夫妻关系主要靠什么维持，夫妻之间最好的关系就是“相互取悦”

 fuqiguanxizhuyaokaoshenmeweichi？yourenshuo：“yihunrenshicongduifangneilidedaodeneizhongxingfu，zhishihunyindekaishi，juebushitadequanbuyiyi。hunyindequanbuyiyibaohanzaijiatingshenghuozhong。”hunyinshifouxingfubuzaiyufuqizhijiandeaiqing，erzaiyutamenxiangchudefangshi。wulunfuqizhijiandeaiyouduoshen，ruguoquefalijiehekuanrong，hunyinyehennanhuodexingfu。

 wozuixihuandedianshilianxuju《fumuzhiai》jiangshulejiangdefuheanjiezhijiandeaiqinggushi。tamendeshenfenhenbuyiyang，sihuhennanshenghuozaiyiqi。raner，jiehunhou，suiranyikaishitamendeshenghuofangshiyouhendadechaju，danjingchanghuiyouyixiexiaodemaodun。danzaixiangchudeguochengzhong，tamenyuanyihuxiangrongren，huxianggaibian。

 zaiyiqijishinianhou，yuanbenguozhejingzhishenghuodeanjiemanmanbiandecuxindayi，buzhuyizijidexingxiang。jiangdefu，yigesuiyidedagezinanren，bujinwanquanjieshouleanjiededaxiaojiedepiqi，erqiebuduanjiejinanjiedeshenghuofangshi。

zaizheiduanhunyinshenghuozhong，tamenbujinyaoweiduifanggaibianzijideshenghuofangshihexintai，haiyaoquyueduifang。

 shuodaoquyue，womenxiangdaodediyijianshijiushiyongyixiejiandandefangfarangbicikuaile，shiyingbicideshenghuo。zaihunyinshenghuozhong，kuaileyeshiruci。dangran，chulexuehuirangbicikuailezhiwai，zheiyeshiyizhongxintai，yizhongzhenchengdegaibian。

 jiuxiangjiangdefuyiyang，suirantazaixinlikanbuqijiekezheiyangdedanvren，dantazongjuedezijizuodetaiduole。danchulebaoyuan，tahaishiyuanyishiyingzheiyangdeshenghuo。jishinibuxiangzaizuishangwenrou，niyeyijingzaixinlijieshoulezheizhongshenghuofangshi。suizheshijiandetuiyi，anjiezirankandaolejiangdefudebianhua，xinzhongyoulegengduodexiyue。

fuqizhijiandequyue，qishijiushidongdezhanzaiduifangdejiaodukanwenti。

 boyangshuoguo：“weileaiqingdeyanxu，hunyindexingfu，qiziyaoquyuezhangfu，zhangfuyeyaoquyueqizi，zhiyuruhequyue，shiyimengaojideyishu。”

 ruguonixiangyaoyigexingfudehunyin，nibunengzongshiyiziwoweizhongxin，jujuebicideyiqie。hunyinshilianggerende，ziranyexuyaolianggerenyiqiweichi。ruguonizisidixiangrangduifangzhuanguoshenlai，buguanduifangdeganqingruhe，hennanbaochiduifangdexin。jishinidedaolexingfu，niyehuibeizheizhongzisisuoqusan。

 fuqizhijiandeguanxishifouhexiebingbuyiweizhetamenyouduoaiduifang，ershitamenkeyihuxianglijie，huxiangsikao，congduifangdejiaodukanwenti。zhiyouzheiyang，hunyincainengchaozhexingfudefangxiangfazhan。

zheizhongyuyue，bixushixianghude、ziyuande，bingrongrudaozuizhenshi、zuipingfandeshenghuozhong。

aiqingshibuduanyundongde，wulunhunyindenagejieduan，fuqishuangfangdoubunengxiedai。

 fuqiguanxizhuyaokaoshenmeweichi？wojingchangkandaoyixiefuqizaiyiqihenzhangshijianhoubiandelanduo。wozongjuedejiranzheizhongganjueyijingwendingxialaile，tamenjiukeyiyizhiwendingxialai，shenghuodewuliaojiukaishile。

xuduofuqizongshibaoyuanshenghuodewuliao，yekaishiyanjuanlezheiyangdehunyinshenghuo，danshitamenhenshaofanshengzijidewenti。

yourenshuo：“hunyinxuyaolianggemingzhiderenbuduanpeiyang，guanjianshibuyaoziman，yaogaishannidehunyin。”

 ruguoniduihunyinguoyuziman，henrongyihulveshenghuozhongdexuduoxijie，zheiwangwangshidaozhihunyinshibaidexiaoshi。ruguonijileigengduo，shanghaijiuzhudingle。

 womenyinggaizhidao，aibushiyilaoyongyide，ershibuduandeyundong。wulunhunyindenagejieduan，fuqidoubunengxiedai，bunenghushibicideganqing，gengbuyongshuoxiangchudeyixiexijiele。

 zaihunyinshenghuozhong，xuduoqingganbushiguyichuangzaodejingxi，gengbuyongshuoyixieliwule。danzaixiangchushi，yixiesuiyidewennuan，yirujiwangdeguanxin，yijimorendeguanxin。

dongdequyueduifangdefuqi，gengrongyiweichiwendingxingfudeguanxi。

 hunyinzhongderenjingchanghuixiang，shenmeyangdefuqiguanxicainengchuangzaoxingfudehunyin？ruguonixiangweichilianghaodefuqiguanxi，nibixuyouxiangtongdexingqu。

 tebieshizaiquyuezheijianshishang，womenbixuxianghupinghengfuqiguanxi。ruguoyigerenzongshiquyueduifang，erduifangzongshihushiduifangdeganshou，neimefuqiguanxihenkuaijiuhuiqingxie，hunyinyebuhuixiangwomenqiwangdeneiyangxingfu。

zhiyoufuqizhijiandexianghuquyue，cainengrangtamenkandaobicideguanxin，kandaobicidezhongcheng，kandaobiciduizheiduanguanxidejianding。

 zhengruxiaobonasuoshuo：“hunhoufuqizhijiandeguanxibingfeidanfangmiandeyaoqiuhejiyu，bixugejinsuoneng，gedeqisuo，cainengfahuidaojizhi。”

 fuqiguanxizhuyaokaoshenmeweichi？hunyinzhongderen，xiangyaodedaozijisuoqidaidexingfu，xiangyaoguanlihaohunyin，jiuyaoxuehuiquyueduifang，bingqieshixianghuquyue。yinwei，fuqizhijianzuihaodeguanxi，jiushixianghuquyue。