyuxuduoputongrenlaishuo，lihunhoujiehundeyuwanghuibiandehendi。yinweiwojingliguobingyoulehaizi。jishiwoyibeizidoubuzaihun，woyebuhuiyoutaiduodeyihan。yuqizhaoyigexiangsiderenshenghuo，buruduzishenghuo。

yinci，chufeininengyudaoyigezhenzhengzhide，linghunqihederen。

 zenmeshuoni？rendaozhongnianyihou，meiyourenhuiherenherenyiqiwan。meigerendouyoujingyan。henduoshiqingdoushizhongsuozhouzhide，danyoushitamenbuxiangbaolu。tamenxiangrangnizhaoguhaoziji。

xuduozhongnianyihoudenvxing，huiyoulianggewenti，daolezheigenianlinghaibuxuyaolihunma？lihunhoushifouyoubiyaozaihun。

hunyinbushishenghuodebixupin，meigerendouyaoxuanze，hunyinyebushihesuoyouren。

yincihunyinyebushirenmenzuihaodeguisu，yigerendaotoulaizuihaodeguisu，shizijidejiankanghexintai。

zhengru《yanzhi》zhongyouyijuhua：

 “wodemudedishijiankanghetianfu。bijing，yigerenkeyixinrendeshitaziji。shitanengweitagandaojiaoao。woxiangyaoshenmeyangdejia？wozhaodaoleziji。woshiwodejia。”

zaijiangyigefengyidegushi。

 50suinanrenlihunlehuihouhuima？fengayixianzaixiangmingbai，ruguohunyinzhendehenbuxing，lihunyinggaijinkuai，qiantishihunyinzhendehenbuxing，nianlingbuyinggaibeikaolvzainei。jishinideshengminghaiyouyitian，niyeyinggaiduineitiandeshengmingfuze。ciwai，dangnidaolezhongnian，nizhiwanchenglenishengmingdeyiban。

yuqizaibuxingdehunyinzhongshengcun，buruyonggandinulichengquanziji。

 dangran，zheishizhende，danlihunbijingbushiyijianxiaoshi。jiuxiangfengayiyiyang，jishitaxiangtaoli，tamendeshenghuoyijingchengweiyizhongxiguan，tawufarenshouxinqingongzuolejishiniandejia。

baokuolihunshi，yeyouqinqipengyouquanta：“yibeizidouguolaile，weishenmebunengjiangjiudaozuihou。”

 fengayiyexiangjiangjiu，dantayuelaiyueguguaidezhangfuposhitawuluketui。tashenhoushixuanya，tazhinengbasuoyoudejidanfangzaiyigelanzili。yuzhangfujiehunjin30nianhou，zhangfuchuleanshizhifujiatingshenghuofeiwai，meiyouweijiatingzuochurenhegongxian。

lianggehaizidoushizijiyigerenladade，jieguodaolaolequehuanlaizhangfuyigebukaixindequandajiaotidehuibao。

tandaoweilaidejihua，fengayiyeshuolezijidexinlihua：

 “50suilihundeshihou，xinlihaixiangzhaogelaopo。xianzaiwokandaolezhonglaoniannanrendezhenmianmu！tamenzhenzhengxiangzhaolaopodedifang，xianranshixiangzhaogemianfeibaomu。

 woweiwodeqianfuzuoleyibeizidebaomu。wobuxiangzaiweirenherendangbaomule。wozhixiangmibuwoshangbanbeizisuoqiandesuoyouzhaiwu，guoyizhongwoxihuandeshushideshenghuo。jishiwoduziyirensiqu，wodexinyehenfengfu。zhishaowoweizijihuoleyibeizi。”

50suidefengayilihunle，houlaiyekaishileliangduanlianqing，dandouyishibaigaozhong。

 shouxian，rangwomentantandiyigejiaoliuduixiang。tazhenshigehenyoucaihuaderen。fengayibeitadecaihuasuoxiyin，henkuaijiukaishiletongjushenghuo。danzheigerenzhiyouzuishangdeai，zhujianbazijidedongxituijilefengayi。zuihou，fengayifaxianzijiyouchenglebaomu。

chuleerduotinglehenduotianyanmiyu，qitadesihushenmedoumeiyou。

yushifengayiyoudianxinhuiyileng，zhudongjieshulezheiduanganqing，yongtadezongjiejiushi，zhishiyiaidemingyihongnijitaxiyizuofan。

 zhiyugoutongdediergeduixiang，sihushiyigezhongchenglaoshidenanren，andiliquechuchufangbeifengayi，shenzhixiangrangfengayizhuanqiantieta。

 liangduanganqingzhongyurangfengayixiangkaile，danbingbushifengayiguozhehenxiaojideshenghuo。tahaishixiangxinaiqing，zhishishuoruguozhendeyubudaoaiqing，yigerenyemeiguanxi。

 dangnizhendenengxiangshoudaoyigerendeshenghuoshi，tongyangdejingshenyenengdedaomanzu，zhiyaonidexinshichongshide，shifengfude，shikeaide。

zhende，yigerenbuzaihunbushizuizhongyaode，zuizhongyaodeshinenggouyijijileguandetaiduyingjieshenghuo。

 jieshouyanqiandeshenghuo，xiangshouyanqiandeshenghuo，zhenxiyanqiandeshenghuo，zhiyaonengzuodaozheisandian，nijiuhuiganshoudaoshenghuodelequ，jishishiyigerendeshenghuo。

zuipaniyigeren，yebukaixin。

 danshibukuailedebenzhishiyinweinishiyigerenma？bu，zhishiyinweinijingshenpinji，duishenghuoshiqulejiqing，suoyinibixuzhaodaozheizhongjiqing。

 jiqingshishenghuodequdongliwomenbunengqueshaota。womenfaxianhenduorenwufalijieta，yewufabaituolihundeyinying。niyinggairenzhenxiangxiangniweishenmelihun？lihundeyiyizaiyuzhongxinkaishi。guoquyijingguoqule。wulunshihaoshihuai，weilaidouhenzhongyao。

 nizhongyuyoujihuiyinixihuandefangshishenghuole。weishenmebuzhenxihexiangshouzheigejihuini？guozijixihuandeshenghuobunengzhishiyijukonghua。

亦舒说过：

“xianzaihaiyousheihuizhaogusheiyibeizi，neishiduomechenzhongdebaofu。yincibixuzili。”

jishinixuanzezaihun，yeyaozili，bunengbazijidangchengyizhongfudan，bazijidazaiduifangshenshang，neimenijiuyongyuanbuhuixiaosa。

 50suinanrenlihunlehuihouhuima？renshengbuzhang，duomexingfuzenmelai，yudaoyigerangnixingfuderen，yaozhenxi，ruguoyubudao，jiujizijixingfu，womenkeyi。