为何中国的婆媳关系大多不好，怎么处理好婆媳关系

 zenmechulihaopoxiguanxi？yebuzhidaoshenmeshihoukaishi，"popo"yiqiaoqiaobianchengyige"bianyici"feichangyouyizhong"langlaile"ganjue。popoheerxideguanxizhendehenweimiao。tamenbujinguanximiqie，erqieshitianshengdeyidui"maodunti"，poxiguanxiyechengweiyigechijiudehuati。

wodetongxuexiaolin，shiwomendouxianmudeyigeren，yinweitazaidaxuelihezhangfutanlianai，biyehou，liangrenjiehunle。

 xiaolindezhangfuzaijiazuoshengyi。tadefumuzaishenzhenweitamenmaileyitaosanjushidemaileyitaosanjushidegongyu。zuoweiyigeershiduosuidenianqingren，womenlikeyongyouleyitaowanzhengdefangzi。womenbujinxianmuta，yexianmuta。

 genglingrenxianmudeshi，xiaolinzaihunhoudiernianshengleyigeerzi。womendouqubaifanghezhuhe，danxiaolinjiwomenpolekushui。yuanlaitarangwomendouxianmudeshenghuobingbulingrenmanyi。

 popoquankuanmailefangzi，shuoshijierzimaide。raner，tashidiyigebanjinxinjiaderen，tadepopoyizhizhuzaizhuwoli。xiaolinjiehunhou，liangdairenzhuzaiyiqi，shenghuohenbufangbian。

 woyuemumeitianliudianqichuang。dangtaqichuangshi，tadadianhuajitadeerxixiaolin，qingtabangmang。tamenyiqizuozaocan。meitianzaoshangshangbanshi，xiaolindouhenkun，dakeshui。laonianrenchidongxideweidaohenzhong。xiaolinbuxiguanchidongxi。tadetizhongjijuxiajiang，dantajianfeile。xiaolinzuofanshi，popobuxihuanqingdandeweidao。

 popoheerxi，yinweichifandewenti，yinweiqichuangdewenti，yinweipopobuzhuyiweishengdewenti，zhishineidou，meiyoushubailun，yeyoujishilun。jingchangfashengchongtu，poposhuo："zheishiwomaidefangzi，zheishiwodejia，zhubuguan，chibuguan，nijiuzou！"

 dangxiaolinhuaiyunshi，tayishengqijiubanchuquzufangzi。raner，erzichushenghou，chuxianlexindewenti。ruguotaqushangban，sheilaidaihaizi？tamenbudebubanhuipopojia。

 zheiyicipopogengjiazhigaoqiyang，taduierziheerxiershuo："yihounimentinghua，wojiuguan，nimenbutinghua，wojiubudaihaizile，leisile，haiburuquguangchangwu。"xiaolinzhinengrenqitunsheng，riziguodebiequnanshou。

 tinglexiaolindejingli，woturanjuede，suirangongrenmenguozhejiankudeshenghuo，dantamenrengranguozheshushideshenghuo。poxizhijianouerhuiyoumaodun，dantabingbuzongshizhenfengxiangdui。

poximaodunzaizhongguorucipubian，libukaiyixiejiatingchuantongguannian。

poxiguanxibuhao。youpopodeyuanyin，xifuyeyaofanshengziji。

婆婆之所以宽大，是因为她付出的太多

 woyuemutaikuanle。wojingchangtingdaonianqingrenzheiyangbaoyuan。zhongguofumuqueshiguanlidetaiduole。haizimenjiehunhou，tamenbubatamendangzuochengnianren，rangtamendulishenghuo，ershixiangganyuyiqie。

 dangnianqingrenjianlileyigexinxindejiating，suoyitamenyinggaiduli。weishenmetamendeyuemuzaierxiheerzidejialirucizixindiguanlizheigeheneige。woyuemuguanlidegengduo，yinweitajuedezijifuchulegengduo。

 zenmechulihaopoxiguanxi？woerzidehunyin、fangzi、qiche、zhuangshihejiayongdianqidoushiwoyuemuyishengzhongdabufenshijianjileideqian。woyuemubaqianhuaguangle，juedeerzidejiajiushitazijidejia。jishishifuyehualeneimeduocailicaijiehun。tabunengzhaogutama？

 gengduodejiatingshizaixiayidai，zheijiangshipoxizhijiandemaodungengjiayanzhong。yinweizaierxishengwanhaizihou，daduoshujiatingdoushiyoupopozhaogude。dangpopozhaoguhaizishi，tahuiduopeipeihaizi，bingcanyujiaoyuhaizi。liangdairenyoubutongdexiangfa，henrongyichanshengmaodun。

婆媳矛盾的主要原因是丈夫不能独立

 womendaduoshupopoheerxizhijianmaodunyanzhongdejiatingdouyouyigegongtongdian，neijiushinanhaiyanzhongyilaifumu。ruguonizaimeijianshishangdouyaowennidefumu，ernidefumuheerxibuyuanyitingtamendeyijian，jiuhuiyouhenduomaodun。

 xiangfan，weishenmeguowaipoximaodundejiatinghenshao？yinweierzihenzaojiudulile，ruguopopoganshexiaojiatingdeshiqing，erzibuhuixiantongyi，yebuxuyaoerxishuohua。yinci，duiyuneixiefeichangtingmuqinhuadeerzilaishuo，jiatingmaodunjiuyuemingxian。

处理好婆媳关系，让家庭更幸福

 ruhechulipoxiguanxi，rangzijideshenghuogengxingfu，henduonianqingrendouyishidaoleyixiedaoli。liru，jinliangbuyaohenideyuemuzhuzaiyiqi。ruguoniyoubutongdexiangfa，buyaorangnideyuemubangzhuzhaogunidehaizi。baochijingjiduli，buyaoyilailaonianren。

 zenmechulihaopoxiguanxi？youxierenshuo，suiranlikaitayuemudeshenghuohenku，dantabunengjixuxiaqu。ruguonixiangdedaoniyuemudebangzhu，niyinggaixuehuiyoushidangdenaixin，henideyuemuxiangchudehenhao。hexiedejiatingguanxi，keyiguoshangxingfudeshenghuo。