男方要离婚的原因，一般是为了达到这3个目的

 nanfangyaolihundeyuanyinyounaxie？tashuo，zaiguoqudeliangnianli，fuqiguanxibushihenhao。jishishifuqishenghuoyehenshao，yigeyueyemeiyoupinfandeshenghuo。tajuedetadezhangfuhaoxiangzaiwaimianyouren，dantabuqueding，suoyitazaichifanshipangqiaoceji。

 congneiyihou，zhangfuyehenguanxinjiatingshiwu，fuqishenghuoyehenpinfan。danzhangfudegaibianbingmeiyourangtakuaile，yinweizhangfudexingwei，bushiweizhuangdechengrenma？

zaiyicizhengchaozhong，zhangfufennuzhixia，tichulihun，bingshuoyaobushihaizitaixiao，zaojiulihunle。

 tayizhishigejiatingzhufu。taturanjinghuangshicuo，haoxiangtiantaxialaile。tazhendebuzhidao。taxiwangzhidaojianglaigaizenmeban。tayijingquedingtadezhangfuzaiwaimianyouren，yinweitacengjingkanguotadeshouji，shangmianshenmedouyou，tadezhangfuyemeiyoushanchu。

duiyuzheizhongqingkuang，wojitadehuifuyehenqingchu，youliangzhongchulifangfa。

 diyizhongchulifangshi，jiushirenqitunsheng，weichiyiduanmingbujianjingchuandehunyin，dengdaozhangfuyouyitianzhenxiangbaituohunyin，jiubeitikai。

 dierzhongchulifangshishijiazhuangtuoxie。zaiweilaiderizili，duanliannidezhuanqiannengli，bushiweilezhuanhenduoqian，ershiweileduzishengcun。tongshi，shoujizhangfubeipandezhengju，zhunbeihaohouxuanzelihun，zuidahuatamenkeyifenxiangdeliyi。

 xianran，tadezhangfubeipanlehunyin。zheiduanhunyinyijingchengweineigenanrendefudanhuoyanshi。tameiyouzhijiebaqizifangzaiyibian，yaomeshiyinweihaizi，bijingshitade“zhong”yaomeyihunyin、jiatingweiyanshi。

 duizheiweiduzhelaishuo，hunyinmingcunshiwang，zhangfudexinzaoyishiqu。ruguozheiduanhunyinjixuxiaqu，tadeshenghuojiangxianruheian，xingfujiangbuzaiguanxinta。

 womenxiwanghunyinzhangjiu，danshenghuohexianshizongshifashengyiwai。shiyoubajiuderenshenghuoburuyi，sheinengbaozhengzijidehunyinyongyuanxingfu？

duiyuqianbeilaishuo，lihunshiyijiankechideshiqing，jishihunyinyijingchengweihuokeng，yebuyuanyipachulai。

 danshiduiyujintianderenlaishuo，falvzaoyijianquan，guannianzaoyigaibian，ruguohunyinshiyigehuokeng，neijiuzaodianpachulai，buyaoxiangbiede。

 zaidaduoshurenyanli，yibandoushinvrenshengqideshihou，huixuanzezijishuodehua，yongzijishuodehua。“lihun”weixienanren，qishizaihunyinzhong，nanrenyehuiyong“lihun”dadaozijidemude。nanfangyaolihundeyuanyinyounaxie？

 dangyigenanrentichulihunshi，takenengxiangdadaozheisangemude。nvrenjianmianhou，qianwanbuyaomimang。tamenyinggaixuehuiqufentadezuizhongmubiao，ranhouzaikanyibian。

第一个目的：这是气话，为了撒气

 jiarushuoyiqiandenanren，neilihunjiranshuolekou，kendingshixinliyijingxianglehenjiule，jiushixianglihun，danshixianzaidenanrenbuyiyangle。

yiqiandenanren，juedaduoshudoushizhenzhengdeyijiazhizhu，shuoyibuerdecunzai，shuochulai，yidingyaozhixing。

 xianzaidenanren，yekeyizuo“yijiadier”jishishidisan、disi，yexushishidaizaifazhan，suoyixianzaidenanren，zaijialibeiqifudekenengxingyehuidadeduo。

beiqiziqifu，youbunengzhenzhengfanji，suoyibupaichushuolihun，shishengqidehua，zhishiweilesaqi。

 ruguoshizheiyangdehua，nvrenyinggaifanshengyixiaziji，shibushitaiqiangdale。nikan，laogongdelihundoushuole，wanyiyouyitiantazhendeshoubulele？

第二个目的：威胁女性保持现状

dangran，diyizhongqingkuangbingbuchangjian，zhishijinnianlaizhujianzengduo，dierzhongqingkuangshichangjiandeqingkuang。

 shishishang，hunyinzhongdedaduoshunanrenrengranshiyijiazhizhu，dantamenbingbuxiangjinianqianneiqiangying。zheishishehuiziyuandefenpei，shouchuantongguanniandexianzhi，meiyoubanfa。

 ruguozaihunyinzhong，nvrenyinggaizuoyixieshiqing，zheiduinanrenlaishuogengzhongyao“chuge”shiqing，biruchuqugongzuo，biruzuoyixienanrenjuedebuhaodefuye，birulianggerenzhijiandemaodundengdeng。

yexuzaizheizhongqingkuangxia，nanrenhuiyonglihunlaiweixienvren，buyaozuoneixieshi，fouzejiuhuilihun。

 shishishang，haiyoulingyizhongqingkuang，neijiushiduzheyikaishideqingkuang。nanrenxiangyaowaimiandenvren，buxiangjieshutamendehunyin。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，ruguoyigenvrenbuxianglihun，xiangrangyigenanrenhuidaojiali，yigenanrenkenenghuiyonglihunlaiweixieyigenvren。

zheigeshihoudenanren，jiushixiangyaode“sanrenxing”，zuoyongqirenzhifu。

zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，wohaishijianyizaibaozhengzijishengcundeqingkuangxialihun。

第三个目的：离婚

disangemudemeishenmehaoshuode，tajiushixianglihun，jiushixiangfangqizheiduanhunyin，erqieshijiutouniulabuhuilaideneizhong。

 yidanyigerenzhendezuochuleyixiejueding，tadexinyidingyijingpaihuailehenzhangyiduanshijian，lvleyiqie。suoyizaizheigeshihou，ruguoyigenvrenbuxianglihun，tahuijishuangfangyigepingjingdekongjian。ruguoyigenanrenlengjingxialaihouhaishizheiyang，zuihaofangshou。

yuqirucitongkudixiaofei，buruxunzhaozijidexingfu。

 yibanlaishuo，ruguoyigenanrentidaolihun，lihundekenengxingrengranxiangduijiaoda。dangtashuolihunshi，nvrenyinggaimingbaitaduizheiduanhunyinmeiyouhuaijiuzhiqing。

 nanfangyaolihundeyuanyinyounaxie？raner，wulunsheitidaolihun，zheiduijiatingchengyuanlaishuodoubushiyijianhaoshi，danwomenyinggaizuodeshirenzhenkaolvzheiduanhunyinshibaideyuanyin，fouzexiayiduanguanxikenenghuiyinweitongyangdeyuanyinshibai。