然后解决婆媳矛盾，婆媳关系闹僵了如何处理

 poxiguanxinaojiangleruhechuli？poximaodun，yongyuanshihunyinzhongbukebimiandeyihuan。chulidehao，hunyinshenghuoxingfu，jiatingheyiqiedouxingfu；chulidebuhao，meitiandouxiangzaizhanchangshang，zijibanyanzhexiaofangyuandejiaose。

zuoweiyijiazhizhudenanren，ruhechulihaopoximaodun，shifeichangzhongyaode。

zheibujinkaoyanlewomendezhihui，yetixianlewomenzaihunyinzhongdejiazhi。

jintianwomenjiulaitantannanrenyinggairuhechulipoximaodun。

要体谅妻子

 qizishiyigejiatingdefengshui。shishishang，zheishiyoudaolide。ruguoqizixianhuidongshi，jiatingqifenjiuhuiqingsongshushi；ruguoqizimeitiandoushengqi，zheigejiatingdexiaoshengjiuhuishaoyixie。

 erzuoweiyigenanren，tashiqiziweiyideyikao，ruguobunengzhanzaiqizizheibian，neimehunyinjiugengrongyichuxianbukediaohedemaodun。

xuduonvxinglihun，xianranshiyouyupoximaodunzaochengde，qishizhangfudetaiducaishinvxingxiadingjuexinlihundezhenzhengyuanyin。

 ruguoyigenanrenbunengzhanzaifashengchongtushi，nanrenbunengzhanzaiqiziyibian，ershixuanzehemuqinyiqizemaqizi，jieguohuifeichangyanzhong。jishizheijianshibenshenshitaqizidecuo，zuizhongyekenengchengweilingyichangzainan。

 zuocuoshiderenzhidaotacuolema？worenweiwomenyinggaizhidao。jiranwomenzhidaole，womenjiuyinggaitingxialai。mangmudezhizehezemazhihuirangduifanggandaoyuelaiyuebushufu，shenzhichanshengdichuqingxu。

jibierenliuyigetaijie，yeshijibicideguanxiliuyixiekongjian。

 yigenanrenyinggailejietadeqizi，rangtadeqizigandaowennuan，fouzeyidanyigenvrenyoulezijishiyige“wairen”neiyihouzheigejia，kongpajiubuhuineimewennuanle。

muqinshuoqizihuaihua，yaodatongqingpai；

妻子说母亲坏话，想打家庭牌

 dangmuqinzainimianqianlaotaoduifangshi，nibuyinggaitongyi，gengbuyongshuotongyile。xiangfan，niyinggaicongqizidejiaodulaitanlunqizidekunnan，biruyuanjia、nuligongzuo、duzizhaoguhaizidengdeng。

yaorangmuqinxinlichanshengduiqizidetongqing，juedezheigenvhaijiehunburongyi。

renjiabenkeyizaijializuofumushouzhongdexiaogongzhu，pianyaojiaguolaisihoulaohouxiao，shenzhichuquzhengqianyangjia。

zhiyourangmuqinxinlijuedeqiziyeburongyi，cainengrangmuqinxinlichanshengtongqing，youtongqingziranyoutiliang。

 youxienanren，dangtamendemuqinzaitamenmianqianshuotamenqizidehuaihuashi，tamenhuitongyi，shenzhizematamenqizidecuowu。tamenrenweiruguotamenzheiyangzuo，tamendemuqinhuihengaoxing。shishishang，zheizhihuishipoxizhijiandemaodunyuelaiyueyanzhong。

erqiedangqizizaizijimianqianshuomuqinbushideshihou，womenbunengdatongqingpai，ershidajiatingpai。

 yifangmian，tafuheleqizideshuofa，lingyifangmian，tashuotamuqindexinqingongzuo、yibashiheyibaniaobazijifuyangchengren。taxiaoshihouzaoshouleduoshaotongkuhezuixing。tabunenghushitazuoweigeerzi。

 rangnideqizijinkenengduodicongnidejiaodukandaiwenti。zhiyoudangnideqizilijienidechujingshi，tacaiyuanyicongnidejiaoduchuliwenti，bingqieduitadepopogengjiakuanronghexiaoshun。

不当妈宝男

 yuqiziliaotianshi，buyaodong“womashuo.”“womarang.”“womajuede.”jiuhaoxiangyiqiedoushimuqinrangzuode，erbushizijidexiangfa。

zheiyidianzaifuqiguanxizhongyouweizhongyao，xuduonvrenjiqitaoyanzheiyangdenanren，meiyouzhujian，yerangnvrenmeiyouanquangan。

womenbixugaibianwomendejiaose，rangzijicongyigejiaoduchufa“erzi”chengzhangweiyige“nanren”。

zaixuduonongcundiqu，erzijiehunhou，muqinhuixuanzefenju，zheiyangdezuofaqishishiyoujiejianyiyide。

erzijiehunhou，yaozili，chengweiyijiazhizhu，buyingshenghuozaifumudebaohuxia。

 dangran，womenyinggaiduli。ruguowomenbuchengweiyigemuqindenanren，womenjiubunengbazheizhongyilaizhuanyidaowomendeqizishenshang。dangxuduonanrenlikaimuqinshi，tamenbaqizidangzuozijidexinlijituo。

duiqizilaishuo，zuorenheshidoushilisuodangrande，zheishinanrenzuibeiaidedifang。

nvrenchangshuo:woyangleliangge“erzi”yigeshiwoshengde，yigeshiwojiade。

nanrenzaichulijiatingwentishi，buyaoguofenyilaimuqin，gengbuyaoguofenyilaiqizi，yaoxuehuiduli，youzijidexiangfa。

zhiyoudangwomenchengweizhengdulideren，womencainengzaichulipoxiwentishibupianbuyi，cainengkongzhijumian。

尊重父母面前的妻子

nanrenyouyigewenti，zaizijideqinrenmianqian，xihuanxuanyaozijideweiwang。

zongshiduiqizidahandajiao，youqishifumuzaijiadeshihou，youyizhongdesedeganjue，zongxiangzhanxianzijidejiatingdiwei。

zheizhongzuofakexiaoyouyouzhi。

 yexuzheiyangzuohuijiwomendailaichengjiugan，danduifumulaishuo，tamenhuoduohuoshaohuibeiniganran。tongchang，zaiyuqizigoutongshi，tamenhuishiquzunzhong，biandegengjiazhuanheng。

zunzhongqizi，bujinzunzhongtadexingwei，gengzunzhongtadexiangfa。

 tebieshizaixiayidaidejiaoyuwentishang，poxizhijiandemaodunyouweijilie，muqinzhuiqiudejiaoyufangshiyunianqingrenzhuiqiudejiaoyufangshiyouhendadebutong。

zuoweiyigenanren，yaonenggoujianrongzheiliangzhong，jibuhuirangmuqinshangxin，yebuhuirangqizigandaoganga。

 biruzaijihaiziyongniaobudewentishang，laorenjuedejihaizichuanniaobudewenti“tukuzi”gengjiankang，erqieqizirenwei，haiziyinggaichuanniaobu。

 poxiguanxinaojiangleruhechuli？yigejiandandexiaowenti，henrongyirangpoxizhijianchanshengmaodun，muqinjuedezijiyeshiweilexiaosunzi，erqizijuedezijidehaiziyouzuizhongjuedingquan。

 youcikejian，ruguopingshinengduozunzhongqizidesixianghexingwei，zaixuduowentishang，jishiyijianbuhe，yenengduoyixielijie，shaoyixiebuman。

不要转嫁义务

zaiqizimianqiandatongqingpaishikeyide，danshiwomenbunengzhiwangbazijideyiwuzhuanjiajiqizi。

zuoweierzi，womenyinggaixiaoshunfumu，danwomenyebunengbazheizhonglisuodangrandiguijiuyuqizi。

fumuduiqizimeiyoushengyuzhien，qiziziranyemeiyoushanyangfumudeyiwu。

 yinci，xuduonvxingzaijiatingzhongbanyanzhexiaoshunfumudejiaose，danwomenyinggaizhidao，zheizhongtidaishiwomenqizijiyuwomendezuidalijie，erbushitadeyiwu。

ruhexiaoshunfumushiwomendeshi，danshiwomenbunengbazheizhongxiaoshunchuanjiqizi。

 youduoshaonvrenzaisihoupopodeshihou，yinweiyilianggecuowuerdaozhihunyinchuxianwenti，yinweipopodehuafoudingleqizisuoyoudenuli。zheizhongbeijubingbuxinxian。

yinci，rangqizidaitiwomendezeren，shiwomenzuochudezuicuodejueding。

shishishang，suoyoudepoximaodun，conggenbenshanghaishifuqiwenti，muziwenti。

jiaruwomennenggouchulihaofuqiguanxi，chulihaomuziguanxi，neimesuoweidepoxiguanxi，ziranyehuiyingrenerjie。

 poxiguanxinaojiangleruhechuli？poxizhijian，meiyoushenmeshenchoudahen，wufeishiaitongyigeren。suoyiguanjianshike，haishiyaokanzheigeren，ruhehuiyinglianggerendeaiqing。