聪明的女人婚后决不问丈夫这一句话

婚后怎么维持好家庭 ?我国上亿男人，每一男人的工作不一样，工作能力有差别，获得社会发展的收益大自然就各有不同，即然女人挑选了，就应当接受现实，知足长乐，要是男人尽了力，人们就沒有指责她们的原因。

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