婚姻中老公不爱自己了怎么办，那就做好两件事

 hunyinzhonglaogongbuaizijilezenmeban？aizongshichuhuyiliaode，tianmideweidaorangyigerenbeikunhenzhangyiduanshijian，zaiwennuanzhongzhanfang，jishishiduanzandeyanhua，yekeyidongjiezaishengmingdeshunjianbianchengyongheng，danzheizhongyonghengzhishiyonghengdejiyi。

 ganqingbuhuizongshichuyugaochao，suizheshijiandetuiyi，aiqinghuizhujianxiaotui。jishinijiehunle，niyewufazuzhiganqingdeehua。ourandi，nihuifaxianyuanlaideganjueyijingchongmanledong。

 youyijutaicijiao《shilian33tian》：“zaigushidekaitou，womenrenweiduifangshiwomenshengmingzhongweiyibunengcuoguoderen，danzuihou，womenfaxiannibushiwobujiehun，wobushinibujiehun，zheizhishiyigetaishangrendewuhui。”

 xuduoganqingzaibujingyijianehua，zhiliuxiameihaodehuiyi。jishinixianghuifu，yehennan。bijing，posuidejingzibunengzhongju。wulunniduomenuli，nidouwufahuifuneixiezhenzhengxianglikaideren。

 jishizaihunyinzhong，yeshiruci。xuduorenkeyipaokaitamendezerenheliangxin，yaomegaibianzhuyi，yaomeduiaitamenderengandaojusang。xuduonanrendoushizheiyang。tamenjinlidedaota，haobufeilidilikai。

jiaruyouyitian，nidezhangfubuaini，neijiuzuoyixialiangjianshi。

一：勇敢放手

zaizheigeshijieshang，aiqingzhijiaorenshengyusi，tongshiaiqingyiaiqingweijiekou，siwujidandishanghaimilianderen。

 tebieshi，xuduonvxingrenweihunyinshitamenshenghuozhongzuizhongyaodezuchengbufen。yidantamenjiehunle，tamenjiuhuixuanzehaowubaoliudizhifu，bingqiwangtamendenulilaiquebaotamendeshenghuo。

 raner，hunyinbingbunengzuzhiyigerengaibianzhuyi。youxierenjiushizheiyang。yikaishi，tamenhuixiaoxinyiyidiquyuebieren。yidantamendedaole，tamenjiubuhuineimezhenxile，shenzhishanghaiyeshilisuodangrande。

 “quanxinquanyidefuchu，keyihuanlaigandong，danbuyidingnenghuanlaixin。riyexiangchudepeiban，kenenghuichanshengganqing，danbuyidinghuichanshengaiqing，buyaomishiziji。”suoyi，dangnidezhangfubuainideshihou，buyaojiuchan，yonggandifangshou。

 nvrenzaihunyinzhongdejiazhizongshibeinanrenyayi，xishengzhihuirangrenshiwang。zaizheigeshihou，ruguonirengranxuanzexishengziji，fangxianideshenti，huxiangzhengjiu。

 zheiyang，nijiubunengrangtagaibianzhuyi，nihuibeitakanbuqi，juedenideganqinghenlianjia。yinci，yuqiyizaishanghaiziji，buruyonggandifangshou，rangzijilikaifengbao。

 jishiniyijingjiehunle，yigegaibianzhuyidenanrenyezhihuiduinizaochenggengdadeshanghai。ruguonituihouyibu，nizhihuigaibiantadebizihelian，gengfangsidishifangtadetianxing，erhushinideqingxu。

 zheizhongposuideganjuemeiyouyiyi，yemeiyoubanfaweichi，nidexingfubuyinggaibeimaizangzaizheizhongbansibuhuodehunyinzhong。jirantaxianglikai，jiurangtalikai，jiduifangyigetimiandejieju。

 hunyinzhonglaogongbuaizijilezenmeban？ninaodeyuexiong，zhihuirangnixianrushanghai，duiyuzheiyangyigeduoqingdenanrenlaishuo，meiyoudaodekeyan，suoyi，zaitashenshanglangfeigengduodejinglishibuzhidede。

 yuqizheiyang，buruyonggandizuochujueding。nihunyindeshibaibushiyinweinibuzhide，ershiyinweizheigenanrenbuzhidaoruhezhenxita。dangnixiaosadilikaishi，nihuifaxiannideshenghuobujinjinshibicidekeneng。

二：想好退路

 nvrenduihunyinyoutaiduodeqidai，yidanjinruhunyin，jiuhuixuanzejiandingdixiangxin，danshi，zheiyangdemilianquewufadadongyigelengxuederen。

 xuduonanrenkeyigongkaiweibeitamenzuichudechengnuo，yuanyichengweihunyindebeipanzhe。tamendegaibianbuhuiyinweinidebaoliuergaibianzhuyi。buguannifuduoshaoqian，nidoubunengjizijiyigemanyideweilai。

yinci，ruguoyouyitian，nidezhangfubuaini，buyaojiuchan，xianghaotuilu，nihuifaxian，fangbuxia，yexuzhishixiguan。

 bijing，nideshenghuozhongyoutaiduodejiuchan。ruguonimenzaihunyinzhongguoyuyilaiduifang，dangnimenlikaishi，dulishenghuokenenghuichengweiyigewenti。raner，ruguoninengwanquanduli，nikeyiguoduandifangshou。

 zenmeshuozheizhongguanxibunengweichihenzhangshijian，erbushisijiuchanxiaohaozijidenengliang，zuihaokaolvchetui，rangzijizaiweilaideshenghuozhongyouyigejiandingdebaozheng，buyaokonghuang。

meiyourenlikaisheibunenghuo，tagufulenideshenqing，beiqilezijidechengnuo，zheiyangderenzhihuirangnixianrugengdadeshanghai。

 henduoshihou，zaicuowudeshijianyudaoduiderenshibukebimiandewudeshijianyudaocuowuderen，zheishibukebimiande。dangnifaxianqianmiandelubuzhisuocuo，qianmianderenwufaxinrenshi，jishihuitoukan！

 hunyinzhonglaogongbuaizijilezenmeban？shenghuozhongdemeiyigeshizilukoudouchongmanlexuanze。meiyigexuanzedouyunideshenghuoxingfuyouguan。youshihou，ruguonixuanzecuole，buyaoguzhidizouxiangheian。jishizhisunyeshiyigebucuodexuanze。