婚姻中老公不爱自己了怎么办，男人不爱你又要娶你通常有3个目的

 hunyinzhonglaogongbuaizijilezenmeban？shuodaohunyin，duidaduoshurenlaishuo，shishenshengbukeqinfande。zhiyaolianggerenxuanzejiehun，jiushuominglianggerendeganqingyijingjinruleyigexindejieduan。

 raner，bingbushisuoyoudehunyindouyouaiqing，kansipipeidehunyin，lianggerenhuxiangzunzhong，danshijishangbanlvquechenglezuishuxidemoshengren。

guigenjiedi，zhishiyinweinanrenhenijiehundeshihougenbenbuaini，henijiehundeyuanyin，yeshiyouqitamudede。

nanrenmingmingmeineimeaini，queshuoxiangjiajini。tongchangyousanzhong“huaixinsi”。

01.吃“软饭”，想找情人人照顾自己

zaixianshishenghuozhong，meigerendouburongyishenghuo。liru，nanren，tamenbixufendou，zhuangengduodeqian，cainengyangjia。

 raner，zongyouyixienanrenxiangliyonghunyindejihuizhuyi。yinci，zaixuanzejiehunduixiangshi，diyigebiaozhunbushiaiqing，yebushitamendexinggeshifoujianrong，ershikaolvtamenshifounengzaimeiyounuligongzuodeqingkuangxiayunvxingyiqishenghuo。

huozheliyongnvfangjiatingdetiaojian，rangzijishaofendou20nian，shenzhixiwangzijitangzaichuangshang，jiunengyouqianhua。

 yinci，dangtamenkandaoyigejiatinghenhaodenvrenshi，tamenhuijinzuidanuliquzhuiqiuduifang。yinci，jishiyigenvrenpiqibuhao，tayehuiyinzangzijidezhenmianmu，zainimianqianzuoyigehaonanren。

 buguannihetayouduoshengqi，tadouhuijieshousuoyoudemingling。buguannixiangzuoshenme，tadouhuizhichini。bujinruci，dangnizuishouweiqudeshihou，tahuituranchuxianzainimianqian，jinizuiheshideanwei。

nanrenzheiyixiliedefuchu，henrongyirangnvrenmengbiqizhong，zaituiqianzhongjiushizheiyang。

xiaonuanyudaoxianzaidezhangfu，duifangzhenshiyigewanmeidenanren，shenmedougenzhexiaonuan，wulundashixiaoshi，dounengxiaonuan。

yushi，xiaonuanyiweizijiyudaoleduideren，suiranshenbianderendouzaiquanxiaonuansansi，danxiaonuanhaishihaobuyouyudijiajileduifang。

 danshihunhou，xiaonuandezhangfubuqiushangjin，haiqianlejishiwandezhai。xiaonuangunianjiuqing，yebangtahaiqingle，danduifanghaishibuzhihuigai。

tashenzhiweixiaonuanmailejueyiwaixian，chenmeirenqinshoujiangxiaonuantuixiaxuanya。

jiarutazhendeaixiaonuan，zennengbaxiaonuanfangzaisidi？

suoyi，neixiechi“ruanfan”nanren，tamenyanlizhiyouliyi。

qichu，taxuanzejiajinideyuanyinshiweileqian。jishiniduitazaihao，tayehuibanidangchengyaoqianshu，banidejiazhiquanbuzhaqu。

02.为了面子，把婚姻当成人生的任务

 henduorenzhuiqiushenmenianlingzuoshenme，suoyiyouxienanrenhuihenzhejijiehun，xiwangdiyitianrenshiyigegengheshidenvren，diertianjiunengnadaozhengshu。

 ganghenishuolejijuhua，tajiuyiweinimenzhijianyouxi，jiuzhudongbiaobai，xianghenitanlianai；niganghetachileyidunfan，tajiujuedeniyihoukeyijiehunle。

youxienvrenzhishixihuannanhaizheizhongshuangsuzhuiqiudefangshi，renweiduifangyidingshizhendexihuanziji，suoyicaizheimezheji。

 yinci，zaiaiqingdeguolvxia，nimendefumuhenkuaijiujianmianbingdinghunle。dangnidinghunbingquedingguanxishi，taduinidetaiduhuilikejiangwen。

 yinweiduitalaishuo，hunyinjiuxiangshangdaxuexue，danzheizhishiyixiangshenghuorenwu，jiajini，jiajibierenshiyiyangde，nizhishizaizheigeshihouchuxian，suoyitahuixuanzeni。

 tazheiyangzuozhishiweilesuidaliu。takandaotazhouweidemeigerendoujiehunshengzi。tashiweiyiyigedanshenderen。meigerendouzaiduncutazhuiruaihe.jiehunshi，tashenbianmeiyoubanlv，bijingbushiyijianshi。

 weilebubeibierenshuoxianhua，tazhihaoganjinzhaoren，nadaozhengshu，renwujiuwanchengle，zhiyunizenmexiang，tabuzaihu，niaibuaita，tayebuzaihu。

buguanzenyang，ruguoyihoubunengzhuzaiyiqi，haikeyilihun，neiyebitayizhidanshenyaohao。

 hunyinzhonglaogongbuaizijilezenmeban？yinci，ruguoyigenanrenguoyujiaolv，zaibulejienideqingkuangxia，cuicunijiehun，jixuhenizaiyiqi，neimenijiuyaoxiangyixiang。

yinweijiehunbuyidinghuixingfu，zhiyouheainiderenjiehun，nicainengguoshangzijixiangyaodeshenghuo。

03.很自私，把你当成自己的财产

 zaishenghuozhong，youyizhongnanrencongbubanvrendangzuodulidegeti，ershibanvrendangzuozijidecaichan。tamenrenweinvrentianshengruanruo，nanrenzairenhefangmiandoubinvrenhao。

 yinweibuzunzhong，suoyinanrenhuiguofenduidainvren。liru，tamenzongshibiandini，zongshiyayini，buguannizuoshenme，tadoushuoniburubieren。

 ruguonichuanyitiaopiaoliangdequnzi，tahuishuonihenchou，zuolehenduoqiguaideshiqing。niduodalehaichuanzhefenhongsedequnzi；ruguonixiangdedaotisheng，tahuishuonibuchengzhi，jishininuligongzuo，lingdaoyebuhuizhongshini。

zongzhi，takanbudaonihao，kanbudaoninuli。

 tazongxiangbaniguanzaijiali，weizhetazhuan，jitaganhuoxiyifu，genzhetadexinquzuoshi。ruobushun，talikebianlian，bujinihaokan。

suoyi，tahenijiehundeyuanyinzhishiweilezhaoyigefengchengzijidebanlv，erbushihezijiyiqizhangdadelingyiban。

 jiajizheiyangyigeren，nizhudingbuhuixingfu。yinweiyouyitiannihuibeiduifangdaji。nimeiyouxinxinzuonixiangzuodeshi，biandeyuelaiyuezibei，wanquanchengweitadefushupin。

 zongzhi，hunyinbushiyigerendebixiuke。jishinixianzaimeiyouheshidebanlv，yebuyaozhaorenjiehun，yinweinibulejieduifangdexingge。jishinihunhouhouhui，niyebunengmashanglihun。

 hunyinzhonglaogongbuaizijilezenmeban？ruguoniyouxihuanderen，buyaodanxinnadaozhengshu。xiangfan，shizheheduifangxiangchu，kankanduifangshifouzhidexinren，ranhoukaolvjiehun。zhiyouzheiyang，nicainengyongyouxingfudehunyin。