怎样解决婆媳之间的矛盾：媳妇如何与婆婆友好相处

 wocongyikaishijiuxiaiwodejiapo。tahenwanqiang，tanlv，bingqiehaobuhanhu。yigezhenshidexianfengnvxing。nulierguoduan。suihou，yinweifuqindexinjigengsai，renmenyaoyuetahebabayikuaierbanrulai。neijiushi20henduonianqiandeshile。zenyangjiejuepoxizhijiandemaodun?xifuruheyupopoyouhaoxiangchu?

一、怎样解决婆媳之间的矛盾：媳妇如何与婆婆友好相处

 zheixienianwomenyiqilaiqinshenjinglilexuduo。chushi，bingzheng，huanxiaosheng，shengengbanyehemishi。kuaileshiguanghejianxinshiqi。laonianchidaizheixie。danzheijihudoubuyi。youyuwukefouren，yunideyinqinjiaowangjianghuijiushinihunhoushenghuozhongjuyouquweixingdecengmianqiyi。

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1.与你的老公维持一个势力

 tishilingyifangdajiadouhuixiangtongjingyingtuanduizhong。shiqianyikuaiertantaonanti，chanshengtongyizhanxian。youxianxuanzekaolvdao yutatongxingye - erbingbushi dizhita。

2.遵从你家婆的提议

 huoxu，tanenggouchushiyijianyujianyi，dantabingbushizaixinli。tashiweininhenindelaogongbaocundequanliheyiwu。yincireliehuanyingtadezhihuixing，dantadegongxiaojinxianzhuli。

3.不必由于琐事毁坏关联

 chuziyuzhongzhongyuanyin，jiaponenggoushuohuozuomouxieyinqifanyingdeshier，rutongbiedesuoyourendoumeifabaozhengdeneiban。dannibukeyirangtazainidejifuxia。ruguoniyaoqiu“qingbufangtang”shi，taxiangrangnidexiaohaifangtang?huoxushirangrenxinhande。cijixing，shide。dan。bingbushishijiehuimie。bubirangtaduijininengliang。

4.不必对大事儿作出妥协

 jianchibuxiezishendexinxin。zheizhongguishuyuyuxuqiubuyiyangdeleixing(“ditang”)。wobuqidainidexiaohaikanyixiezongyijiemuma?huoshi，taolunyixiezhutifengge?suihouhuaxianbingjixuxiaqu(niyunilaogongyuanyidenatiaoxian)。shanjierenyiheqinjin - danbuzhebunao。

5.让家婆尽量认可你的见解

 tashirenmenjianghuizuisiniandenage。renmenjiadingrenmendezhangmuniang“huodeta”，danbuguanzenyangdouhuidizhirenmen。danhenjianghuitabuzhangwoni，huoshinilaizinali。yincijitajiyugennizhuizong。jinninenggoubiaoshunidejianjie。

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6.给她一个机遇

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7.在某些事儿上表达你对她的重视

 zenyangjiejuepoxizhijiandemaodun?xifuruheyupopoyouhaoxiangchu?“aideguilv”shiyongrenmendejiapo。huoxufeichangduita。worenkeyiqianyouguoneiyangdeshike，woyuelaiyueguoducanjiazuozhanerzouleganqingyibufen。wobaoqian。