夫妻缺乏安全感怎么改善

　　fuqiquefaanquanganzenmegaishan，qinaidashuyou，dajiahao!jintianjidajialiaodeshiyigenanrenzaihunyinshenghuozhongbixumianduidezhongyaogongzuo——jixifuanquanganxinlai。zheilianggeguanjiancikanqilaijiandan，qishineirongfengfu，jiexialaiwomenjiangyiqitantaozheiyihuatidefangfangmianmian。

　　zuixian，womenyiqilaijiexiyixia“guishugan”。anquanganjiushiyigegerenganshou，tayuanyudajiaduiwaijiezheigeshijiedeyucehecaokong。zaihunyinshenghuozhong，qizideanquanganlaiziyutaduizijideyuduizheiduanganqingderenke。jiandandeshuo，nidexingweihexingweirangtagandaofangxin、anwen，tabianhenyouanquangan。

　　neiyang，“xinlai”shishenmeyangdeni?xinlaidoushijiyubicixianghuxinrenyuzunzhongdejichuzhishang。zaihunyinshenghuozhong，xifuduinidexinrenqujueyushibushichengxin、chengxin、youzerengan。tawoxiangxinniburongyipanbianta，huizhaoguduifangdeganshou，nengweitazaojiuyigeanquan、xingfudejia。

　　fuqiquefaanquanganzenmegaishan，neiyang，zenyangjixifuanquanganxinlaini?yixiashiyixietiyi：

　　1.zhenchenggoutongjiaoliu：helaopochangtongdegoutongdefangshi，yudaokunnanzhudonggoutong，fangzhixiaomaobingzhuanbianchengdafenqi。yucitongshi，yaobiaodaleduitazunzhongyulijie，rangtaganshoudaoniguanxinzhichi。

　　2.weichichengshishouxin：zaihunyinshenghuozhong，chengshishouxinshichuangjianxinrendeqianti。bixuzuodaoyanxingyizhi，busuibianfuwuchengnuo，danzuochuchengnuojiuxuyaojiejinquanlidao。

　　3.zerengan：xuyouzerengan，jinzuidadenulilaiweihujiatingdehexiehexingfu。ranglaopolejie，niyongyudandang、yousuozuowei，keyigongtongfuzejiatingyali。

　　4.zhuzhongxijie：guanxinshenghuozhongdediandiandidixiaoxijie，lirujilaotadeshengri、liunianridengguanjianrizi，zheixiedoukeyiranglaopojuedebeiaigenbeizhongshi。

　　5.buduanjinqu：buduanshiyinghelijiehunyinlidezhuanbian，yitongmianduishenghuokaoyan。ranglaopolejie，ninyoudanliangmianduishenghuozhongdeyiqie，xiangyaohetaxieshoutongxing。

　　zuizhong，xiamianwomenjiulaizongjieyixia。jixifuanquanganxinlaishiyigenanrenzaihunyinshenghuozhongdezhongyaogongzuo。genjuzhenchenggoutongjiaoliu、weichichengshishouxin、youzerengan、zhuzhongxijiehebuduanjinqudengxingshi，womennenggoujianqinonghoudefuqiganqing，ranghunyinzhishuxiangyang。