人到中年夫妻没有感情，夫妻长久的感情靠什么维持

 fuqizhangjiudeganqingkaoshenmeweichi？wangshangyouyigetebiegaoxiaodewenti：nannvzhijianyouchuncuideyouyima？wangyouhuida:shide，shiwohewolaogong。womenshizuihaodexiongdi，xiangyizhangbaizhiyiyangchunjie。

zhongnianfufudeshenghuozhuangkuang：huijiawuhuakeshuo，shangchuangwushikezuo。niwannideyouxi，woshuawodeshipin。

buguanzenyang，shenmeshidoutibuqixingqu，lianchaojiadoujuedeshiyizhongxiaohao。zhiyufuqishenghuo，zaoyipingjing。

suoyimeiyoufuqishenghuodebanlv，daodikaoshenmelaiweichihunyin？

第一：为了孩子和责任，始终坚持

性是一种身体生活，遵循幸福的原则；爱是一种精神生活，遵循理想的原则；婚姻是一种社会原则，遵循现实的原则。这是三件完全不同的事情。婚姻的困难在于如何统一同一个人。

shishishang，yaozaitongyigerenshenshangzhaodaozheisanzhongganjue，shifeichangkunnande。yinci，qizhijianwangwanghuiyoutongku。

 qizizhangqilengmo。lihunhouzaihun，tamenshengleyigehaizi。suirantadeshouruhenhao，keyiweihaiziheqizitigongyouyuedeshenghuo，dantajingchanggandaojusang。

tayizhixianglihun，danshiyinweihaizihaizaiduchuzhong，yizhizairennai。

 shishishang，duinanrenlaishuo，jiatingshenghuoyeshishenxinyuyuedeyibufen。suirantanuligongzuozhuanqian，bingshituweijiarentigonggaozhiliangdeshenghuo，dantarengranbuxihuanzijizhuanbudaozugoudeqian。

yiciyouyicizaoshoulengyuhedaji，xinmanmanbiandebingleng。

 meiyouhexiedefuqishenghuo，meiyougoutong，hunyinxianrulekepadejingdi。shenbianderenjizijidailaidebushigulihexinshang，ershiwuxiuzhidebiandihezhize。qishizhiyouyudaoguoderencaihuilijiezheizhongganjue。

tashuo：woxiangjieshuzheiduanganqingwushuci，danshixiangxiangnver，tabunengyouyigewanzhengdejia，wokaishixinruan。

 shishishang，nanrenhenvrendoushiyiyangde。yidannijiehunshengzi，nijiubunengquanshenertui。nizongshihuibeishiqingshufuzhu。mianduilibiezongshihennan，niyebuyuanyifangqiyiqie。weilegaisidezeren，jishizheiduanguanxideyiweichi，woyehuihaobuyouyu。

第二：爱情在婚姻中很难存在，大多数人只是依靠他们的习惯

youyigediaochashujuxianshi：qishizhenai，zhinengweichi12dao18geyue。zaizheiduanshijianli，lianggerenhuixiandehenenai：

jianbudaoduifang，huixiangnian。

tingbudaoduifangdeshengyin，jiuhuishiluo。

mobudaoduifang，ganjuehengudu。

zheizhongjiqingdeai，rangnitouyunmuxuan，juedezheigerenshinixiangyaoyibeizizouxiaqudeduixiang。

 yidanzheigejieduanjieshu，jiqingdeaijiuhuizhuanhuaweibicidepeiban。zheizhongganjuewangwangshiyizhongxiguan。nimenxiguanleyiqikandianshi，yiqisanbu，yiqishuijue。

jishifuqishenghuohenshao，yejuedemeiwenti。buguanzenyang，meiyitian，doumeiyoushenmebutong。

zuoshoumoyoushou，jiuxiangzijideshoumozijideshouyiyang。shentitiezaiyiqi，yebuzaiyouyuwang。

fuqizhangjiudeganqingkaoshenmeweichi？aiqingzhendecunzaima？weishenmewomenbuzaixiangyiqianneiyangshenaiduifang？

 meiyoujiqing，meiyouqidai，meiyoushenshendekewang。nianfuyinian，nimenxiguanlehuxianglaotaohepeiban。shenghuoshipingjingde，danworengranxuanzejixuxiaqu。

第三：靠近一点，也许可以彼此温暖

zhengzhengliangniandouzaizuoqingganzixun。qizhongyouyiweifensi，rangrentebiegandong。tayijing70duosuile。danrengranjiankang。

 lingyibanhetanianlingchabuduo，tamendefuqishenghuoyebuneimehexie。dangtadiyicizixunwoshi，wohenjingya。bijingzaizheigenianjitanneixindexiangfayeshiyijianhenbangdeshiqing。

tawenwo：weishenmelingyibankanqilaibuneimehuoyue？

 wojitafenxilejigenvrenbuzhudongdeyuanyin:yishitazaizheijianshishangconglaimeiyougandaoxingfu。dierdianshiyinweilianggerenderichangsuoshiyingxiangletamendexinqing。

zaineizhihou，tamanmandigaibian，gengwenroudimianduilingyiban，jiyuduifanggengduodeguanxinheguanhuai。

zheijitian，tagaosuwo，liangrenmanmanfangsong，bicizhijiandeguanxiyebijiaorongqia。

aibushiganjue，ershixingdong。

aishixingdong，shizhangjiudejianchi。zuishangshuoaiyigeren，queconglaimeiyouwenroudefuchu，neimezheizhongai，genbenbuzhiyiti。

 yiduizhongnianfuqi，shitongyitiaochuanshangdelianggeren。aiqinghuitunse，aiqinghuixiaoshi，dansuizheshijiandetuiyi，zhenzhengdegemingyouyi。

 renzainianqingdeshihou，juededaochudoushiren，bierendeshijiushinideshi，daolezhongnianyihou，caijuedeshijieshangchulejiarenshenmedoumeiyou。

 fuqizhangjiudeganqingkaoshenmeweichi？yinci，wulunnimendehunyinchuyushenmejieduan，mianshenmeyangdekunhuo，duoyidianwenrouheshanliang，yexujiunengjiejinduifang。