家庭婆媳矛盾怎么解决，聪明的女人会这样处理

 jiatingpoximaodunzenmejiejue？zaihunyinguanxizhong，chulefuqizhijiandewenti，zuinandeshipoxiguanxi。poximaodunyeshihunyinweijidezhuyaoyuanyinzhiyi。xuduoyikaishixiangaidefufuzuizhonghuiyinweipoxizhijiandemaodunerfashengjiufen.chuxiangehe，ranhoujieshu。

suoyi，henduonvxingyeyuelaiyueduo“konghun”tamenhaipadebujinjinshihelingyibanxiangchu，haiyouhelingyibandejiarenxiangchu。

 “hunyinbushilianggerendeshi，ershilianggejiatingdeshi。”shishishang，yidannikaishilehunyin，chulipoxiguanxishibukebimiande。

 buguo，popobijingbushimuqin，tahennanyongyikeduidainverdexinlaiduidaini。yucitongshi，popoyeshizhangfuxinzhongbunengfangqideqinren。

 yinci，ruguonibunengchulihaopoxiguanxi，hunyindeshibaiwangwangshibukebimiande。jishihunyinmeiyoushibai，nihenidebanlvzhijiandeguanxihuoduohuoshaoyehuishoudaoshanghai。

yinci，xuehuichulihaopoxiguanxi.jianshaopoximaodunshifenzhongyao。shouxian，nixuyaozhidaoweishenmepopozongshizhenduini。

yuanyinwufeishiwobuxihuanni“huaimaobing”renweinidaizouletadeerzi，huozheniduitadeerzibugouhao。

 niyaoxuexi“duizhengxiayao”，jiashangshidangdeshouduanhejiqiao。erjiuxuyaonimingbai，poximaodunda，congmingdenvrenhuizheiyangchuli，shouduancongming，yiqilaikankanba。

01.学会“和解”，表面顺从

poximaodundadeyuanyinzhiyishipopobuxihuanni“huaimaobing”shenzhirenweinibushitalixiangzhongdexifu。

danshishishang，zheibingfeizhiming。yinwei，zheixie，“huaimaobing”buyidingshizhendehuaiwenti，yexuzhishinimenzhijiandefenqi。

 jiatingpoximaodunzenmejiejue？liru，zaihuaqianfangmian，tajingchangrenweizijimaileneimeduoyifu.huazhuangpinmeiyong，shibaijiadebiaoxian。

erdangchuxianzheiyangdemaodunshi，ruguonimangmudihetazhenglun，zhihuirangshiqingbiandeyuelaiyueyanzhong。

 zaizheigeshihou，niyinggaizuodeshixuehuihetazaiyiqi“hejie”。zhenzhengde“hejie”biaomianshangfucongta，zunzhongtadeyijian，qishineixinhaishijianchizuoziji。

 dangbutongdexiangfachuxianshi，nihuifucongta，dannirengrankeyizuonixiangzuodeshi。shuobaile，jiushijianshaohetadezhengzhi，rangtajuedenizhishaobuhuifanbota。

02.减少面对面的战斗，避免冲突

 poxizhijiandemaodunhenda，dabufentongguozhengchaohechongtuyiciyouyicijileiqilaide。yinci，mianduipoxizhijiandemaodun，congmingdenvxinghuizhidaoruhejianshaojijidezhandou，bimianchongtu。

 ruguoniduipopoyoushenmekanfa，zuihaodebanfajiushirangzhangfuzhanchulai，congtadejiaodutichujianyi，erbushizhijiehepopoduizhi。

niyaomingbai，tahuiyuanliangtaerzishuodehua，danruguoshini，qingkuangjiubuyiyangle。

 yuqihetazhengmianjiaofeng，buruxuanzeyizhongweiwandefangshi，rangzijiwuyouwulv。shishishang，zaihunyinzhong，zhangfushipoxiguanxizhongzuihaodediaoheji。

 ruguozhangfunengbanyanhaohejierendejiaose，poxizhijiandemaodunziranhuishaodeduo。dangran，zhangfunengfouzuohaoqujueyutazijideqingshanghenishifouhuijiaota。

03.不要撞到枪口，给另一半留足面子

mianduipoxizhijiandemaodun，congmingdenvrenzhidaoruhebudaqiangkou，dansuoweide“qiangkou”jiushipopoduierzideguanxin。

dangtajuedeniduitadeerzibuhao，huozheniqiangjieletadeerzishi，taziranhuidaochuzhenduini.taoyanni。

 zaizheigeshihou，congmingdenvrenzhidaoruhebikaileiqu，yejiushishuo，xuehuijiazhuang。zaipopomianqian，niyinggaijilingyibanliuzugoudemianzi，birubuyaosuiyidadianhuajita.burongyimata。

tongshi，niyeyaozhuyizijizaipopomianqiandexingwei，jinliangjianshaoshiaidexingwei。

 buguanniduinizhangfusajiao.shihuan，haishinihezhangfuzhijiandeqinmixingwei，neishinimenzhijiandegerenyinsi，zailianggerenxiangchudeshihoujiuxingle。

erqiezaipopomianqian，yidingyaoxuehuiweizhuangheshoulian。

04.以丈夫和孩子为桥梁，重建关系

 poxizhijiandeguanxi，bujinjinshijianbanuzhang，jingshuibufanheshuizheiliangzhongqingkuang，zhenzhengcongmingdenvren，shinengbapopoyezhaolaide。

bingqieyaozuodaozheiyidian，jianyinizuitianyidian，yizhangfuhehaiziweiqiaoliang，zhongjiannimendeguanxi。

nibuxuyaoyizhiquyueta，yebuxuyaoweizhenggejiatingfuchuyiqie，nikeyitongguozhangfuhehaizidezui，banidexinchuandijita。

 liru，jingchangzaizhangfumianqianshuo：“zhangfu，mamazhendeburongyi，nikantameitianzuoneimeduoshi，suirantaduiwoyouyijian，danshitazhendeweizheigejiafuchulehenduo。”

huozhe，nikeyijingchangzaihaizimianqianshuonainaihao，qianyimohuadibanideshanliangchuandijipopo，rangpopomingbainidexinyi。

 qishitamendoushiyijiaren，youduoshaopopozhendekanbudaoxifu？shuodaodi，niyinggaixianjinipopoyixiehaode，danshiruguotajiangdaoli，tadexinjiuhuizhujianxiangnichangkai。

yaozhidao，yidanpoximaodunwufajiejue，nimendehunyinjiuhuizoudaojintou。

zainihepopozhijian“shuihuobuxiangrong”zhangfudezhuangtaiwangwangshizuinanxuanzede，zheiduanguanxiziranbuhuijixuxiaqu。

dianshiju《popolaile》zhongdehelinhewangchuanzhijiushizheiyang，qichuliangrendeganqinghenhao。

danshihoulai，helin、popohewangchuanzhidegesaozhijiandemaodunyuelaiyueda，liangrenyezoushanglelihundedaolu。

jiuqiyuanyin，shipopoduitayoutaiduodekanfa，renweitayouhenduochengshinvhaidewenti，yutamendexiangxiarenbuyiyang。

 erqiehelintaiduole“ganaiganhen”zongshihepopozhengfengxiangdui。yucitongshi，wangchuanzhiyebanyanleyigebuhaodediaohejidejiaose。

 poxizhijiandelianghaoguanxishi，popobanidangzuonver，ernibubapopodangzuomuqin。tabanidangzuonver，zhenchengdiduidaini；nibubayuemudangzuomuqindeyuanyinshinibunengbaniduimuqindesiwujidanpopo。

 jiatingpoximaodunzenmejiejue？zongzhi，yigejiatingyaoxianghemuxiangchu，yongyuanlibukainvrendexingwei。yinci，zaizunzhongtadetongshi，nixuyaoxuehuiyunyongzhengquedeshouduanhejiqiao。