老公沉迷游戏不愿沟通，婚姻要怎样经营才幸福

 hunyinyaozenyangjingyingcaixingfu？wozhangfuhewoyijingjiehunliangnianle。conglianaidaojiehun，shenzhizaiwomenhuaiyunzhiqian，womenxiangchudehenhao。womenmeitiandouyouhenduohuayaoshuo。wozhangfuxihuanwanyouxi，dantabuhuitingzhihewojiaoliu。tashenzhibawofangzaidiyiwei，peiwozuoyicichushengjiancha。meigerendourenweiwozhaodaoleyigeduiwohaoderen，bawowozaishouxinli。

 chuhuyiliaodeshi，ziconghaizichushengyilai，zhangfuyijinggaibianleyigeren。tayixiabanjiukeyiwanyouxi，zhidaobanyeyiliangdian，dantashenzhibudaosanfenzhongjiubaozhehaizi，buyuanyihonghaizipeihaizi。

 zhengtianchenjinzaiyouxishijieli，jihubuyujiarenjiaoliu，shenzhihenshaomeitianshuohua。ruguowoyoushenmeshiyaotabangmang，wobunengdadianhua。woshenzhiyaoqiutachifanhenzhangshijian。

 zhaoguhaizi，maiyifu，mainaifen，mainiaobu，dayimiao，anzhuangcanyi，maichuangbanchuang，chaizhuangyingerche……zheiyiqiedoushiwozuode。

 yinci，wobumanyi，jingchangbaoyuan，suoyidanghaizikule，xuyaotadebangzhushi，worenbuzhubutingdijiaota“kuaidian”huozhewentaweishenmebudaihaizi，weishenmezaijialishenmedoubushuo……yushi，wodeyuqijiuchengletakouzhongbuxiangjiaoliudeliyou！youyutaidubuhao，suoyibuxianghewojiaoliu。

zheigeyinguoguanxizhendehenshenqi！！nandaobushinidebiaoxianrangwozheimebaozaoma？

 xianzaishishenmezhuangtai？tadegongziquanbujiaole，xiabanhoubuluanwan，yebuhepengyoujuhui。yongtadehualaishuo，tazhiyouwanyouxideaihao，zongbichihedubohao。

 wobuquedingzheishifouwanquanshiyinweiyouxi。dangtahuijiashi，tayijuhuayebushuo。tamenwanquanchenmole。dangran，woshibeidongde，chenmode。kanzheta，woyizhizhulefenxiangdeyuwang，manmandi，wozhendebunengshuohuale！

 lianggerendehunyinjiuxiangyigeren。ruguoyigerenleile，taxinlijiumanzule。wojuedezheiyangdehunyinhenbuxingfu，meiyougoutong，meiyougoutong，chizaohuilihun。

 wodejiatingtiaojianbiwozhangfuhaodeduo，shenzhizaiwohuaiyunzhiqian，wodeshouruyebiwozhangfugaodeduo。jiuwaibiaoeryan，wopeideshangta，jinguantabingbuhuai。wofumuyikaishifandui，danwozhenderenweitaduiwohenhao，suoyiwobuguyiqiedijiajileta。wozhouweiderendouduiwogandaojingya“xiajia”。

suoyixianzaiwobuzhidaoruguotaduiwobuhao，wohaixiangdaoshenme。

zhendebumingbai，weishenmezhangfujiehunqianhouchajuzheimeda，zheishizenmehuishi？wogairuhegaibianxianzhuang？

 fuqixiangchu，hunqianhunhouchajuhenda，biaomianshangkanshihunyinzaochengde，sihuzaochengzheizhongqingkuangdehexinwentishizhangfuchenmiyuyouxi。

danshijishangchenmiyuyouxishibiaoxiang，qishizhifanyingdeshihunyinwenti。youxishijiezhishizhangfutaobizhenzhenghunyinwentidedongxue。

dangran，zhangfuchenmiyuyouxiyehuidaozhigengyanzhongdehunyinwenti，shiqichenmiyuyouxiyibimianwenti，xingchengexingxunhuan。

 ruguonixiangfangqizheiduanguanxi，zheidangranhenjiandan。danshiruguonizhendexuanzefangqi，nijiubuhuibeizheigewentikunrao。muqian，hunyinrengranrangnibuyuanyifangqi，huozhenibunengfangqinidemeili。

yaoxianggaishanguanxi，shouxianyaocongzijizuoyixienuli。

反思婚姻中存在的问题

zaihaizichushengzhiqian，zhangfuduinihenhao，goutonglianghao，huaiyunqijianpeiniquchanjian，zaihunyinzhongzhaoguni。

 nijuedezijibugufumudefandui，jianchi“xiajia”jita，yinweitaduinihao。chuletaduinihaozhiwai，tashenshangyidingyouyixieyouxiudepinzhi，xinggedeshanguangdianyexiyinleni。

 neimetaduiniyoushenmexiyinlini？zheixietezhenghuozhiliangjintianhaicunzaima？ruguotacunzai，nihaizhongshizheixiedongxima？ruguotabucunzai，weishenme？

 shishishang，nihuifaxian，wanyouxizheigeaihao，yiqianbingbuyingxiangnimendehunyinguanxi，neishinimenxiangchuyukuai，zhangfujiubanimenfangzaidiyiwei。

xianzaitawanquantaolileyouxi，buguni、haizihejiaren，weishenmehuiyanbianchengjintiandeqingkuang？

nikeyiquhuixiangyixia，fansiyixia，zheilimianyoutadewenti，birutaxihuantaobi，huibiwenti，danmenzijideyixiewenti。

1.haizidechushengjifuqiguanxidailailejudadetiaozhan

 danghaizichushengshi，congerrenshijiedaosanrenshijie，fuqizaikuailedetongshi，yemianlinzhejudadekaoyan。zuomuqinduinvrenlaishuoshihenzirandexingwei。

 xuduoxinshoumamabuzijuedibazhuyilijizhongzaihaizishenshang，hulvelezhangfu，cishinanrenwulunshiyouyishihaishiqianyishi，doukenenghuigandaoshiluo。

 fenmianhou，shentijisushuipingbodong、xinlibianhua、shehuijiaosebianhuadengyinsuyerongyidaozhiqingxubuwending。zaijiashangzhaoguhaizideshenxinpilao，nvxinggengkewangnanxingchengdanzeren，jizijihehaizigengduodezhaoguhepeiban。

 duiyunanxinglaishuo，henrongyichuxianshiyingzhangai。congxinlishangjiang，nanxingmeiyouhuaiyundejingyan，quefazugoudexinlijiansheshijian，yikaishijiuwufajinru“fuqin”zaixingweishang，zaizhaoguhaizideguochengzhong，youyuquefajingyan，kenenghuibiaoxiandeman、benzhuo、jinzhang、shengshu。

 youxieqizikanqilaihenjiaolv，renbuzhuzema、zhizehebaoyuan，zheizhihuirangnanrengengjiajusangheshiluo。zaibaoyuanhebumandeqifenzhong，nanrendeqingganxuqiumeiyoudedaomanzu，tamendejiazhibeifouding，tamengengrongyitaoliyouxishijiexunqiuanwei。

2.qizitaihaole，zhangfuchengshouzhejudadeyali

 zainiduizheigewentidemiaoshuzhong，nijuedenishi“xiajia”：nidejiatingtiaojianbinizhangfudehaodeduo。jishizainihuaiyunshengzizhihou，nideshouruyebuyayuta。yinci，zaihunyinzhong，nikenengyutabupingdeng，nichuyuzhudaodiwei。

 tongshi，womeiyoukandaoniduitayourenhexinshangherenke。chuletajinidexinshui，tadezhangfusihuyiwushichu，shiyigeduoyuderen——tashenzhimeiyouzuozhangfuhefuqindegongneng。

zheizhongchayidaozhilefuqiguanxidebupingheng。niyuanlaide“youxiu”，nide“youshi”fanerchengweifuqiguanxi“biduan”。

 hunyinyaozenyangjingyingcaixingfu？yinwei，zaichuantongdeqiangnanruonvyishideyingxiangxia，ruguoqizitaiyouxiu，fuchudeyueduo，zhangfuyifangmianyaochengshouhendadexinliyali，gandaozibeihebuan，lingyifangmianyougandaoshiquzunyan，zaijialikeyoukewu，meiyoucunzaiganhejiazhigan。

当丈夫无法解决问题时，很容易逃避问题

diyi，kandaoduifangdeshanguangdian，weizhangfuzaijiatingzhongzhaodaojiazhiganchuangzaojihui

 renleidebennengshizhuiqiuxingfutaobitongku。ruguozhangfuzaihunyinzhonggandaotongkuhebeishang，bingqiezaiyouxizhonggandaoqingsonghekuaile，tadangrangengxihuanwanyouxi。

 jiaruzaixianshishenghuozhong，zaipeibanqierdeguochengzhong，tanengzhaodaozijidejiazhiheyiyi，bingqiegandaoxingfu，tahuigengyuanyipeibanjiaren。

 shishishang，yigerendeyoudianhequedianshixiangduiwendingdexinggetezheng。muqian，tadezhangfurengranyouyoushi。raner，youyutadehuibihechenmiyuyouxi，nizaizheigejieduanfangdaletadequedian，fourenletazijidejiazhi。

suoyi，zuoweiqizi，shouxianyaoxuehuizhenzhengxinshangherentongzhangfudeyoudian，gengjiakendingheganxietaduijiatingdefengxian。

 dier，diaozhengnidesixiang，gengtitienidezhangfu。zaicanyuyuerdeguochengzhong，tabukebimiandihuigandaojinzhanghebushuxi。qizikeyizixidiyindaohetixing，xuehuibiaoxianruanruo，chuangzaojihuiyaoqiuzhangfucanyufuyanghaizi，rangtazhanshizijidenengli。

 ciwai，xinshoumamazaizhaoguhaizideguochengzhong，yebuyaowangjiguanzhuzhangfudeqingxuheganshou。rangzhangfuganshoudaoniduitadexuyaoheguanzhu。

 dangtazaijiatingzhongzhaodaoyizhongcunzaigan、jiazhiganhechengjiuganshi，takeyizaiyuqizihehaizidehudongzhongganshoudaokuailehekuaile，bingxiangshouta，zheiziranhuizengjiatadereqing。tazaiyouxizhongtaobideshijianhejinglihuimanmanzhuanyidaotadejiating，zheiyangtadeqizijiukeyifangsongle。

disan，xuexiruheguanlihunyin，yindaozhangfujianfuqizuofuqin、zuozhangfudezeren

 zhuiruaihehejiehunshiliangmashi。hunyinxuyaoguanli。dangtamenxiangaishi，tamenyuanyiweiaifuchudaijia，zheishidetamengengrongyikandaobicideyoushiheliangdian；dangnizaihunyinzhongmoheshi，nixuyaoweizijiheduifangdeguanxifuchudaijia，zheiyangguanxicainengpingheng。

 zaifuqiguanximoshizhong，qizirongyijiaolv，erzhangfuxihuanbimian。ruheyuzheizhongjiaolvhehuibidetedianxiangchu，ruhezuohaojiaolvfangdexinlijianshe，baochilengjinghelianghaodetaidu，jianliyizhongshiheheshushidexiangchufangshi，zheishinixuyaoxuexide。

 hunyinyaozenyangjingyingcaixingfu？tebieshizai“nvqiangnanruo”zaijiatingguanxizhong，dangtagandaozibeishi，niruherangtachengweijiatingdezhizhu，rangtachengdanqizuozhangfuhefuqindezeren，diaodongtadeshimingganhezerenganlaiguanlihunyin，baohuni，zhaoguhaizi？niyekeyitongguogerenchengzhanglaixuexi，ranhoutongguonidechengzhanghegaibianlaiyindaotadechengzhang。