婆媳关系闹僵了如何处理，学会这几招解决婆媳矛盾

 poxiguanxinaojiangleruhechuli？nishifoujingliguopoxizhijiandemaodun，nishifoufeichanghaipapoxizhijiandemaodun？nirenweinibunengjiejuetama？haishinibuzhidaogaizenmezuocainengyouxiaobimianpoxizhijiandemaodun？

 xiangwenwendaduoshunanxingpengyou，dangtamendeqizihetamendejiatingchongtu：nihuixuanzejiandingdizhanzainideqizipangbianma？nihuiyongyuanhetazaiyiqima？

ruguoniyoushangshuwenti，buzhidaoruhechulipopoheerxizhijiandechongtu，huoruheyufang？

分清“家庭”主次

 woxiangxinhenduopengyoukandaozheigebiaotihuijuedehenqiguai，shenzhiyouxiepengyouhuishuo：wobunengzaiguoqujiehun，zhinengzuoweitamendejia“erbashou”？

 shishishang，shishibingfeiruci。zheilideyouxianshixiangshi：zainihenideairenyijinimenliangrendejiatingzhong，nimenlianggedouhenhao，danjizhubuyao，yinweizainimendejiatingzhong，nishi“zhu”zaipopodejiadejialidangjiazuozhu。

poxiguanxinaojiangleruhechuli？zheishifeichangfeichangrongyiyinfapoxiguanxideyidian，neijiushi：shoushendetaizhang。

 dangpopojiayouwentideshihou，womenyinggaizuoyige“pangguanzhe”youjialiderenlaijueding，zijizhixuyaotigongyingjindeneifenlijiukeyile。

尊重婆婆

 womenyinggaimingbai，suiranwomendeyuemumeiyouyangyuziji，dantashitazhangfudemuqin，dangranshitazijidemuqin。yinci，womenyinggaizunzhongtazuoweiwomendemuqin，zunzhonglaorendeshenghuoxiguan，biruwomenxihuanchishenmehebuchishenme，birushenmeshihoushuijue，shenmeshihouqichuang，biruchuanyixiguandengdeng。

 zunzhonglaorendeaihao。nibunengsuiyichaoxiaohuobianditadeshenghuoxiguan。laonianrenzhidezunjing，gengbuyongshuowomendefumule，suoyiwomenyinggaishandaiwomendefumu。

遇到矛盾让老公说

 dangwomenyuyuemufashengyijianchongtushi，womenyinggaijishituichu，ranhouzhaodaowomendezhangfu，rangtatongguotasuoshuodefangshixiangyuemuchuandatadeyisi。

 poxiguanxinaojiangleruhechuli？zheiyangkeyihenyouxiaodibimianpoxiguanxi，yinweishitaerzishuode，jishitaxinliyouduobushufu，neimetayebuhuiguyizhenduierzi。