离婚前应该想明白这几件事，男方要离婚的原因

 nanfangyaolihundeyuanyinyounaxie？zheiliangtiandianshiju《dixian》zhengzaibochu，yixielvshipengyouyifentianyingdishuozheibujudihuilelvshi。youshenmedabulede？womeiyoushijiankan，suoyiwozuihaodatong12368，wenwenfenpeidechengbanfaguanshifouyou。wozaidengzheshenqingquzheng！

kaigewanxiao，qishijintianhedajiataolunyixia，ruguoyaozuochulihundejueding，zaicizhiqianyinggaikaolvnaxiewenti。

jinianqianyougelihunanwomenmeiyouhuida，shiyigelaolvshidekehu，daoxianzaiwodoujide：

 yiweinianqingnvshizaidiercihunyinzhongyousangehaizi，zuidadeshixiaoxuesheng，zuixiaodehaizaiburuqi。yinweijiarenjiehunshibutongyi，tahejiarennaofanlehenzhangshijian。

 zheigenanrenshiyibangongshizhiyuan，gongzibugao。zaizhifulediyadaikuanhou，jihumeiyoushengxiadewukouzhijia。zhufangshigainanzixingmingdedaikuan，qizhongxuduohaimeiyouchanghai。

 zheigenvrenmeiyougongzuoheshouru，yizhizaijiazhaoguhaizi。zheigenanrenmeiyoujiatingbaoliheqipian，yuanyihezheigenvrenzhuzaiyiqi，renmengengchidun，shuangfangdegoutongbushunli。

 zheigenvrenhaihennianqing。duzizhaogusangehaizizhendehenlei。tameicidadianhuazixunshidouhuiku。worenweitaxuyaobangzhu。zheizhongbangzhushouxianshinanrenxuyaolejietadeqingxuhegengduodejiaoliu，ranhoutakeyibangzhufendanjiawu。raner，zheimingfunvjiandingdixiangyaolihun，suoyizheiweilaolvshibudebujujue。houlai，wotingshuotajieqianqingqitalvshiqisulihun。

ruguomeiyoushouru，meiyouzhusuo，meiyoumuqinjiatingdezhichi，youxiangzijifuyanghaizi，neizhendehennan。

lihunjiejueleyigewenti，dankenenghuidailaiqitawenti。

 2020niantuichu“lihunlengjingqi”dangwomentaolundeshihou，womengengxuyaodeshijiehunshidelengjing，erbushilihunshidelengjing。yourenshuo:jiehunqianyaozhengdayanjing，jiehunhouyaobishangyanjing，dagaiyeshizheigedaoli。

如果你必须做出离婚决定，你应该清楚地思考以下问题

diyi，shijingjiwenti，yejiushichihezhudewenti，zheishifeichangsuqide，danshifeichangzhongyaodewenti。

 ruguoyigerenyouzijidejingjijichuhuofumudezhichi，zheixiekenengbushiwenti，danruguotalihunle，tazhendebixuzaijieshangshuijue。ruguokenengdehua，worenweitayinggaizaikaolvxiayibuzhiqiangaishantadejingjizhuangkuang；

 dier，zheishifuyanghaizidewenti。bingbushisuoyoudehaizidouyaogenzhetamendemuqin。buyaozaiyineixiekenengdeliuyanfeiyu。zonghekaolvshuangfangdeqingkuang。ruguoyifangdetiaojianqueshinanyibaozhenghaizidewendinghezhengchangdechengzhanghuanjinghetiaojian，neimelingyifanghaizikenengbingbuhuai。

lihunhoudaizhehaizi，nvrenkenenghennanzaijiehun，zheishiyigefeichangxianshidewenti，erqienianlingyuedayuenan。

 disan，lihunkenenghuijiejuenirenweiwufarenshoudewenti，bingdailaixuduoqitawenti。chulekaolvnijianglaikenengmianlindewentiwai，nihaiyinggaikaolvlihunshifouzhendeshiweiyidejiejuebanfa？

 ……huanjuhuashuo，lihundebiyaoxingshifouzhendecunzai。dangran，yixieyuanzexingdeanjian，ru《minfadian》di1079tiaosuoliedelihun，baokuozhonghunhuoyutarentongju、jiatingbaolihuonvedai、yiqijiatingchengyuan、dubohexidudengbuliangxiguan，zheixiedoubuzaiwomendetaolunfanweizhinei。

 zaichongmanjiatingbaolidehunyinzhong，kuanrongshizuimeiyoubiyaode。yifangzongshiweilehaizierrongrenjiatingbaoli。danghaizizhangdahou，tayulingyifangdeguanxihencha，henmingxian，youyutongniandeyinying，tayongyuanbuhuiyouhaizi。

yigezhongnianfunvyinweitongnianjiatingbaolideyingxiang，zhiyaokandaobierenchaojiahedahandajiaojiuhuibuyouzizhudifadou。

youshihouwochangchangxiang，lvshizailihunsusongzhongnengzuoxieshenme？

 shishishang，wokeyizaifalvshangjidangshirenyixiejianyi，woyekeyizailihunsusongzhongzuohenduochengxuxinggongzuo，fabiaohenduowenjian，tichuhenduoshenqing，yufaguan、wodekehuhelingyifanggoutong，danjihumeiyoutigongrenheshejiqinggandedongxi。nanfangyaolihundeyuanyinyounaxie？

 xiandaichengnianrendegangazhichuzaiyu，jihumeiyourennengshuochuzheizhongxuyaoshutonghehuanjiedeqingxu。liru，ruguoyigeyouhaizidenvrenxianglihun，duishenghuogandaofeichangtongku，tayinggaihesheishuohua？

xianranduifumubuhao，yinweibunengrangfumudanxin，erqiekenengfumudagailvbuhuizhichitadejueding；

gengbuyongshuohaizile，yebukenengqiuzhuyulingyigeranghunyinzoudaojintouderen；

pengyoubaoluzijideshangkouwuyishibumingzhide……

 zaichulianjiandeguochengzhong，yulvshijiaotanshikeyide，danxuduonianqinglvshikenengmeiyoujiehun，yemeiyougerenjinglihunyinheaiqingdequbie。

haiyouhenduogangbiyecongshilvshizhiyedexuesheng，youdekenenglianlianaidoumeitanguo！

 ruguonirenshiyigefatingfaguan，takenenghuikandaogengduoguanyuhunyindenanyirenshou，jiuxiangwaikeyishengxiguanleshangkouyiyang。wojidedangwodiyicishixideshihou，wohewodezhurenyiqichulilezheigeanzi。

 fatingzhendehenbushufushuta？jiuxiangyigedaxingtuzaichangyiyang，suoyoudeqingjiedouhenganga，jiaozhikeyibaxiezicongdonglikouchulai。zuoweiyigenvren，worenweizheiduinvrenhencanren，danzuoweiyiminglvshi，wozhinengbangzhutazhengqugengduodecaichanfenge。

 falvzongshijiejuewentideyibufen。xuduowentikenengxuyaosikaozhiqian，xuduowentikenengxuyaodaponanqiang。zaidianshijuzhong，fuqijingchangyiqizuoxinlizixun，zheizaiwoguobingbupubian。

 nanfangyaolihundeyuanyinyounaxie？shishishang，zheishifeichangbiyaode。xuduonianqingrenrengranshitamenhaizidefumu，suoyitamenbudebuzaixianshizhongmanmanchengzhang。hunqianhunhouchajutaida，zheiyekenengshinianqingrenbuganjiehundeyuanyin。