老公提出离婚应该如何应对，男方提出离婚怎么办

 nanfangtichulihunzenmeban？nvrenyishengzhongzuizaogaodeshihoushinanrenturanxiangnitichulihun。guigenjiedi，nvxinghaipalihundezuizhongyaoyuanyinshijingjiyuanyin。qici，fuquanshehuiranghenduonvxingdedaoleta“ruangubing”。

 erxinzhongchongmanleduiweilaidejiaolv，lihundehaizizenmeban？shehuiyulunzenmekan？jiatingchengyuanzenmekan？weilaideshenghuozenmeban？

woyizhizhuzhang：lixingdimianduiwenti，zhiyoubupashiqu，xiaochuzijideqingxu，shutongzijidexinling，cainengzhenxi。

 zheizhong“bupashiqu”，shuodebushibuzhenxi，suoyi“zuoweizuofu”mianduilihun“diqi”yinweiwobupashiquni，suoyiwokeyihenipingqipingzuo。wohenizhanzaitongyigeweizhihegaodu。woyouzigehenitanpan，erbushibeidongdijieshouyouxiguize。

neishihou，womengaizenmeban？

我们必须这样做“3个不”

1.不要跪舔：

 dangnanrenbeipolikaishi，xuduonvrenhuijinghuangshicuo。kuzheshuo：weilewomendezhangfuheqizizheimeduonian，jiwoyigejihui。wonenggaibianwozuocuodeshi。

 tamenshenzhikeyidabuhoutui：wokeyizhengyizhiyanbiyizhiyan，nihewaimiandeguanxi，wobuzaihu，haoma？zhiyaonihewobulihun。

zheixiehuayouyongma？yidianyongdoumeiyou！

jiaruyigenanrenzhishinalihunlaihehuni，neimeniyangguixia，tajiuchenggongle。

keyiguiyihuier，guijiule，jiuyaosile。

 niyiweiruguonituoxie，kaorennai，nanrenhuimanmanhewaimiandenvrenfenshou，danqishinishiruangutou。jishinanrenhewaimiandenvrenfenshou，yehuiyounanren。“xiaosi”，“xiaowu”yigegetibushanglai。

zaizheizhongdashidafeideyuanzexiagui，xiachangjiushitunxiayiwanzhen！nanfangtichulihunzenmeban？

jiarunanrenzhendegennilihun，niguitian，huirangtagengkanbuqini！

tagengjuedenishigeleizhui，xiangbanitichuqu。

2.不要辩论

 zaizheigeshihou，nvrenbennengdixiangshuofunanren：yikaishi，niyefeichangaiwo。zheimeduonianlai，nibushimeiyouaima？nixianzaiduineigenvrenshuodehuajiuxiangniduiwoshuodeneiyang。zaizheizhongqingkuangxia，nizhishizaizhongfunideshenghuo。weishenmeyaomafan？

huozhe：neigenvrenshiweilenideqian，tashiweileshanghaini，nibuyaotaitianzhen！

huozhe:woweinixishenglezheimeduonian，womenzhongyuguoshanglehaorizi。nibixuzheiyangzuo……niduideqiwoma？

jingguozheimeduoniandefengyutongzhou，womendeganqingburuzheigenvrenjigeyuehenishangchuangdeyuwang？

xiangxinwo，buyaobaifeiliqi，jirannanrenjide，yigenanrenyaohenilihun，wangwangshishensishulvde。

suoyinigentashuoshenme，tadoushidaoqiangburu。

3.buyaojiaodihuoshitutuoyan

 nvrenbuyinggaitaizhenshi。jirannanrenqiangponilihun，tamenjiushinideduishou。nibuyinggaiqingyidibadibujiaojiduifang。liru，womenshifoudengdaihaizicanjiagaokao？

huozhenishuo，wogaosuni，chufeinishalewo，wokendingbuhuilikai！

 ruguonizheimeshuo，zhihuijiqinanrendechouhen。tarenweinizaihetawan，takenengbudebushiyonggezhonggeyangdedongxi“zhayanzhaxing”qiangponifangqihunyin。

neinvrengaizenmeban？jizhu，jiushi，“1geyao”

yaomingbai，zhongyaodebushishuofunanrengaibianzhuyi。

xiangfan，womenyinggaizhangwozhudong，shenmeshizhudong“zhangwozhudong”？

jiushirangnanrenshuofuziji，jutizenmeban？

yaomingbai，meigerenxinzhongdouyouyigegancheng：yaohengliangzijideliyi。

duixuduonanrenlaishuo，lihunkeyishitaxunsujieshuzhandou，jieyuechengben，benxiangmeihaoshenghuo。

 neiwomenjiuyaorangtadebudaozheixie，rangtajuedelihunbibulihungengmafan，haiyaofuchugengdadedaijia，zheiyangtajiubuxianglihunle。

yinci，niyaozailiyishangzhihengzheigeren，tacaihuizhenzhengtingzhizheizhongwangxiang。

bunengyongyanleishuofunanren，zhinengrangnanrenhenni。

bunengyongdaolishuofunanren，zhinengrangnanrenhulveni。

bunengyongtuoyanlaishuofunanren，zhinengrangnanrenduikangni。

erqiezhiyouzhizaozhangai，bawotadeliyiqicun，tacainengzhenzhengkaolvlihunshifouhuasuan。nizenmeshuo？

总结起来就是三句话

1.lihunmeiyouwenti。nibunengrangnanrenkandaonibunenglihun，fouzetahuishituzuogengwuqingdeshi，rangnifangqi。

2.danshinibixubopi。rangtamingbailihunbushibaituomafan“huati”ershizhizaomafandejiqi。

3.yaozunshouwodeguize。rangtamingbai，jirantayaoqiulihun，neimeguizeyidingyaozunxunnishuode。

youlezheisanjuhua，nijiukeyiwenzhenjiao。

ranhouniyaoshoujitaderuodian，yongtamen“huluobu+dabang”hetayiqishuohua“qinggantanpan”。

 ruguonixiangzhidaogaizuoshenme，nixuyaoxianwenwenziji，dangshenghuozaiwomenmianqianchengxianwomenbuxiangyaodejieguo，huozhedaizouwomenbuxiangshiqudebaozangshi，womenhaiyouyongqichengweifenghuangma？

nanfangtichulihunzenmeban？womenxuyaokefudebushiwentibenshen，ershibennengdijujuehedizhiwenti。