婚姻感悟 妻子拿下丈夫六个時刻

婚姻是什么? 对心仪的人表述情意不仅仅男人的支配权，做为女性，你还可以做得很美。但是掌握最佳时机才算是最关键的。如果“现身”不足立即，也许是白奢侈浪费情感;假如“出场率”太高，又他会见惯不惊。在何时采用积极，这要靠聪慧的你灵活应变。

1、当他“失算”时

hanshengmianlinyigezhongtedatiaoxuan：xiangzuozou，guanyunshunchang，zaiaoyinianbanzai，guanzhizhengchu;xiangyouzou，penyouzhaohuanjiamengdaili，danshayidanweifuzuo，nianshouruyufengxianxingtongyanggao。hequhecongzuoyouweinan，xuanzemiwang。hunyinshishenme?niyounaxiehunyinganwu?

yezhikanjianzhangfudiaonan，quemeiyouweita“hongtubaye”，tayihaikuotiankongdechangtaihuabiaodaleduizhangfujiaodadexinlaihelejie，tayaorangzhangfuganjue，“tiaoxuan”zishen jiushishuoyishizhuxingdeyizhongfangshi。

zheiyitiantaiwanle，hanshengshuibuzhejue，zhanqidaoshenghuoyangtaixiyan。yezhiweitasongchapiyi，hanshengwen：“jiaruweiguan，youjianghuisipingbawenquefapoli;jiaruzuoshengyi，jianghuishuchengqiongren。

zheibutong，nikeyinajia?”yezhishuo：“zuoshenmebingbushiguanjian，guanjiandejiushinibenshen。wulunruhe，wohaijianrongni。”diertianxinglaihou，fajuezaofanzhuoziheniuru、tusimianbaoyiqiyazheyezhideliuyanbanliuyan：diyi，zhixianghaodeyimian。dier，xuehuifangxia。hanshengzuihoujinrule，yinianhoubianchenghuanbaozhuangshicailiaoxingyedexianfengrenwu。

dantabeiyezhidianhuadexinzishizhizhongjizhe，dangtachuzairenshengdaoludeshizilukoushi，shiqiziweitaninghuiliangxingyuzhidejiaotongxinhaodeng。

pingjia：zainanrenhanhubuqing、youyouyuyu、jintuiweigudezuoyouweinanzhishi，nvxingdeguliyousiliangboqianjinzhizuoyong。shijishanghanshengzaiqianyishizhongzhongxianyoulezishendejuece，dantabixubuduan、caiyilairenzhengqiqiadangshifou，erhuodeqiziyezhidedianbo，haowuyiwenshijiletaliboqianjundebiandalededongneng。

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2、当他“失语”时

sunjuntaoyoushuodahuadewenti，naizhinenggouqiangguobushedixugouchudaqiantianhenikesonggonggongjinwucandexinwenbaodao。bengguanzheibuzhenzheng，dahuoerlejietajinjinyibianzhaolezi，sheiyeburongyihetajiaozhener。

youyitianjiaposhihou，sunjuntaoyougujizhongyan，nayimeijiajinglianhonglaopopokaixin，chengzuojinzi，meixiangdaojiangfapiaoluozaituli，laopopoyanjian，suishoushiqiyiqiao，lele：“zheichouxiaozi，daxiaojiuxihuanhongwo，rujinhaibianxiahua?”sunjuntaoxinlibushufu，lusique“kuajiang”shuo，naer，tabuyongshuohuanghuade，qishidouningaoxingma……

pingjia：nanrendahua，qianpianyilvquanshihaogaowuyuanzhixurongbaipu，ke“shiyuchengxing”shi，gengshinvxingmiaoshoupohuozhiji，zhongyaoshilusiconglaibuchuochuan，tahuishunganpafengding，xiabuquzaidibaruanti，jiwushiqingmian，youyizhenjianxue，zaitahuibaobeiguaiguaidiqieshiluoshi。

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3、当他“失察”时

jinjunzhizhenxiniquleyigehaolaopo，ninidedaqi、haokan、caikeyibansuizhejiehunhoudeshenghuodejinxinggengtahuilingyanxiangkan。buguanzaijiazhong，huanshizaiwaibian，ninidouyangyangxingxing。jinjunzhixinqingyukuaixianxia，youfajueninidouhuibushishijidizhanshichugengtahuichayideyoushihuozhuanzhang。

jinjunzhiyixiangzishiweidiannaogaoshou，zheijitiantayijingshejifanganfanzadegerenzhongxin，baozhengyibanshi，tatingdeyiwangxing，xiangninixianbai。ninikuatayiliangju，quezaisuibianzhongjianjianquanlejigeribendongmanshijixiaoguo，shuizhunxianzhuzaitazhizhong。jinjunzhimudengkoudai：“heshiyeyouzheiyishou?”

pingjia：ninidemiaochuqujueyujizhangfubuduanyiwaijingxi，buyinlingli、yafuqusheng，shudubawodehenjishi，zheijiushishuo：zaiweizhangfulaizhuxingshixuezhongsongtan，tahuigaoqingchu，shijishangwobiniyiliaodehaixing，gengqiang。

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4、当他“失帧”时

hongyouguogaokuanbipengzhangdefachunqi，jinyibushibufu，tuiyibushiziyiweishi，qishiyixiegerenganjuetaiguoyouliang。youyu2~3pianxueweilunwenzoushanglequanweiqikan、jihuizhichengpingdingshengzhiyilutongguan，tabianyixiejiaoaozimanqilai。liuxinshigejinxiaoshenweideqizi，duizhangfuzheibanlengaomianbuleyoulv。

youyici，tahezhangfuyiqizaichufangzhufan，dahoudajiaodihaipashayu，zhangfuduofangbuhuilaidao：“rangkai，yeyoubiwoniude?”liuxinyangzhuangjingjushuo：“zheiyutexiongmeng，butaihaonong。”

hongdoushidiyicishayu，ziyiweishixiaocaiyidie，danqixianzhuabudao，daozhenshixiaxiaodaoshiliangshoufadou，kaiguotangdeyufeiermeisi，shangcuanxiatiao。honglangbeibukanzhizhi，shouli、shoushangjianmanwuxue，rengxiashuiguodaotaoli。

yifanxiazhetengchulai，liuxinbiangualinpianbianshuo：“zhangfu，yeyounigaobudiandeshi?”hongyizhuangbukeyishi：“heng，taniu，yeyoubitagengniude。”

liuxinnairenxunweidida：“duia，sheidoubieniuguodule，shanwaiyoushan，tianwaiyoutianma。”hongyileng，banshangmeihua，shayudequanguochengbianchengxuelinlinderenshengdaoluquanyu……

pingjia：zigu“shagouquanfu”dexijubiaoyan，liuxinjinjinmingzhengyanshundiquanjiezhangfushoulianxingguangmang。nanrenzaidingfengshifeichangrongyixingbianshizhen，shuobailejiaoaoziman，bijiehouyizheng。liuxinzhishayuyizhaokanqilaijidongrenxin，shijishangyihuankouyihuan，mudexingjiqiang，zai“canburendu”dejingyanjiaoxunzhongdiandaoweizhi，buyongchouzhangfu“wuwang”。

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5、当他“分手后”时

anjieshiyijiaqiyedeyewujingli，lianaidingdanxinxishengchanliangdeshuipingbuxunyudangchuyaoqiulishadezhuanxinzhizhi、zhizhe。lishashuo，gongzuoshitade“cilian”，shitadedierganqingjiyu。genghekuangtaxiaoshouyejiyixiangaoren，shouyihebuweijiejiegaobiaosheng。danzhaoliaojiashaoyoushulanzhilv。

 zheiyuqishuoshiquexian，daoburushuoshiqudechenggongzhuangdian。keshizheiyiduanshijian，anjiequejuede“fenshouhou”le—qixiangukehuiyue，zaishijizhuangzuoshengyibuduanshibai，zaijiazaiqiyederenshidiaozhengzhongbeilinshichenmei，yizhongmingxiandeyucuoganlinganjiexinqingdiluo。

lishafenpeileyiciguoshengriyanhui、2ciduantulvxing，lingjiahepenyouyiqishangtiyuguankaizhanrenaofeifandeyumaoqiu、youyongbisai……zaibulushengsezhongjian，lishazhuyaobiaoxiandeduizhangfuzaishenghuozhonggengyikao、zaigongzuonenglishanggengqinpei，zhangfubeitagoujiandekaixinqiaowushengxizhanfule，ziwofansishuo：“jiazhongherentiyiyangzuigaitebieguanxin，xifuderenzhen，wofule。

pingjia：anjiedeqingkuangzainanrenzhongpubianxianxiang，lishadegaomingshijinshangtianhuashidezhuai。liaodaozhongdezhangfuzuimingan，chudongtadenengliangbianfenwaimiren，lingwai，qianyita“fenshouhou”deshiye，jitamengoujiangongzuoyaliyiwaideqingsongganhemanzugan，yegengshidadongqiruanzhudefangshi。

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6、当他“失灵”时

anannianguosanshi，zhujiandaijuanlepingjingdeshiri，xingziyitiantianjianzhang，kanshadouxinbuzaiyan。cicipeiqizihuitingyinlehui，chumenzaiwaiweizhuzhaixiaoquyizhanbufaliangdedaoluludengfandigu，dadeshixianjiashiyuanfangdegequzaoza……quanbuyeliquanshiyouxiefenmen，xiehuo“nu”ran。

anshuohuidexinqinghaoyizaosunhuai，dantaquchuhongxiaohaizidexixin，peitayiqi“daoluan”，zhangfushuoyiju，tatianjiju。zhizhijinlejiamenkou，anantongchidamenkoudezhaomingdengjudianyuankaiguanfangdetaigao，huizeguoduanyangzhuang“fapiqi”，shuomingrijiuzhaogerenchaiqiangchaizhuangzhongzouluxian。

zhangfuyileng，wen：“jinineimebukaixinma?”huiyixiao：“danfannibukaixinde，shiwoyaodadaode。”zhangfudongle，qizidanshishiyiqirenzhidaohaizhiqirenzhisheneryi。dazheiciyanzouhuihou，anantishigailiuyiguanlizijile。

pingjia：nanrenyoushihouhuixiangxiaohaiyiyangjiaozong，anandanshishizai“fadia”bale，huibaorongdipeitawanguojiajiayouxide“fahuo”shoujiyouxi，weizhangfude“shiling”shengchanzhizaocaizhadechadian。rutongyiluhengchongdeshunfengche，tazhaodaoyouxutuijindejiansuji，zhangfudeganhuojianxi。niyounaxiehunyinganwu?

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