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nanfangtichulihunzenmeban？hunyinzhong，nanrenyingezhongyuanyinjianjueyaoqiulihun，nvrenbuxianglihungaizenmeban？

 ruguoniyudaozheizhongqingkuang，buyaodanxin，zheisangebuzhoukeyirangnibaituodangqiandekunjing，zheigeneirongzhuyaoshizhenduilihunhuifuxiufudefuqimaodunjilei，ruguoshiyigenanrenchuguiruguonizaisaihoutidaolihun，keyikankanzhiqiandeneirong。

 bijiaoyixiazijideqingkuang，kankannilaogongshiyinweihunyinmaodundejilei，ranhouzaikankanqianmiandeneirong。chuguilihun，haishichenjidayani，rangnihaipalihun，jieshousanrenxing，zheishiyouhendaqubiede。

suoyidangnanrenjianjuetichulihunshi，gaizenmeban？

1.结束你的对抗状态

 xianjieshunideduikangzhuangtai。henduoshihou，dangyigenanrentichulihunshi，takenenghuizhizenitaiqiangzhuang，nibuzaihuta。tinglezhihou，nikenenghuijiyuxianweizijibianhu。wodangshibushizheigeyisi。wodangshishizheiyangde。niwujielewo。

 dangnijiujieyuzheigewentideduiyucuoshi，henrongyibianchengyuduifangzhengchao，ranhoubianchengqingganduikang。youxierenkenenghuishuo，zaizheigeshihou，wohuizhijiexiangtadaoqianbingchengrenwodecuowu。

 wonengruanruoma？niyinggaizhidao，dangyigenanrenjianchilihunshi，tabixuzixikaolvzheigejueding。ruguotamanbujingxinditidaozheijianshi，tashijishangshizaifaxiezijideqingxu。

 neishi，nihuigandaowenrouhepingjing，danruguonijiandingditidaolihun，nihuizaizheigeshihougandaowenrou，zhishirangduifangjuedeniyiqianzuoguoshenme，gengxiuruni，nidengyuzaihuoshangkaoziji。nigaizenmeban？

 dangnitingdaonizhangfuduinidegongjihezhize，shuochusuoweidelihunliyoushi，nibixuxianrangzijitingxialai，buyaohetazhenglunzheijianshideduicuo。zheihaowuyiyi。

 nikeyilengjingxialai，tingtashuo。zhihou，niwentaweishenmezheimexiang？nirenweiyoushenmewentima？nixiangrangwozuoshenme？dangtanengshuochuzijidexiangfaheganshoushi，nijiuhuizhidaotaweishenmeduizheijianshiyouzheimedadekanfa，weishenmetahuijianjuetichulihun，zheiyangnijiukeyidiaozhengxiayibudechulifangshi，erbushiyizhihetazhenglunqingxushangdeduicuo，zuiqueshulehunyin。

2.学习情绪反应

 dangduifanggaosutadeganshouhetadexiangfashi，gaosutatadeqingxu。niyinggaixuehuihuiyingduifangdeqingxu。yuanlainixiangrangwozheimezuo。yuanlainidangshishizenmeganjuede。

 ruguoduifangbuxiangshuohua，buyaojiyuqiangpotahuiying。nishizhequlijieta。taweishenmebuxiangshuohua？taguoquhenshaobiaodazijideganqing，haishiguoquhenshaobiaodazijideganqing，dannigengfoudingle，tagenbenbushuo？haishitahaishibuzaizijideqingxuzhongchulai？

 dangyigerenxiadingjuexinshi，hennanbeibierenshuofu，zuihaodefangfashitongguoduifangdeqingxulailijietamendeqingxulaidaponidejiangju，yinweizaitadezhizebeihou，tashijishangbaohanzheqiwanghexuqiu，taxiwangzijinenggoubeilijieherenke。

 dangninengmanzutadexuyaoheyuanwangshi，tahuibeinigandong，tahuijuedenimendeguanxiyoulexindekeneng，qingganbeihoudexuqiuhuibeikandaohelijie，zheiyeshirenleixinlingzuirouruan、zuixuyaodebufen。nanfangtichulihunzenmeban？

3.更有耐心和理解

 nixuyaojizijigengduodeshijianhenaixin。dangnichangshizheixiebuzhoushi，woxiangxinnimendeguanxihuikaishihuanhe。cishi，takenenghuikaishimaodun.youyu，danzaizheigeshihou，nibunengrenweitadetaidudongyaole。

 nixiangrangduifangjinkuaifangshou，biaomingnidetaiduhenhao。zheigexiangfabufuhexianshi。tajianjuelihundebeihouyidingshishensishulvde。jishizainidehunyinzhongjileilehenduowenti，tayehuibaofa。

 nixuyaoyigeguochengcainengrangtazaicijieshounihezheiduanhunyin。cishi，nanrenhuiguanchani，kankannidezhuangtaishifoujiazhuang。tarengranhuidanxinnishifouhuixiangyiqianyiyang。

cishi，nibunengdanxin。nixuyaowendingnidezhuangtai，zhongfuyishanglianggebuzhou。

 henduoshihou，hunyinweijiyeshinizhongjianhunyindejihui。yidanninengtiaochuyuanlaidexiangfa，nimenzhijiandemaodunhewujiejiuhenrongyijiejue，nimenlianggekeyitongguoxindelianghaojingyanjiashenbicidelijie，nimendeganqingkeyifashengzhidebianhua。

 nanfangtichulihunzenmeban？hunyinyexiangyimianjingzi，keyibangzhuwomenkandaozijidewenti，hunyinyeshiyizhongxiuxing，tongguobanlvlaixiuxingwomendeduanban。