夫妻长久的感情靠什么维持，要懂得处理好这三个问题

 fuqizhangjiudeganqingkaoshenmeweichi？“bainianxiudetongzhoudu，qiannianxiudetongzhougongzhen”。zaimangmangrenhaizhong，nannvshuangfangdounengchengweifuqi，shiyizhongmodadeyuanfen，zheizhongyuanfenyaozhenxi。

 fuqizhijiandeganqingzaihao，yexuyaoyongxinquweichi。ruguobuzuoshengyi，henrongyichuwenti。yixiasangewentiwangwanghuiyingxiangfuqi“shashou”yaojiejuehao，fuqiguanxicaihuigengjiawending。

经济问题

 “keliandefuqibaishiaidao”hunyinzhongdezheijuhuashizhende。ruguoyigejiatingbuchulijingjiwenti，jiuhennanhuodexingfu。lianggerencongaiqingzouxianghunyin，yejiushiconglangmanzouxiangpingdandeguocheng。

 wulunganqingduomemeihao，yidanjiehun，womenyeyinggaikaishimianduisuosuideshenghuobixupin。ruguojingjizuodebuhao，zuizhongshenzhikenengchengweisancandewenti。yiduanzhengtiandanxinqiandehunyinzenmehuiyouzhiliangni？

 dangtamenxiangaishi，tamendourenweitamenyouzugoudeshui，bicidecaifubushiwenti。raner，zhidaojiehun，wocaituranyishidaowodangshidexiangfashiduomeyouzhi。

 kanguodianshilianxuju《woniuwu》derendouzhidao，tongjiaqianheliuyiyangdeguanxihenhao，danyouyujingjibujingqi，tamenhunhoufudanbuqigezhongfeiyong，biruhaizidenaifenqianhegezhongrenlichengben。tamenjingchangweigezhongshiqingzhengchao，zuihoutamendejiatingfenbenglixi。

 yinci，congmingrenzhidaoruhejiesuan。jisuannidexiaojiatingmeigeyueyouduoshaoshouru。ruguonideshourufudanbuqikaizhi，niyinggainuligaibianjingjizhuangkuang，zheiyangfuqiguanxijiubuhuibeijingjiyaliyakua。

 jiehunhou，nibunengzaisuiyihuaqianle。xiangfan，niyinggaizhidingyigehaodejihua，bingjieshengyixieqian。fouze，dangnixuyaoqianquenabudaoqianshi，nihuixianrufeichangbeidongdejingdi。

婆媳关系

ruguopoxiguanxichulibuhao，yehenrongyichengweihunyinzhongdedayishashou。poxiguanxiyizhinanyichuli，yehenpubian。

 poxiguanxiyexuyaomingyun。youxiepopoheerxibuxihuanduifang，danyouyuzhongzhongyuanyin，tamenbudebuzhuzaiyiqi。tongshi，banyanzhangfuheerzidenanrenjiuxiangsanmingzhibinggan。

 daduoshushihou，popoheerxizhijiandeguanxishibuduandiqiegehehunluan。zuihaodebanfashibaochishuangfangdejuli，jinliangbuyaozhuzaitongyigewuyanxia，zheiyangkeyijianshaohenduobubiyaodemaodun。

 nanrenzongshidigupoxiguanxideweihai，zongshiduipoxiguanximangmuzixin，zongshirenweiqizihemuqinkeyihemuxiangchu。dangshuangfangfashengchongtushi，tamenbuzhisuocuo。fuqizhangjiudeganqingkaoshenmeweichi？

 jiehunqian，wozhangfucengjingduiwoshuo：womuqinshiyigerongyixiangchuderen，nimendeguanxihuihenhao。tinglezheihua，woyefangsongle。chuhuyiliaodeshi，wobuzhidaoheyuemuzaiyiqiderizishiduomelingrenjusang。

 woyuemushiyigefeichangjianqiangdenvren。taxihuanguanlidongfanghexifang。tazongshixihuanjiaowozheigeheneige。ciwai，tayouqingjiedexiguan。zhiyaowozuoyidianbuganjingdedongzuo，woyuemujiuhuiqingbuzijindishuo。zaixiangchulejitianzhihou，woduiyuemushiqulehaogan，juedingbanchuqu。

yinci，nanrenqianwanbuyaoxiaokanpoxiguanxibuhaodeweihai，ruguochulibuhao，houhuanwuqiong。

异地问题

 lianggerenjiehun，jiushiweileyiqishenghuo。danshi，xianshizhong，henduofuqiyinweigongzuodenggezhongyuanyin，budebufenjuliangdi，chengweiyidifuqi。

 suiranbutongdedifangkeyidailaixinxiangan，danyeyouhenduoyinhuan。liru，ruguoyigenanrenheyigenvrenbunengrenshouqipiandeyouhuo，yinweishuangfangdeganqingshihuimiexingdedaji。

 liru，yinweibutongdedifang，gengshaodewenhou，gengshaodeguanxin，gengshaode，henrongyirangshuangfanggandaogudu，henzhangyiduanshijian，huiranglianggerendeganqingbiandeyuelaiyueruo。

yidiqinglv，zuihaobuyaojianmianchaoguoyigeyue，jishizainan，yeyaozengjiashuangfangjianmiandepinlv，zheiyangcainenggenghaodiweichiganqing。

 ruguonimenhenzhangshijianbujianmian，wulunfuqiguanxiyouduohao，tamendouhuizhujiandanhua，juededuifangyuelaiyuebuzhongyao。zheizhongganjuehenrongyipolie。ruguoyouhaizi，fumuzhongdeyifanghenzhangshijianbupeibanhaizi，zheiduihaizidechengzhangyefeichangbuli。

yaobushiwanbudeyi，fuqishuangfangjinliangbuyaoyidi，buyaorangshuangfanghuodexiangniulangzhinvyiyanglei，ganqinghaishiyaobaochihao。

 chuleshangshusangewentihuiyingxiangfuqiguanxiwai，haiyouqitayixiewentiyehuiduifuqiguanxichanshenghendadeyingxiang，birusaoziguanxi、ertongjiaoyudeng。

 fuqizhangjiudeganqingkaoshenmeweichi？zaizheigeshijieshang，meiyourennenglikairenheren。jingyinghunyinbingburongyi。nanrenhenvrendouyinggaizhenxizheilaizhibuyidemingyun，zheiyangjiatingcaihuiyuelaiyuehexie，ganqingcaihuiyuelaiyuehao。