我在花镇购买了感情咨询服务，如何在无话可说的时候开始一段对话

 tiqianzhunbeihetarendiyicihuihua，wozaihuazhengoumaileganqingzixunfuwu，huoshihuihuashihurangaliao，meiyouhuashuo，shilingrenjuedeyalihendadeyijianshi。xiangyaozhidaogaliaodeqingkuangxiagaizenmezaicijiaotan，jiuxiangxiayueduba。

1、谈一谈周边的自然环境。

 huangusizhou，kanyixiayoumeiyoushenmetebiezhuyidediqu。liru：“zhijianfanghaitingpiaoliangdema。”“tingwennajiafandiandecaihenhaochi。”“fengjingfeichanghao!”“kan，neizhigouhaomeng。”

2、问另一方敞开式的难题。

 dabufenrenrezhongtaolunhezishenxiangguandeshier。xianglingyifangtichangkaishidenanti，nenggouzuodaozengjiahuihuadeshijixiaoguo。shenmejiaochangkaishidenantini?kaifangshiwentiyibandaiyou“shei”、“heshi”、“naxie”、“weihe”、“zainaer”、“ruhe”dengyiwenci，neiyanglingyifanghuiyingkaifangshiwentishi，guangshuo“dui”huo“bingbushi”buzude，yeyaoshijibiaoshuhuida。hekaifangshiwentifanguolai，fengbishiwentidehuidayibanjinyou“dui”、“budui”neiyangde。

 •fengbishiwentijulishuoming：“nixiaiqukanshuma?”“niquguozheisuogaoxiaoma?”“nizuixihuandeshichunjima?”“woshibushihentaoyan?”

 •kaifangshiwentijulishuoming：“nixiainayangshu”?“niyizhizaidaxueshangshenmeke?”“nizuiainayigeshijiea?weishenmeni?”“rujinnizaiganshani?”“nidediannaoshangnaqule?”

3、把第一步中提及的评价和开放式问题融合起來。

 dulishuoyiduanpingjiahuoshidulitiyigekaifangshiwentihenyoukenenghuiranglingyifangganjueyoudianernankan，huoshilingrenganjueyoudianerhanhanhuhu，bazheierzherongheqilaishizuihaoshidezuofa。jugeshili：

 •“zheishoulindaizhenhaokan。nalimaide?”suihouzhengqueyindaolingyifang(jishoulindaidezhurenjia)taolunzishenmaishoulindaidequanguocheng，shundainenggouliaoyiliaojiaoyiguochengzhongdeyouqudeshi，erbushijianyipingjia：“nizheishoulindaiwohenxihuan!”“ganxie。”(meihuale╮(￣▽￣)╭)

 •“taimeiweile!nijuedenazhongcainizuiai?”lejielingyifangdeniantoushihenyouxiaodeyizhao，youyuyihouniyejiunenggoujiehaojingdiandekaifangshiwenti：“weishenmeni?”

•“jinrizhuantijiangzuobaomingcanjiazongshukezhenduoa!nizuiainayigezhuanjiajiaoshou?”

•“a，zheigetushudianyinweiwochangchanglai，nixiaikanshenmeshu?”

4、问和另一方的小宠物相关的难题。

 jibian shiyunizuimeiyouhuatideren，tidaozijikeaidexiaodongwuhuanshikankanertande。jiarunixiaigeshigeyangdexiaodongwu，jiufeichangrongyihexihaoxiaodongwuderenyouxiangjiao，wuluntaxihuandeshixiaochongwugou，huanshixiaiyangniaoyangma，huoshibiededexiaodongwu，douyiyang。wozaihuazhengoumaileganqingzixunfuwu，tanzishendexiaochongwuduimouxiereneryanhenyoukenengtefanren，danninengxiangfan，wenyiwenlingyifangdemengchongdeshi，ranglingyifangchangkaixinfei，xiangyouyunijiaotandekuaile。

5、谈一谈最近的新闻时事。

 henyoukenengnixuyaotandeneironglingyifangyezaoyilejie，danshijiarulingyifangtingdoumeitingguo，neibianshiyigehaohuatitaolunle!duokankanduoduxinwenbaodao，yurenjiaotandeqingkuangxiajiukeyineiyang：“ei，zhiqiandajiaqulvxingdeneidifang，youzhishengjidiaoxiaqule。”“wa，bingbushiqueshiba?”

6、再次讨论之前谈过的內容。

 jiaruniyiwanghelingyifangjiaotanguo，jiuzainaohaizhonglihuiyiyixiazhiqianjiaotandeneirong，xuanyigecicizaicitan。lirulingyifangjiazhongxiaohaihuodedezihaokaoshichengji，lirulingyifangrujinzhengzuodexinxiangmu，huoshiliruzhiqianlingyifangduinishuodeehaozheixie。helingyifangtidaojiuhuatitaolun，budannenggoubaituogaliao，hainenggouranglingyifangganjueniduitamenchongzugaoduzhongshi，duiyiwangtaolundehuatitaolunnenggouhuisaziru。

7、问的难题要非常容易回应才好。

 youdenanti，liru“nizheilibaitianyoushafangana?”neiyangde，yaomashangzuodashiyouyidingnanduxishude，nihenyoukenenghuiganjue“wolibaitianhaibuyuanyounaxiefanganni……libaitiangaogaoxingxingjiuhaole，bixudingnaxiefanganma?”daduoshurengengxihuanhuiyingjianyidenanti，liru“jinrinitiqianzhunbeiganmaya?”“jinqiyuanxiaokechengshifouduodejinikuaichuanbuguoqile?”wenbijiaojiandandenanti，nenggourangduihuajindudegengchenggong，ranglingyifangjuedegengshifangyalishufu。

8、要细心考虑到另一方的体会。