婆家与娘家 春节回哪个家？

 zaiwoguotuixingdushengzijihuashengyuzhengcejijing30geshijian。shoupidushengzizaoyijindaojiehunnianling，tamengouchengdejiazhongbeichengzuo“shuangdujiazhong”。 kaifangshihunyinhaoma ?xiangyaoyichangkuayueshikongdehunyinma?

 yuze，jianglai10nian，baohandushengziyudushengzi、dushengzihefeidushengzigouchengdejiazhongjiangchaoguoqianwange，bingzhujianbianchengshehuifazhandeliuxing。

 tamenzhongdemeigerenshibabamamaweiyidexiaohai，shouhoubabamama“xinnian”duitamenlaijiang，yongyoubifeidushengzijiazhongzhiguanzhongyaodeshijiyiyi。shubuzhi“xinnian”tiaoxuanhuipopohuanshizouniangjia?peizhezishendebabamamahuanshipeizhelianrendebabamama?zheiyinantirangdushengzifuqimenfanlenan。

jiaonijidazhaoguogetuanyuannian

1haojiazhong：anzhaofengsuxiguanhuinannvshuangfangjia

 lihongshifengcheren，shangdaxueshijiejiaolerujindezhangfuzhoulin，erzhoulinshishanxiren，lianggerenxiandouhuinanchangshigongzuozhong。suiranliniangjiarenhenjin，danlihonggennanpengyouzaihuijialenantishang，shizhongjianchibuxiechuantongshihuipopoxinnian。

 “shangnian，womenliangwanhun，zhoulinjiababamamaguannianjiaoweichuantongshi，jianchibuxieyaorenmenhuishanxisheng。neishihou，womuqinqidairenmenjiujinyuanzehuifengchede，danshiwodebabajuede‘wulaoguijubuchengfangyuan’，yaorenmensuzao‘dajuyishi’guannian，rangzhenqingzaihemudefenweizhongtiwen。deque，fanhuishanxishenghou，wojiapoyijianzhoulinjiuyouqinyoubao，duiwomenyefeichangganxiele。”

 juxinwenjizherenyidiaoyanshujuxianshi，jin40%deshouzhongjuedexinchunjiajieshizhonghuawenhuadechuantongminzujieri，anfengsuxiguanxifuershipoporen，yinciyingdanghuipopoxinnian。

2haojiazhong：gebupianxianglunzhehuijiale

 kaifangshihunyinhaoma?liaoxiaoyuheweichenggezishizhangsharenyufuzhouren，liangrenzaishenzhenyigongzuozhong6nian。“zuikaishi，renmenxinchunjiajieshiniangjiapojialiangcejianjude，keshi，chunyunqijianjijiejiaotongchuxinggongzuoyalifeichangda，renmenyincishizongsuangoudaohuochepiaofanhuijiangxisheng，youyaoshenpilijindizaizhangshahefuzhoujianfeiben，benzhishoubule，fumukanjianyexintong。zhei2nian，renmendachengxieyi，liangjialunliulai，shangnianzaiweichengjialiyeguodenian，2019nianjiuhuiwomenjiaguonianla。”liaoxiaoyuxinggaocailieduijizheshuo。

 zaifangtanzhong，jizhelejiedao，suizhishehuifazhandefazhanqushi，dangdairenzhenduichuantongshideweichiyulaiyujianruo，huipopoxinnianzhenduinvxingxiandeyouxiebujinrenqing。yinci，rujindabufennianqingfuqikaituochuangxin，tiaoxuanliangjia“lunliuzuozhuang”defangfahejiatuanyuan。erzaibencixinwenjizhederenyidiaoyanzhong，yeshijin40%derenzantongzheiyizuiheshidedejihuafangan。

3haojiazhong：liangjialaonianrenjuzaiyikuaier

 1yue27rishixingqiri，nanchangwankesijihuachengzhimaidelongdemaidongxidabazuijinqiyongle。xiaoquyezhuliuxianshenghelaopomangzhegouzhinianhuo。liuxianshenglezizidigaosujizhe：“chunjie，womenshuohaobaliangjialaonianrensuoyoushoudaonanchangshilaixinnian，deduotiqianzhunbeimouxiewupin。”juliuxianshengxiangxijieshao，hewolianrenzhiqianyechangweixinchunhuijiadeshikunao，2007nian，taxiadingjuexinhuanleyizhengtaosanfangertingdehuayuandahuayuanyangfang，“fangwubianda，yezhudexiale，baliangjialaonianrenjuzaiyikuaierxinnian，fangxin，yefanhua。”

 xiangliuxianshengyizheileifangfaguotuanyuannian，dequeneng“jiedahuanxi”。danshi，zaixinwenjizhedediaoyanzhong，dabufenrenbiaoda“zhuzhai、zijinyouxiangongsi，babamamawaichumafan”，zhineng10%derenbiaodahuicanzhaoshixing。

 chucizhiwai，youguan“gebendongxi”gehuimeijiaxinniandejihuafangan，juedaduoshurenbiaodawufajiena。caifangdewushiduorenqun·zhong，zhinengyimingnvxingchengrujintongxin、hulianwangbijiaofada，bicibabamamayoujiaoweiqiyong，xinnianhelaogong“suiyi”gongjian。

babamamayuanwang：yijiazigaogaoxingxingzuiguanjian

 erlizhiniandedushengzihuinagexinnian，zheiyinantikanshangqushiyixiefenqi，danyaoshiyonglianghaodexintailaikandaita，fenqijiuhuidaziranjiejue。zaibencifangtanzhong，xiangduixingyudushengzi，xuduobabamamaduizinvhuinagexinniandenantifanerkanqilaibaorong。

 nanchangqingshanhuzhuzhaixiaoqulixiuganbugongxianshengbiaoda，ernvyouernvdekunnan，xinnianquyuefumujiahuanshihuibabamamajia，taqidaidaerziyuxifuerhaohaodishangyi，jiarucouhehuinage，zongshinaodedahuoeryebukaixin。yiner，zuobabamamadehaiyaobaobaorongdexintai，chongzuyuanliangernv，bubitaizaihu。

 kaifangshihunyinhaoma?55suidetuixiugongrenliuxianshengshuo：“woyulaobanerzhunbei2019nianliangrenxinnian，guinvgangjiachulai，bukeyijitaguoduogongzuoyali，renmenyeledeqingqingsongsong。wojuedeya，yaoshipingchangguinverxifuzhenshiguanzhurenmen，renmenjiukaolvle。”

zhuanjiarenwei：xiaoshunfumubukejuyufangshi

 jiangxicaijingdaxuezaoxingyishuyuchuanboxueyuanzhuanjiajiaoshouzhangqingshengshizhongzheyanyuminsuyanjiu。youguandangdairenxinchunjiajiehuinajiajiadenandian，zhangqingshengjuede，xinchunjiajiezainannvshuangfangjiaxinnian，tashiziguyilaiyinfuquanzhishehuifazhandejiaqiangerchengchuandezheizhongminsufengsuxiguan，yaogaibingbuyi。danshehuifazhanzaifazhan，dajiadeyishiyebuduanchuangxin，xianrujinzainannvshuangfanghuanshinvxingjiaxinniankanqilaibingbushiguanjian。yixiediqujuedezainvxingxinnianhuijinvxingniangjiarenchanshengbuxiangzhizhao，shishishangdoushiyiwangweijiaqiangfuquanzhixugoude。shijishang，daonvxingxinnian，shizhongshinvxing，buyidingjiushishuo“zhiqiguanyan”。

 “fengsuxiguanshinenggousuijiyingbiande，zhongyaoshirendeyishikaituochuangxin。renmenyaojiangfengsuxiguanshenxinjiankanghua、gexinghua、fengfuhua，laohuanglinenggoufan，zhongjiuyoulishishijiancaiyoujidianhelvdong;xinzhuangkuangyaokaolvdao，nengzhuanbiancaiyoushenmigan，caiyouhuoli。yiner，xinnianfanbuzhejunifengsuxiguan，kaixinsuanshifazhanshiyingdaoli!”zhangqingshengshuo。

 wulunshiqunannvshuangfangjiaxinnianhuanshiqunvxingjiaxinnian，zongzaisuonanmianzhanqianguhou。neima，yougaizenyangfuweibukeyiheernvyikuaierxinniandelaonianrendexintaizhuangtaini?duiyu，huadongjiaodaxintaizixunzhongxinfuzerenshumanjiaoshibiaoda，zheibixucongxialiehaoduogecengmianduofangmiankaolvdao。zuixian，laonianrenyaoxuehaodiaozhengqingxu，diaojieqingxuguanjiankaodeshizishen。laonianrenduizinvfeichangguanian，shifenqidaixiaopengyoumenshouhouzishen。zheileiqingxushinenggoulejiede。

 xiangyaoyichangkuayueshikongdehunyinma?danshi，xiaoyibufenlaonianrenbukeyilejieernvdekunnan，juedeernvbushouhouzishenxinnianjiushishuodanibudao，neiyangdeniantoushijishangshicuowude。laonianrenyingdangkuozhangzishendeweishenghuo、shejiaoquan，xunzhaozishendeganqingshiyong，laoyousuole、laoyousuowei，danshifenyikaoernv;zuoweizinv，zeyingdangzaipingshijiuduoguanaifumu，neiyanglaonianrenyejiuburongyiduixinchunjiajiedengchuantongjieribijiaominganhezaihu，jiangdilaonianrenxinlideqifuheshidiaogan;zuizhong，zuigaitishideshi，wuluntiaoxuanzainagexinnian，douyingshiqianhejialilaonianrengoutongjiaoliuhao，zhinenggoutongjiaoliujishinenggouhuodelaonianrendelejie，ranglaonianrenxinqingyukuaidiguonian。