renbukenengyongyuanchuzaihaoqingxuzhizhong,shenghuozhongjiranyoucuozhe、youfannao,jiuhuiyouxiaojideqingxu。yigexintaichengshuderen,bushimeiyouxiaojiqingxuderen,ershishanyudiaojiehekongzhizijiqingxuderen。neime,ruheyunqingxuni?
其实快乐与悲伤只有一丝之距。处理情绪的办法有很多,保持观照是最重要也最关键。大部份人的困惑和痛苦都是没有觉知,看不清自己,摸不透别人,所以迷乱不安。但观照自己也是最难做到的,因为自我比天大,你难于放下,变得谦虚。也因为我们不懂收心养性,寻找能静下来的方法。负面情绪的源头可以是负面经验,同样也可以说是负面的惯性,勾起你负面经验的事端只是借来的催化剂而已。如何无情绪?若情绪超越了自己能控制的范围,的方法不是释放或是压抑,而是无为而为,学习先定心,因为,负面能量太大时,胡乱释放出来的话可能连自己也承受不起,也容易影响别人。
yayishiwanwanbuneng,yinweiwentideyuantouzhengshiyayisuozhi。xinluanxuxiandingxin,kanhuqingxu,burentong,bupanduan,rangtachuxian,baganjuefangzaixindeweizhi,guantayanhaiyoulei,huxihaihenluan。xinshideqingxukongzhizhongxin,yaowendingqingxubixucongxinkaishi,xuexidingxindefangfa。zhiyufangfa,meigerendekaozijixunzhao。famenyouhenduohenduo,guanjianbuzaifa,erzainideyongxin,heyiyuan。ruhewuqingxu?xiangxinzijiyounenglihuochuqu,haikuotiankong。xiuxinzhilurenrenbutong,buyongbijiao,zijishanglujiushile。。
ruheyunqingxu?womenyaozuohuiqingxudezhuren,jujueshoukong。qingxubingbudengtongshijian。shiqingxudonglehehuaile,bingbushishijiandebenshen。womenjiushigaobuqingchu,rentonglewojiushineigeqingxuzhuangtaidequanbu,zitaokuchi,taohaoqingxuhechongdong,queshiquleziji。
转移情绪。人生的道路崎岖不平,坎坎坷坷,难免有挫折和失误,也少不了烦恼和苦闷。此时此刻,应迅速把注意力转移到别的方面去。比如有时碰到不顺心的事情或在家中与亲属发生争吵,不妨暂时离开一下现场,换个环境,或者同别人去侃大山,或者参加一些文体活动,娱乐娱乐。这样很快就会把原来的不良情绪冲淡以至赶走,而重新恢复心情的平静和稳定。
一、如何情绪好
chongjingweilai。zhuiqiumeihaodeweilaishirendetianxing,yeshirenleishengcunheshehuijinbudedongli。zhiyoujingchangchongjingmeihaodeweilai,cainengshizhongbaochifenfajinqudejingshenzhuangtai。buguanmingyunbazijipaoxianghefang,douyinggaitairanchuzhi。buguanxianshiruhecanku,douyinggaishizhongxiangxinkunnanjijiangkefu,shuguangjiuzaiqiantou,xiangxinweilaihuigengjiameihao。
向人倾诉。心情不快却闷着不说会闷出病来,有了苦闷应学会向人倾诉的方法。首先可以向朋友倾诉,这就需要先学会广交朋友。如果经常防范着别人的“侵害”而不交朋友,也就无愉快可谈。没有朋友的话,不仅遇到难事无人相助,也无法找到可一吐为快的对象。把心中的苦处能和盘倒给知心人并能得到安慰甚至计谋的人,心胸自然会像打开了一扇门一样明朗。除此之外,我们可以向亲人倾诉,学会把心中的委屈和不快倾诉给他们,也常会使心境立即由阴转晴。
tuokuanxingqu。xingqushibaohulianghaodexintaizhuangtaidezhongyaotiaojian。rendexingquyueguangfan,shiyingnenglijiuyueqiang,xintaiyalijiuyuexiao。biru,tongyangshiconglingdaogangweishangtuixialai,youderenjuedewusuoshishi,henrongyichanshengwuyong、beiyiqidengshiluogan。eryouderenzejuedetuixialaihouwuguanyishenqing,keyichongfenliyongzheixieshijiankanshu、xiezi、chuangzuo、huihua、danqin、wujian、yangniao、diaoyu、zhonghuadengdeng。zongzhi,xingquyueguangfan,shenghuoyuefengfu、yuechongshi、yueyouhuoli,nihuijuedeshenghuozhongchuchuchongmanyangguang。
kuanyidairen。ruheqingxuhao?renyurenzhijianzongmianbuleyouzheiyanghuoneiyangdemaodunshizhijian,pengyouzhijianyenanmianyouzhengchao、youjiuge。zhiyaobushidadeyuanzewenti,yinggaiyurenweishan,kuandaweihuai。juebunengyouliburangren,wulizhengsanfen,gengbuyaoweiyixiejimaosuanpidexiaoshizhengdelianhongbozicu,shenzhiquanjiaoxiangjia,shangleheqi。yinggaiyouneizhong“heshifenzhengyijiaoqiang,rangtajichiyewufang,zhangchengwanlijinyouzai,bujiandangnianqinshihuang”debodaxionghuaihegaofengliangjie。
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