婚姻感悟 你总算具有了婚姻幸福快乐的能力

婚姻是什么? 最幸福的婚姻，是取决于彼此发展趋势出分别的人际交往、经济、生活家居与工作板图;而最非常容易产生难题的，居然是任何一方过多的牺牲与忍受。

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jiaruocankaodaanshihaowuyiwende，neimagongxigongxi：nizongsuanjuyoulexingfukuailedenengli。niyounaxiehunyinganwu?