怎么处理好婆媳关系，聪明的女人会如此处理婆媳关系

 zenmechulihaopoxiguanxi？“hunyinbushilianggerendeshi，ershilianggejiatingdeshi。”shide，yiduanganqingyidanjinruhunyin，jiuyiweizhelianggejiatingderonghe，jueduilianggerenxiangchushineimejiandan。

hunyinshenghuowangwangchongmankunnan，xuduosuosuideshiqinghuifanfuzhemoduifang，shenghuobuhuixiangrenherenditou。

jiarunibunengchulihaozheixiehunyinwenti，neimesuoweideaiqingjiuwufaweichinimenzhijiandeganqing。

jiarunichulidehao，neimenijiuhuiconglianrenguodudaojiating，zheishifeichanglingrenxiangwangde。

 jinruhunyinhou，xuduonvxingmianlindezuidawentishipoxiguanxi。henshaoyourennengzhijiekuayuezheiyizhangaijinruhunyin。ruguopoxiguanxichulidehao，wuyihuijihunhoudeaiqingshenghuozengtiandiaoweipin。

 raner，zaixianshishenghuozhong，bingbushisuoyoudenvxingdouzhidaoruhechulipoxiguanxi。yuchundenvrenjingchangbapoxiguanxigaodeyituanzao，zheibujinhuiyingxiangfuqizhijiandeganqing，yehuirangnidehunyinbiandefeichangkunnan。

 zenmechulihaopoxiguanxi？ruguonibunenghenhaodichulipoxiguanxi，nidezhangfujiangchuyunimenlianggezhijiandeliangnanjingdi。jishinidezhangfumianduini，tayehuimianlinjitamuqindailaigangadezhuangtai。tabunenghetamuqinyiqishenghuo。congzhangyuanlaikan，tahuiduinideganqingzaochengchuangshang，daozhiyuelaiyueduodemaodun，ganqinghennanzhangjiu。

ercongmingdenvrenzebutong，congmingdenvrenyibandouhuizheiyangchulipoxiguanxi。

一：尊重婆婆

 zunzhongshixianghude。zhiyoudangnizunzhongbierenshi，bierencaihuizunzhongni。poxiguanxiyeshiruci。congmingdenvrenshenzhizheigedaoli，tazhidaoruhezunzhongpopo。

 henduoshihou，youyunianlingdedaigou，popoheerxizhijianhuiyoufenqi。zaizheigeshihou，congmingdenvrentongchangbushitebieqiangying。jishitayuemudexiangfabuheli，tayebuhuilijifanbo。tahuirenzhenqingtingpopodexiangfa，ranhouyongqingganhelijie。

 tayeshenzhi，duiyuzhangfulaishuo，xiaoshunshidiyiweide，popohetadouhenzhongyao，suoyitabuhuiwuyuanwugudizhizaomafan，yebuhuirangzhangfujiejuemaodun。zaizheigeguochengzhong，tajiangchongfenzunzhongpopozuoweimuqindequanli。

 jishipopohezhangfuzhijianyoumaodun，tamenyehuixiaoxinchuliduifangdeqingxu，yimianrangpopojuedezijibeipaichuzaiwai。zheiyang，popoyehuiganshoudaotadewennuan，wulunpopoduomexiongmeng，zongyouyitianhuibeigandong。

二：坦诚相待

 dangxuduonvxingyupopofashengzhengzhishi，tamenxihuanbaoyuanzijidepengyouhuozhangfu。ranhoutamenyougengduodeshijian，wentimeiyoujiejue。tamendeyuanhenyuelaiyueyanzhong。tamenjuedetamendeyuemumeitiandouzairenaota。

 raner，weiquanshijiedefumugandaonanguo，wenwennaweimuqinbuxiwangtadejiatinghehexie。yinci，yinzangnisuoyoudebumanbuhuihuanjienidemaodun，danhuizengjiahenduowujie。

 congmingdenvrenbuhuizheiyang。congmingdenvrenhuiduipopochengshi，bazijidexiangfagaosupopo，zheiyangbicizhijiandejulijiuhuigengyuan，zhujianbiandemeiyougehe。

 ruguonijuedepopodeyixiezuofashibuhelide，nibuhuizaibeihoubaoyuan，ershizhaodaoheshideshijianhedidian，lengjingdigaosupopo，zheizhongxiangchufangshihuimanmanchengweiyizhongxiguan，bicixiangchuhuiyuelaiyuerongyi。

popoyehuibazijidexiangfagaosuni，poxizhijianmeiyouyijianrugu，zaizhangqidemohexia，bicicaihuizhenzhengrongruzheigejiating。

三：及时解决问题

youxienvrenzaiyudaopoximaodundeshihou，huixiangdaorenyicifengpinglangjing，tuiyibu，danxianshizhendeshituiyibutuibizishanglian。

 jiuxiangnimeitianjiyigerenyiketang，ruguonibuji，tahuijuedenibugouyouqu，danshidangnimeitianjiyigerenyigequantou，tahuiganjini。

 tebieshidangwentiduijideshihou，dengdaoyouyitianhuitouxiangjiejue，jiuhuifaxianmeiyoubanfakaishi，xianzaideqingkuangyijingbiandemanmuchuangyi。

 yinci，dangniyudaowentishi，buyaotaobi，yebuyaoyiciyouyicidirenshou。congmingdenvrenyidanyouwentijiuhuijiejue。tamenbuhuijileisuoyoudebukuaile。ruguotamenyudaowenti，tamenhuijishiyupopogoutong。tamenbuhuirangpopo，dantamenbuhuiguyizhenduipopo。

 zheiyang，yicijiejuewentijiubuhuiyinqibicizhijiandebuyukuai，yebuhuirangzhangfunankan。ruguonizijijiejue，niyehuijiniyuemumianzi。zuihaodefangmianshibuyaorangzijishouweiqu。

 zenmechulihaopoxiguanxi？duiyunvrenlaishuo，bushiyouleaiqingjiunenggaozhenwuyou，haiyaobazijidehunyinguanlihao，haiyoupoxiguanxi。zhiyoujiatingchengyuangandaoxingfu，yigejiatingcaihuixingwangfada，yuelaiyuehao。