麻辣婆媳关系容易失调的主要原因

 “malapoxi、xifudemeihaoshidai、wodeyemanpopo……”poxidianshijucengchubuqiong，yanzhongfanyingchu“ poxiguanxi ”shiyiduitianrandebukediaohede“jiejimaodun”。

 《malapoxidianshiju》shicengnianpingzhidao，lishaohongjianzhidejiatingqinqingju，youguiyalei、wujun、helin、cengbaoyidengzhuyan。malapoxidianshijuyu2006nian7yue12riliangxiangyangshiyitao。jiangshuleyigeputongdesishitongtangjiatingsandaipoxizhijiandeenenyuanyuan。

 《malapoxi2》yeshicengnianpingzhidaodejiatinglunliju，cengbaoyi、guiyaleidengcanyuyanchu。《malapoxi2》gaijuzheyanyuputongrendeshenghuo，jihumeigeren、meigejiatingdoukenengyudaodemafanhewenti、kuailehexingfu，tongguo“mala”zheigeganjue、kouwei、shijiaoheguanxi，congfuqishenghuo、poxishenghuoheyijiarenguorizidejiazhangliduan，tongguodui“yinshinannv”zhongjiazhiguannian、qingganfangshihelunlidaodedeshanbiandetansuo，zhangyangzhonghuaminzugaoshangmeihaodesixiangdaodeheqingcao，gesongzhenshanmei，gesongziqiangbuxidefendoujingshenhetuanjieyouaijingshen。

 suhuashuo：“poxiqin，quanjiahe”。zheihuayouzheshuangzhongdehanyi。qiyishishuopoxideguanxirongqiayufouzhijieyingxiangzhezhenggejiatingzhongqitarenjiguanxi，rufuqiguanxi、qinziguanxi、xiongdijiemeiguanxiyijizusunguanxi。qiershizhipoxiguanxishijiatingneiburenjiguanxizhongzuiweimiao、zuinanchudeyizhongguanxi。

一、麻辣婆媳关系容易失调的主要原因：

1、关系的特殊性。

 jiatingjibenguanxiyouliangzhong：yizhongshifuqiguanxi，yizhongshiqinziguanxi，liangzhegouchengjiatingdejiegoujichu。malapoxiguanxizaijiatingrenjiguanxizhongyouqiteshuxing。tajibushihunyindeguanxi，yewuxueyuandelianxi，ershiliangzhongguanxiweizhongjiejiechengteshudeguanxi。

 yinci，zheizhongrenjiguanxiyiwuqinziguanxisuojuyoudewendingxing，erwuhunyinguanxisuojuyoudemiqiexing，tashiyouqinzideguanxihefuqideguanxideyanshenerxingchengde。ruguochulidehao，popohexifugezi“aiwujiwu”，guanxijiuhuirongqia。danshiruguochulibutuozehuishipoxizhijianchuxianliehen，nanyiqumibu。

2、利益分歧。

 poxitongzaiyigejiatingzhongshenghuo。yougongtongguishu，ziranyejiuyouzhegongtongjingjiliyi，shuangfangyezirandouxiwangjiatingnenggouxingwangfada。zheishipoxiliyiyizhideyimian。

 dantongshiyechangchangzaijiatingshiwudeguanliquan、zhipeiquandenggegefangmianfashenglefenqi，chuxianlemaodun，shenzhihuimingzhengandou。jishishipopoyuxifugongtongchijia，youyushuangfanggezidiweibuyiyang，kaolvwentijiaodubutong、xuyaobutong，yerongyichanshengfenqi。

3、相互接纳不良。

 poxiyuanlaigezishenghuozaibutongdejiatingzhizhong，geyouzijideshenghuodibeijing、shenghuodixixing，erxianzaipoxizaiyijiayiqishenghuo，zheijiuyouyigezhubudelejie、xianghushiyingdeguocheng。ruguoshiyingdebuliang，bicibunengjienaduifang，bianhuishiguanxijinzhang，maoduncongsheng。

4、中介失衡。

 zaimalapoxiguanxizhong，erziqizhefeichangzhongyaodezhongjiezuoyong。ruguoerzizhongjiezuoyongfahuidehao，zekeyijiaqiangpoxizhijianqingganlianxi，ruguoerzizhongjiezuoyongfahuibuhao，zerongyichengweimaodundejiaodian，chuxian “liangmianshoudi”dekunjing。

 fuqizhijianbijingzaihuodong、dasuan、kaizhiyijijiaowangdengfangmianyouzhegengduodegongtongdian，ererzihemuqinxianggeyidai，zaixintaishangcunzaizhechayi，zheiyangjiurongyizaochengerzizhongjiezuoyongdeshiheng。ruguomuqinbulijie，jiuhuichansheng“qulexifuwangleniang” zheizhongxintai，wurenweierziduimuqindeganqingbeierxiduoqule，erqiannuyuerxi。