婚姻要怎样经营才幸福，女人做好这几点

 hunyinyaozenyangjingyingcaixingfu？nvrenjinruhunyinhou，duihunyinzongshichongmanlemeihaodeqidai。xiwanggenzijishenaideneigeren，congcitiantianmimi，xieshouyisheng。keshi，hunyinconglaibushiyijianrongyideshi，tashijishiniandechaoxixiangchu。zonghuiyouyixiekekebanban，huozheyixienanyimaiguoqudekan，ranghunyinwufazaijixu，shenzhizoudaoleyaofenkaidebianyuan。

 zaizheizhongqingxingzhixianihuifaxian，hunyindaijinidejiannanyuelaiyueduo，erniyeyuelaiyuemimang。huozheshuoduihunyinyouleshiwangzhiqing，buzhidaogaizenmewangxiaguo。

qishi，nvrenyaoxianghunyinxingfu，bunengzhiwangnanren，ershiyaozuodaoyixiajidian。

neimewulunyudaoshenmeqingkuang，dounengdudangyimian，bahunyinjingyingdedishuibulou，jiangshenghuoguodeyouziyouwei。

能力

nvrenyaoshizhongyongyouzhengqiandenengli，cainengyongyouzizhuquanhexuanzequan。

 nvrenzhanzaishishangbunengshouwucuntie。nvrenkeyibazhongxinfangzaijiatingdangzhong，danshibunengdiushizijidedulixing，gengbunengdiushizijinengzhuanqiandenengli。

 “ziyou、congrong、danding、youyadouyuanziduli。dulirangnibuyifubieren、bukongjuweilai，shiniyongyuanshouyongbujindediqi。”

zaixianshishenghuozhong，henduonvrenyinweiqiandeguanxi，zaihunyinzhongshoujinweiqu。

tamenyinweimeiqianzaijialibeizhangfuxianqi，yaokangongpolengyan，jiusuanfujiaduitamenzaibuhao，queyemeiyouyongqilikai。

dianshiju《huijiadeyouhuo》li，linpinrujiajihongshixianhou，jiejinsuonengdizuogexianhuiqizi。

tameitianqizaotanhei，dalijiawu，zhaoguzhangfu，sihougongpo，weiyijialaoxiaozuofancai，queyirandebudaogongpodezunzhong。

hongshixianjiqijiaren，jiumeiyoujianglinpinrudangzuojialirenkanguo，tamencongshizhizhongzhishibatafangdaoleyige“bangyong”deweizhi。

tamenxianqilinpinruniangjiameiqian，erlinpinruzijiyebunengzhengqian，gongpoyinweitaqiongmeibenshi，conglaidoukanbuqita。

 daolehoulai，huilaifuchoudelinpinru，huaminggaoshanshan，jiajinhongjia。hongshixianfumujiusuanduitayouzaiduobuman，yeconglaibuganjitaliansekan。

beihoudeyuanyinqishishijiandan——gaoshanshandemayouqian，gaoshanshanzijiyeyouqian。

 shirenbudebumianduideyigezhaxinshishijiushi：yuexinsanqiandenvren，tongyuexinsanwandenvren，zaipojiashoudaodedaiyu，neizhendebuyiyang，shenzhitianrangzhibie。

不要太在乎其他人的眼光，学会做自己

“guanyutarendeyanguang，jiushixiaosa，meiyoubanfa。”

zhongguorendexingfushibijiaochulaide，erfeixinzhongzuizhenshideshengyinhexiangfa。

 hunyinyaozenyangjingyingcaixingfu？xiaoshihouhepengyoubisheiyoukaoleyibaifen，zhangdalebisheijialegehaolaogong，zaiyiciyouyicidebijiaoguohoubaixiazhenlaideni，huijiahoujuedeshenghuoshishidouburuyi，jiezhenijiuhuibazheixieyuanniandairujiating。

 nizeguaizhangfubushangjin，jibulenixiangyaodeshenghuo。erwoxiangwenni，niyizhidouzhidaozijixiangyaodeshenghuozhangshenmeyangzima？qishinibuzhidao，yinweiniyongyuanhuozaibierendeyanguangxia，rujinnixiangdedaodedongxi，bingfeinixihuan，ershizheigeshijiexihuan。

 nvrendaolezhongnian，yinggaixuehuizhizu，bingxuehuizuoziji，mingbaizijixiangyaodeshishenme，erbushibuduanzhuixunbierenxiangyaodedongxi，qishidedaoxingfutebiejiandan，zaipingfansuosuideshenghuozhong，yaoxuehuizhenglixingfu，yexutajileniyigewen，yexutaweinizuoledunfengshengwancan，zheixieshi，dounengrangrenyouxingfugan。

控制自己的情绪，学会理解和体谅

 yigenvrenzuidadebukuaile，yuanyudandiaoshenghuodehaichu，shiquleduishenghuodereqing，huigandaopibeibukan，tongshisixiangyehuibianderongyijianghua。

 zaiwodejiyili，yourenpiqihuobao，mingmingduifangshiweizijihao，zhichuzijidecuowu，dantaqueconglaidoutingbujinqu，erqiehaihuiduireneyuxiangxiang，binglvexiantanrandeshuozijijiushizheiyangderen，bushiyouyizheimeshuode。

 nvrenzaizhongniandehunyinjieduan，yijingjinglilehenduoshiqing，buyaohaixiangxiaohaiziyibanquchuliwenti，zaikaolvzijideshihou，buyaowangjilijiehetiliangbieren，dangnidexintaibaochipinghe，buzaixiangcongqianyiyang，nihuifaxianshishibingbushibukejiejue。

 nibushibukegaibian，shicongweiduizijihenguoxin，zhiyaoshaoshaobizijiyixia，kongzhihaozijideqingxu，cainengrangxingfukaichuhualai。

nvrenzhangdepiaoliangdingduosuangeyoushi，nenghuodepiaoliangcaishizhenzhengdebenshi，zhidepeifu。

 hunyinyaozenyangjingyingcaixingfu？zaihunyinzhong，nvrenruguonengzuodaoyishangzheijidiandehua，dingnengjiangzijideshenghuoguochengyidaomeilidefengjing，congrongdizouguorenshengdechunxiayuqiudong。